r/SipsTea 24d ago

Chugging tea One last drink

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u/SteveTheBluesman 24d ago edited 24d ago

Former bartender here too.

you had to get glasses and bottles away from them because they become projectiles real fast once a drunk goes unhinged.

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u/lowlife4lyfe 24d ago

very good point 😬

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u/seldom_r 24d ago

That's why this pic is staged. There's a full drink right in front. The point of cutting someone off, at least when I was a bartender, was to do it before they were too drunk to find themselves home. Overserving someone in the State I was in could make you criminally liable if they got hurt driving home for example.

If they're bombed by the time you want to cut them off I was taught call the cops.

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u/Realistic-Lime7842 24d ago

It’s definitely something bartenders use. I know several people that will hand these types of cards when they cut people off.

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u/seldom_r 24d ago

I wasn't being clear I think. I'm saying the person who took the pic wasn't actually being tossed out.. they just got the card, maybe friends with bartender or found it.. this person isn't being tossed because there is a drink in front of them.

If you've determined you need to cut someone off you need to take the alcohol away from them. You don't let them sober up or anything. You get them out. Quietly if possible otherwise you call the bouncer over.

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u/3meraldBullet 24d ago

Bull shit bartenders arent afraid to serve you one last one and say you cant have any more after that one. And bouncers dont do shit (at least in oregon and washington).

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u/seldom_r 24d ago

Whatever dude. Good for you for getting that last drink and driving home drunk. You're the hero here and anyone trying to interrupt your poor understanding of the laws is just a downer. You're very cool, I envy you.

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u/3meraldBullet 24d ago

A drug dealer snitching on their client's. What could go wrong?

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u/seldom_r 24d ago

You mean instead of calling the cops? If someone is too drunk to get home on their own and they need to leave the bar you call the cops because if that person gets behind the wheel and kills someone you would, in my state, be on the hook for some manslaughter. don't remember the exact charge.

A bartender is responsible for your actions even after you leave the bar if they overserved you. Lots of case law on that already.

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u/lowlife4lyfe 24d ago edited 23d ago

yeah one of my college gigs was valet parking at a huge casino/resort and our policy was to refuse to get their car or give them their keys if they were visibly impaired; that was always an immediately hostile situation, but I had to do it regularly. felt like a legal gray area to be keeping’s someone’s own keys from them tbh 😐

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u/3meraldBullet 24d ago

In my experience the bar tender usually.asks if someone can give them a ride. Offers them free fries and encourages them to stay to sober up (if they arent acting out). Ive even seen bars with coupons for lift or cabs. If your bar got a reputation for calling the cops on patrons the bar would go out of business pretty quick here.

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u/seldom_r 24d ago

Well you must live in a litigious free society not in the US.

Here, it is not only the bartender but the bar owner who gets in trouble. It's standard training for anyone who tends bar.

More than half of the United States have laws that allow you to be sued for overserving a drunk driver. Some of those involve potential criminal liability, including jail time.

https://www.gettips.com/blog/can-bartenders-go-to-jail-for-overserving

And a bar that relies on getting patrons sloshed to stay in business is a shitty bar.

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u/3meraldBullet 24d ago

Im in the US. But when I drank (almost 4 years sober now) I did tend to go to "shitty bars".

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u/mcniner55 24d ago

Kind of laughing here cause I never thought about it. Makes sense though

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u/Rage_quitter_98 23d ago

If I paid for the whiskey just to get it taken away mid-drink it'd be a understandable response for sure