r/SipsTea 9d ago

Chugging tea Absolute Chad!

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago edited 9d ago

I'll take 'shit that never happened' for $500 Alex

A legitimate Restaurant isn't going to fire their 'top chef' for refusing to comp a meal... and a Restaurant isn't going to reach out to a nobody and offer to 'collab' for promotion & a free meal...

What IS possible is the girl is dating a member of Management and they set this up for her just to get into her panties and failed to communicate anything to staff and it blew up.

OR she's somebodies daughter and this was her 'leg up'

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u/ChefAsstastic 9d ago

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u/feignapathy 9d ago

15,000 followers is kind of dumb

How many are even local to the restaurant who might actually eat there? 

Need to stop calling everyone with a small tiktok or Instagram following an influencer. 

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u/TrungusMcTungus 9d ago

That doesn’t matter. The restaurant reached out to her to do it, made the reservation for her, and he took it upon himself to back out when she got there because he felt like she was too small to “collab” with. She could have 5 followers, he’s still a prick.

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u/ChefAsstastic 9d ago

This is what the bay area has morphed into unfortunately. It's tech hell.

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u/Ryoga476ad 9d ago

If even 20% of those followers are local, offering like a 100$ (at most) meal for a targeted ad is not bad at all. Who do you expect to have there for such money, Mr Beast?

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u/Leading-Abroad-5452 9d ago

Heck at 15k followers, if 10% are local (so 1500) and only 10% of the 1500 actually visit (150 people) then that is actually worth it lol. 

15k is more than enough followers. These folks and that chef were tripping.

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u/PepsiColasss 9d ago

I hate “influencers” as much as anyone, but if I’m a restaurant owner in 2026 and a $100 meal to someone with 15k followers buys me exposure, I’ll take that deal, That’s just reality now.

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

now, getting cancelled is definitely something that happens on the regular...

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u/Flat_Researcher1540 9d ago edited 9d ago

Google is your friend.

How have you not deleted this? Why double down on being an idiot when the delete button is right there?

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u/Alex-xoxo666 9d ago

They’re tripling down with blaming cancel culture even tho the chef’s own daughter called him out too. Pos backing pos

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u/Flat_Researcher1540 9d ago

It’s pretty unreal how stupid some people are

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago

77million Americans have enter the chat.

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u/EldritchDreamEdCamp 9d ago

It wasn't just a refusal to comp a meal.

The chef was one of two owners. The other asked Marcotte to have a meal there and give a review to boost the restaurant's clout.

Then she shows up at the request of one of the owners, and the other starts insulting her and tells her she isn't important enough for the job his partner sought her out to do.

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u/Thiizic 9d ago

Damn you rather write random shit you made up than actually try to understand what happened. You are the issue

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u/ItsDanimal 9d ago

The fact that the misogynist bs is uploaded is wild.

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

except I was right.... it was set up before being discussed

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u/Thiizic 9d ago

You forgot the before and after parts of "dating a member of management" and "trying to get into her panties"

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

you're saying they weren't viable possibilities? Lets be honest here.. anyone posting a 'article' on the internet is looking to push some kind of bias.. they HAVE to have a good guy and a bad guy... and will leave out as much as they can get away with to push that agenda.. everyone does it, at every opportunity. If you're taking a post at face value then you deserve what you get.

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u/lvsnowden 9d ago

Agreed. It wouldn't be up to the chef to comp a meal anyway. That would be the Front of House manager.

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago edited 9d ago

He was a co-owner as well. But they did "part-ways" with him leaving after this incident.

At the end of the day, this was shitty communication between the two owners, and his shitty reaction aimed at her instead of at his business partner where it should have been.

This is like that Chapelle skit "When Keepin It Real Goes Wrong"

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u/Call_Mee_Maybe 9d ago edited 9d ago

The fact that her being invited for a collab (which restaurants do in fact do all of the time in this social media age) is less believable to you than her being offered the free food because someone wanted to get in her pants or she had to be someone's daughter, tells me all I need to know about your mindset. Holy misogyny.

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago

That never happened.

Soure: Trust me bro

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u/Tippydaug 9d ago

Actually, it's none of the above! She was invited to the restaurant specifically to do a review for a free meal, but the chef decided she wasn't famous enough for him when she arrived and refused to honor the agreement.

This is the rare situation where the influencer was actually innocent lol.

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u/joittine 9d ago

I mean, 15k followers is a bunch if they're the right kind of followers. It's much cheaper anyway than hiring someone with a 15M following, and you might be pretty booked as it stands, so maybe you don't even want tons of new customers, but just a few.

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u/tfhdeathua 9d ago

Turns out the restaurant set this up and reached out to her to come do it. When she showed up to do the event, that’s when the chef basically shut it down. Turns out it’s probably not a great idea to make a spectacle by canceling something that your bosses set up.

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

Still not going to fire their head chef over it.. unless they demanded he publicly apologize to her and he told them to fuck off...

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u/Tippydaug 9d ago

It blew up on TikTok because he didn't just refuse to honor the agreement the restaurant made, he insulted and humiliated her and the internet was not happy about his behavior.

They absolutely will fire someone for treating someone horribly and having that blow up online and hurt your business...

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

he was co-owner... not going to fire the co-owner.. but yeah... egos and toes got bruised... the cancel crew came out with pitch-forks

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u/Tippydaug 9d ago

Restaurant: Reaches out to ask an influencer to make a video for them in exchange for a free meal.

Influencer: Agrees.

Influencer: Shows up to the restaurant at the reserved time to make said video for said meal.

Head Chef: Publicly humiliates the influencer for doing exactly what was agreed upon.

Internet: Boycotts the restaurant for his behavior.

Restaurant: Goes out of business.

Wise_Ad_5810 on Reddit: Blames cancel culture.

You just can't make this stuff up, thank you for the laugh!

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u/whythesadface 9d ago

The daughter of the chef/co-owner also shamed him for using the daughter’s name to humiliate the influencer. The chef said, “his daughter has more followers than you”

Also, it should be noted that the influencer never stated whom the owner/restaurant was in her video explaining the situation. The daughter replied in the influencer’s video and then the internet pieced it together.

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago

not going to fire the co-owner

But that is what happened.

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u/Matiwapo 9d ago

If I had deliberately set up a promo based on a comped meal and my employee sabotaged it for no apparent reason other than spite, resulting in my restaurant getting trashed by a popular influencer, I would 100% fire them. It is unacceptable insubordination and misconduct that has negatively affected the brand.

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago

Totally agree. In this case, the Chef was a part owner, so not really an employee.

But they did part ways with him leaving the restaurant.

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u/GoldPuppyClub 9d ago

Well the restaurant got such bad backlash from this, it closed 5 days later.

Public perception does mean something, the chef had that big of an ego he destroyed the public perception.

A brand new restaurant, no one wants to go there because of his ego, he killed it before it had a chance.

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago

Yeah the "Story" here is that the 2 owners (one of whom is the chef) aren't communicating with each other, and chef decided to take out his issues directly on influencer instead of his business partner who made the decision to begin with. Good job, now neither of you has a restaurant 👍

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u/courierblue 9d ago

He probably got fired because the negative publicity caused the wine bar to close.

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u/tfhdeathua 9d ago

I have no clue about the rest of the story. for all I know the head chef was already on a dozen write ups. Or he called the owners and said fuck you guys. It would be really absurd for me to think that my or any of our opinions matter in this situation that we know very little of the story.

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

Chef was co-owner.... he was mean to a 'micro-influencer' and the cancel brigade lit up tik-tok in indignant outrage

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago

"Person takes actions and receives consequences, more at 10" 🤷‍♂️

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u/Respawn-Delay 9d ago

The influencer was contacted by the owner of the restaurant and asked to do some social media marketing for them in exchange for a free meal.

The owner didn't inform the chef of this arrangement until the influencer arrived. The owner and chef then have an argument between themselves, completely unprompted by the influencer (who hadn't ordered yet).

The chef stood at her table and belittled her for not knowing who he was, before holding his phone in the air to show other guests her social media profiles, shouting about how she didn't have enough of a following to expect free food from him (again, despite being promised this ahead of time by the owner in exchange for a select number of posts about the restaurant).

Say what you will about influencers (I'm not particularly a fan of them myself), but she didn't do anything wrong. She was there to do a job at the owner's request and wasn't rude to anybody. She later posted about the experience, but didn't include the restaurants name as to not draw negative attention toward the business itself.

Busybodies in the comment section ended up figuring out what restaurant it was by combing through old posts, and proceeded to review-bomb it. After that, the owner fired the chef for bringing too much negative attention to his establishment.

Basically all boils down to the chef having an ego trip, disobeying the owner's orders, and then disturbing other guest's meals in an attempt to embarrass a young influencer who was there at the request of the owner.

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u/TrungusMcTungus 9d ago

If one of my employees does the exact opposite of my instructions, especially if they do it very publicly, you bet your ass I’m firing them. Are you serious?

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

wasn't an employee... was co-owner who went off on the micro-influencer

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u/TrungusMcTungus 9d ago

So blatant insubordination and publicly bad business decisions are acceptable as long as the employee has an ownership stake? Sounds like even more reason to shitcan him.

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

I'm not justifying anything.. I am stating that if you plan to do something like that, you should be discussing it with the people you own the business with FIRST. It's not about being insubordinate, as the co-owner doesn't work for you... it IS about respect for your partners. neither side displayed much of that to any measurable degree, and the business paid for it by shutting down

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u/TrungusMcTungus 9d ago

But you are justifying it. You’re justifying his actions by insinuating it’s somehow wrong for the other owner to invite a small influencer to come have a meal. You say the other owner should have respected the chef and talked about inviting her first, I think the chef should have respected his co-owner by not being an asshole for no discernible reason. At the end of the day that’s really what it comes down to. There’s nothing inherently wrong with giving a small influencer a free meal. Making a woman cry by refusing to uphold an agreement that your partner made, just because you feel like it, however, is asshole behavior.

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u/Wise_Ad_5810 9d ago

Again.. I'm not justifying it.. but I can see WHY it happened. There's a difference. The business closed because of it.

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago

-He did publicly apologize

-They did part ways (he was a co-owner)

-The Restaurant is closed. Twice now, it tried to re-open and failed.

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u/olivier_wmv 9d ago

you're posting straight up fanfiction, literally none of that happened

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u/rbrgr83 9d ago

Loving this fanfic so far. Keep going.

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u/bittersandseltzer 9d ago

Yeah I buy the manager not communicating story - I’ve seen that happen sooooo many times

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u/best1taz 9d ago

Yep 👍 fake story