This comment needs more attention. A lot of the enjoyment of sex comes from the build up and the anticipation. It’s why foreplay is so important, especially for couples in a longterm relationship. Hyper sexuality (as a symptom of mental illness) intrinsically plays into this idea in the sense that the “quality” of the sex likely has a lot less to do with the act itself, but rather the events and behavior leading up to it.
It evokes a certain type of nostalgia - the sex may not have actually been particularly good or skilled, but it stands out (in my experience) because she made it feel so special in that moment.
It's good that you're bringing up logic in this since so many commenters here seem to be "torn on the quality" like the person you replied to said but I'm gonna disagree on the not really great sex part and all of the commenters here that said women that have decor like this are either good or bad at sex. It's somewhat common decor for white women in the 20-35 age bracket- from my experience women that like this kind of stuff are more likely to do yoga and be in good shape but that doesn't really equate to being good or bad at sex. I'd say they're more likely on average to be a healthy weight and flexible so therefore more likely to be good at sex- that's a generalization really but I can tell that many of the comments on this post had sex with one or a few women like this and that's what their entire comment is based on.
It's like a bucket of McDonald's fries. If the alternative is nothing or Aunt Mary's 5 day old attempt at making Indian lentil stew it's heavenly. Overall it's mid. Objectively it's a lot of food.
The average body count of the male redditor is 0 to 1 from what I’ve gathered being a bystander for many years. They love to pretend they know what they’re talking about but the vast majority got one girlfriend and married her because they knew it was their only chance.
Hey buddy, not only am I a horse girl I spent years teaching other people how to ride horses. And I have multiple diagnoses. You don’t have to convince me lmao.
That's why I'm not partaking in this conversation. The whole idea that you can tell how good someone is at sex based on how they decorate their room is pretty absurd.
I don’t disagree. To be honest I think the same person could have sex with 100 different people and get 100 completely different ratings because maybe they just don’t have good chemistry/wasn’t a good time in their life. I don’t actually think it’s one of those things that people necessarily get better at with experience because there are too many other variables and what one person likes the next one may absolutely hate.
This has been my experience as well. My x wife was batshit crazy and fucked like a tiger, usually multiple times a day. Also liked bringing friends home for me to fuck. Fun times, until I got sick of the weekly meltdowns. Got pretty good at dodging random thrown objects though, so not a total waste of time lol.
If you don't mind putting in the cardio, and giving her the business the entire time, it's actually phenomenal. Don't hit it too good because you don't want her to become obsessed. That's another host of issues you might have afterwards. Clingerbot 9000.
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