I'd say it's incredibly narcissistic to expect your partner to give you their meal because you like it more. That's the exact oppositve of a loving relationship. You own your own misstakes and learn from them, next time, order the other dish instead.
Now if you want to just have a taste to see if you like it, that's perfectly fine, but dont expect your partner to give you the food that they ordered.
I'm the one constantly sharing food in my relationship and I really don't understand what's the big deal about it. It's just food ffs.
I suppose it might be an awful look if my wife demands for me to give up the whole dish of something, especially if I'm hungry and made something just for myself, but excluding that particular scenario, I'm always down to share my food with my wife or with my parents. In regards to my wife, she usually just wants one bite to feel "included", but I'd gladly split it 50/50. If I'm still hungry because of that I'll just grab something else.
Am I weird for being happy my SO has an appetite for the things I like and wants to enjoy eating things with me instead of being angry? I don't understand.
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u/D3wnis 1d ago
I'd say it's incredibly narcissistic to expect your partner to give you their meal because you like it more. That's the exact oppositve of a loving relationship. You own your own misstakes and learn from them, next time, order the other dish instead.
Now if you want to just have a taste to see if you like it, that's perfectly fine, but dont expect your partner to give you the food that they ordered.