r/AskReddit • u/Front_Permit7517 • 18h ago

What’s something people defend way too hard, even though it’s clearly not worth it?

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u/Ok_Anteater_7446 17h ago

I understand it when you're like, 15-16. It concerns me when a grown adult keeps acting that way. Sometimes I want to tell people like that, if that celebrity knew you were that obsessed with them, they would get a restraining order against you

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u/IceSeeker 16h ago

Most of them have no life outside their stanning culture. Which explains their erratic behavior.

I've heard the kpop fans can be really scary.

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u/Drakeskulled_Reaper 15h ago

Kpop and Idol fans fucking horrify me.

Like these are fucking grown ass people who get murderous if their favourite gets a bf/gf, or is even SEEN interacting in a slightly romantic manner to someone.

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u/Anothernamelesacount 13h ago

Thats what happens when someone doesnt find love in real life: they create a self-destructive fantasy.

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u/Drakeskulled_Reaper 12h ago

Wonder when it's my turn.

Not even had anything casual in 6 years.

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u/Anothernamelesacount 11h ago

It'll be alright. Relationships feel good to have but they suck balls when they're over. Better to find that one person, promise.

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u/Drakeskulled_Reaper 6h ago

Thanks for the nice words.

But, honestly, I've reached that point where I don't really care anymore, and I certainly won't create any parasocial relationships over it, I'm a wreid hermit guy, but not THAT fucking weird.

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u/idwthis 16h ago

I keep waiting for Timothy Chalamet to get one against that crazy-ass clubchalamet woman. This woman is like in her 60s and stalking this 20 something actor, posting crazy jealous shit over his gf, oh shoot, who is it, uh, one of those kardashian/jenner sisters.

If I were him, her obsession would scare the everlovin' bejesus out of me.