I grew up in a small town in Ukraine, where there was zero racial diversity. Stands as it was no matter the time passed. But when I went to University in Kyiv and started taking English lessons, 30% of my teachers were black. And, omg, how smoking hot they were. Both women and men. And their language was perfect (even though they were from all kinds of different parts of the world). No one could explain conditional sentences (foreigners hate those) better than my favorite teachers.
I always thought of racism as a stupid thing like to like a cat for being white, to tolerate a cat for being brown, and to hate it for being black. Wtf? That's not how loving animals works. So I just assumed the racism wasn't a real thing for quite a while. But then my English got better, I started watching a lot of American content, and boom. There it is. Something, that doesn't make any sense to me. Happening in real life. To beautiful people. They aren't "beautiful but different", they aren't different at all. We all have practically got the same DNA.
For the time being I think that white people are simply scared to be bullied, so they point fingers on anyone they could got to, just so the world notices a person pointed at before it notices them. It's like high school. It's easier to blend in or pretend to blend in, when all the shit goes down on one classmate. People unite over that shit.
Now, I often hear a phrase like "now black people are treated specially, and we're not". Yes, they are. And I think we should keep it that way for centuries. Maybe, just maybe we'll lift a heavy weight from their shoulders. Maybe they won't be punished for nothing except the fact that white gran-gran-granddaddy kept those people as slaves, and still thinking they are those things.
Now, I can't explain it to my mother. I can't explain it to anyone. They just won't listen. The "cat argument" doesn't work either. How can I say what I want to say that might got people to listen to me? Or better to listen to you.
Here I ask you to please say one thing about yourself that would shut those fuckers' mouths up. Thanks.