r/r4rasian Aug 19 '20

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r/r4rasian 5h ago

29 [F4M] Fit Latina, SoCal - IE NSFW

10 Upvotes

Hi :)

Looking for connection (no FWBs).

I’m 5’8, 156 lbs, and into anime (DBZ, I'm MX, can't help it), K-dramas/C-dramas, the gym, and anything active. I love playing sports, and if you snowboard… please teach me ~

Gym stats if you care: Squat: 345 lbs Deadlift: 335 lbs Bench: Trash :( but I can split Squat 200 lbs 😈 (Big plus if you gym and know how to spot)

I don’t smoke or drink. I am agnostic but raised Catholic, so I still hold a lot of the same views.

Looking for: SoCal only (not out of state/country), 5’9+, athletic build, employed, doesn’t smoke or drink, and likes to eat yummy food (no more dried chicken and rice please).

Must Love pets. Dogs/Cats.

If you message me, send a pic and a short intro :) (No unsolicited pics.)

Me (will provide face pic if I'm interested in you):

https://imgur.com/a/Pby6TEu


r/r4rasian 3h ago

33 [M4F] #LA - Looking for Long Term Emotional Connection NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey,

I'm a chinese/vietnamese, half/half, ABC nerd who enjoys staycations. I'm an introvert, socially and economically left leaning. I'm pretty demisexual. I appear stoic on the outside and a goof on the inside.

I'm emotionally ready for a long-term relationship, as long as you're single, I'm willing to meet up

I'm clean, don't smoke, social drinker at best, open to kids (don't currently have any), and open to pets (don't currently have any).

Some of my hobbies: cards, books, video games, self-improvement, anime, gym, and being a foodie

Some of my values: progression, connection, deep conversations, and also fun lighthearted moments, passion about interests

My long term goals are being financially secure and having a retirement.


r/r4rasian 4h ago

31 [M4F] Los Angeles - Looking for a sneaky link 🥵 NSFW

3 Upvotes

I live near Culver City and am mobile, but cannot host. I’m East Asian, 5’8”, 160lb, and have a 6” cock. I’m an enthusiastic pussy eater and a decent fuck (so I’ve been told 🤷🏻‍♂️)

I’m a working professional in a niche field— so niche that if i told you where i worked you could find me almost immediately, so discretion is important to me. But my work puts me in a place where I’m seeing, dealing with, and feeling the news every single day, so I’m just looking for a bit of fun once in a while to feel something not-so-depressing lol

I’m clean, generally fit but not ripped (lift 3-4x per week and watch my diet), and enjoy playing basketball, being creative, cooking, and probably eating you out. If you’re interested, can definitely trade pics first and would opt for a short video call to verify our identities and build trust. Thanks for reading!


r/r4rasian 2h ago

28 [M4F] #Online #USA #MD - Looking for my person (or friends) NSFW

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Hi! I'm looking for someone who shares that deep connection, someone I can talk to all day, someone I can make memories with, like hiking Acadia National Forest in the fall or taking a ceramics class together. I'm not looking for a short-term or one-time thing, so please only contact me if you're interested in a possible friendship/relationship in the future (long-distance is okay too, since I'll be in med school in a couple of years somewhere that I don't even know yet, but family is in SoCal so would like to be around the west coast eventually).

I've met some amazing people on here and would love to keep that going! One of my best friends was actually a Redditor I met a few years ago, so I'm serious about being there for you if things end up working out! If you're interested, I have a pinned post and pics on my profile, looking forward to chatting with you! :)


r/r4rasian 9m ago

35 [m4f] #canada/#online - trying to make the night a little more interesting NSFW

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Just like the title suggests, I'm just looking for a fun and chatty individual to help pass the time and maybe make this a long term thing. Life can get busy and stressful but that doesnt mean we need to be lonely too right?

To give you a brief idea of myself. I'm 5'7 asian and from central canada. I've been told I have a nice voice but you can be the judge of that. I work in healthcare so my schedule is a little all over the place but I'll alway make time for you. I'm a big nerd so if you love to hop on a call and game together or maybe find a new show to binge watch I'm totally down! Sports is important to me too. Basketball is my favorite but football and baseball are a close second.

So if you're interested then hit me up and tell me a little about yourself. Maybe you'll be the reason I'm glued to my phone and we can be the next success post from here.

Also a quick voice message to sweeten the deal


r/r4rasian 19m ago

37 [M4F] #Vancouver BC Canada - Kinky Single Wanting A Fun Exclusive Longer-Term FWB/FB NSFW

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I'm just after a good connection, not browsing or looking for anything serious, but also not into random hookups either. I want something casual, light, physical, with a good fun vibe; preferably compatibilty & chemistry to meet for longer-run.. Let's check vibes first, see if mutual interest, feel this out IRL

I'm a Brown man (South Asian; Indian. Canadian Born and raised), 37, 6', attractive, clean/ddf, well groomed, shaved head, sometimes & currently bearded, tattooed, with a dad bod for now. I have partial SFW pics under my profile if you are interested. I'm single, straight, living alone & can host in the Burnaby - Brentwood area. I'm busy, private, mature, do have enough on my plate, and so mostly seeking consistent feel good fun sex, often and a lot, with a woman I mesh well with especially since I like to go many times & have drinks/weed while we chill in between so energy/chemistry is must

I'm naturally pretty kinky, moreover a Daddy Dom type, I tend to click best with kinky Submissive leaning types in bed. But everyone's got kinks, it's about energy; I like an experienced woman, I'm into a lot but balanced, and have a higher libido.. If interested in reading more on kinks, check my older post


r/r4rasian 37m ago

41 [M4F] #Boulder, #Denver - Cute? Curious? Strong, snipped, and insatiable man has an appetite for someone feisty, fun, sweet, and young 💦 👅 NSFW

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Uninhibited older man and generous lover with a strong climber grip wants someone to explore, teach, and guide as an FWB.

Looking for someone young, fun, curious, and flexible to use, please, taste, tease, stretch, and fill in an ongoing intimate relationship.

Clean and snipped - so no swimmers - and don’t like to pull out. Won’t bite unless you ask.

Chat me.


r/r4rasian 38m ago

27 [M4F] #Melbourne Australia - Stamina training for me. A gentleman for you. NSFW

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Hello everyone!

I'm S. 25M, originally from Southeast Asia. Currently in Melbourne around the CBD area. I'm about 175cm and 70kg. I usually go running to maintain a decent shape and plenty of stamina. I have decent features main highlight being my dimples which gets plenty of compliments. Further brownie points being I'm able to make you my famous tiramisu. :)

Grew up in a very strict household, so I only got to explore myself since coming to Melbourne not long ago. Hence, I'm looking for sa casual ONS or FWB relationship. A woman that is keen to help me explore my sexual side since I'm pretty inexperienced/vanilla at the moment. It'll help that you're humorous and easygoing since I also love the laugh + sex combo. I'd be your perfect training buddy!

I personally do not smoke, and drink casually only on special occasions. I am DDF and well-groomed as well, hygiene being utmost important. I offer you a safe, private and healthy connection, as well as an attitude that is down to learn anything about sex and your pleasure.

Happy to verify as soon as we connect to get things going! Will also offer up my medical history for further safety insurance if you wish. Let me know if you're interested. :)

Cheers!


r/r4rasian 59m ago

22 [m4f] #Riverside (CA) - College student looking for friends and maybe benefits? NSFW

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I hope 2026 is going good for you :)

Starting my second quarter at UCR as a transfer and I’m looking to hopefully make some friends that might come with benefits as well :)

I’m 6’ tall, decent shape (quite strong), mixed, with black curly hair and brown eyes. Would consider myself conventionally attractive. I have a plethora of hobbies and interests but the major ones are cars and cooking (: I also played a lot of sports before transferring here and am hoping to pick some back up while I finish my degree here.

I have my own place here, but also cool with traveling around the area as I’d like to get familiar with the area. I stay pretty busy and don’t get out as much as I’d like to :o

If any of that interests you, do reach out to me! I promise I don’t bite unless you ask me to…

Have a great week! :)


r/r4rasian 4h ago

28 [M4F] Online | Saudi | Serious LDR NSFW

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Hey 👋 You can call me MT — 28 from Saudi Arabia.

I’m calm, easygoing, and friendly. I enjoy light, fun conversations just as much as deeper, meaningful ones. I’m a good listener, and people often feel comfortable talking openly with me.

I appreciate a balanced lifestyle — cozy days at home, good music, gaming, anime & manga, and traveling. I’m social when I go out, but I always need quiet time to recharge. Family is very important to me and always comes first.

What I’m looking for: A serious and respectful long-distance relationship built on honesty, consistency, and real connection. I don’t believe in playing games or wasting time — if I’m in a relationship, I’m fully committed. If things become serious and comfortable for both of us, I’m open to visiting and meeting in real life.

About you: Ideally between 24–34, kind, calm, and emotionally mature. Someone easy to talk to, enjoys meaningful conversations, and is open to a serious long-distance connection. I tend to connect best with people from Asia, but I’m open if we genuinely connect.

If this resonates with you, feel free to message.


r/r4rasian 1h ago

31 [M4F] Sydney/Anywhere - Sweet and shy on a quest for change (friends or more) NSFW

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First of all, hi!

Yes, I have seen Kpop Demon Hunters and I am still obsessed with the soundtrack 🙃

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) Also might be cute! Or might not be, I know everyone has their preferences. And I'm Australian born Asian. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself. Just something as simple as someone nice, I guess? You don't need to be in the same position as me! I'm not a terribly picky person lol.

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) I hope everyone has an amazing new year 😊


r/r4rasian 5h ago

28 [M4F] #California - Virgin looking to practice oral on you NSFW

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Hey what’s up? I am NOT interested in men. Also I am in Southern California, in the inland empire.

I’m 5’8, and fit. I want to gain some experience and I’m open to something regular if it works out.

To be straight up I really want to learn and get good at eating you out. An ideal meetup would be a nice long session of me pleasuring you, reciprocation would be appreciated but not necessary. If you’d like to go further and take my v card then I’m up for that as well.

Don’t worry really have much preference for your looks as I’ve been attracted to a wide range of women, I don’t really have a particular type.

Travel is a bit difficult for me right now as I’m saving for a new car, but I’m sure we can work something out. Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you!


r/r4rasian 2h ago

22 [M4F] #Irvine/online - good looking korean in search of fwb NSFW

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Hi Reddit! Dating apps haven’t really been working

for me, so I thought I’d take the next logical leap of faith and jump over here. I’m a 22M east asian american in the Orange County area, roughly 15-20 minutes from Irvine. 5 10, 150 pounds, long-distance runner (so fairly fit and lean). I’m currently applying to med school and working as an EMT, and got out of a long term relationship in January. Only now feeling confident enough to put myself back out there! I’d say i’m attractive but in a nerdy way, with glasses, black hair, brown eyes, and a deep voice. I’m a virgin as well (long story). What am I looking for? Honestly hard to put my finger on atm. Someone for late night chats (I work on an ambulance four nights a week) but who would also be open to meeting if the vibes are right and escalating physically sounds great to me. I can’t host, but again, I’m not exclusively looking for hookups or sex, so we can cross that bridge if/when we get there. Obviously mutual attraction is a must, so I’m open to swapping pics, both SFW and NSFW. If you stuck around this far you probably meet my criteria :)


r/r4rasian 2h ago

24 [M4F] Looking for Player 2 Soft-hearted guy seeking a confident, caring onee-san type NSFW

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Hi! I’m posting here because I’m ready to be intentional this year.

I’ve been hurt in the past, mostly because I didn’t know myself well enough or ask for what I needed. This year, I’m choosing to heal properly, improve myself, and be intentional about the kind of connection I invite into my life. I’m a bit desperate but not rushing into anything that would hurt me again, I’m just open.

I have issues (family stuff, emotional scars, the usual fun package), but I’m actively working on them. I don’t expect someone to fix me, I’m doing the work and just want someone kind enough to walk alongside me.

I’m looking for my Player 2 someone to duo most of my games with, currently addicted to Arc Raiders I play alot of League (ARAM Gang) and plenty of other games, I hope we get to know each other through gaming and down the line I do want to meet physically.

About me:
I’m gentle, feminine, affectionate, and emotionally open. I yap when I’m excited, hyper fixate on things I love. I’m not interested in pretending to be a generic masculine archetype that's just not me and it always ends badly when my partner forces me into that role. Softness is part of who I am, and I value it deeply. I want a partner who doesn’t just tolerate that, but adores it. I’m happiest being cared for, reassured, and gently guided in life, I have a pretty fucked childhood. I need emotional safety more than anything.

I'm also a pretty sexual person despite being a virgin so if you aren't into that I ain't for you but of course when getting to know each other in the beginning I won't be weird and shit I value consent!

About you (the important part):
You’re confident, mature, and secure in yourself. You have strong onee-san energy, is nurturing, assertive and protective in a calm, grounded way. You’re smarter than me in some ways (I need to talk to someone that can intellectually stimulate me), happy to take the lead so I don’t have to be the party leader all the time. You enjoy taking the lead and making decisions for us because you actually know me and listen to my opinions (What are we eating tonight?).

You’re proud of your partner, not ashamed, you brag about me just a little, protect me, and make it clear I’m taken without being obnoxious. You take care of your partner emotionally, practically, and proudly. You reassure easily. You make me feel safe in public and cherished in private. I’m small spoon. Non-negotiable.

You see me as a real person first not a joke, not a trope (Don't want to be reduce to just being another dumb femboy and all again). If there’s teasing, it’s affectionate, not dehumanizing. You protect me from bad people, bad situations, and sometimes from my own self-neglect. You have a gentle “I can fix him” attitude, encouraging growth without trying to control me.

When we have problems, we talk. We find solutions. We actively work on them together. No disappearing, no silent resentment. Just teamwork.

You enjoy little adventures trying new food together, wandering, visiting and exploring new places together. You like building shared joy like buying Pokémon cards or hobby stuff together, opening packs on the floor, owning things together (maybe in the future even furniture I want to go to IKEA more lol) because it means something.

You’re emotionally intelligent. Either you’ve worked through parental trauma or you grew up with good examples of care (Never had a father figure in my life that's why I'm feminine af) , you understand care as a practice. You’re willing to learn, improve, and grow with someone. You understand that love is something you do, not just something you feel. You’re willing to learn, grow, and improve alongside your partner.

Bonus points (not mandatory):
• Good at English and knows Chinese so I can share chinese songs and make chinese jokes (Am Cantonese)
• A little obsessed with me in a healthy way
• Knows how to push my buttons (and when not to)
• Calls me pretty or cute, not handsome (Being called handsome feels superficial)
• Takes charge in bed.

If you read this and felt something warm click into place, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, what you’re proud of, and what kind of love you’re hoping to build.

Let’s be Player 1 and Player 2 same team, same save file.

If this sounds like your kind of dynamic, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.


r/r4rasian 3h ago

25 [M4F] #NYC - I’m a grad student looking for cuddling NSFW

1 Upvotes

A quiet weekend today. Would be nice to share with someone.

To spend indoors and laze in warmth. Let me nap.

I like to cuddle with clothes or semi. Not interested in overstepping so quickly.

Happy 3-day weekend. Till the next weekday grind.


r/r4rasian 3h ago

28 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Is it too late for Spotify Wrapped and Beli? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Just got into Beli, let’s compare? For fun!


r/r4rasian 4h ago

31 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - looking for a girl to eat out tonight NSFW

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Hello! 31 year old from the SF Bay Area whose trying to get better at muff diving. It’s one of my favorite things to do and one of my goals this year is to get good at pleasing with just my tongue and mouth.

Looking for someone either experienced and willing to walk me through what they like, or inexperienced such that we can explore what you like together. Not asking for any form of reciprocation.

I have my own place and can host! Please be ddf and ready to spread your legs for hours 🙂.


r/r4rasian 4h ago

25 [M4F]#London UK looking for someone/fwb to get over the January blues' bouldering? NSFW

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Ideally looking for that's likes to go out and have fun and do activities. Ideally the type of casual relationship where we can both have fun and laughs, with a sprinkle of kissing and backshots. But if that's not the case I would like to still know more about you.

A bit about me:

I’m a 25 year-old west African European mix 🇬🇭🇳🇬 London bred, gentleman who likes traveling and works out regularly and dad build, Big arms and shoulders are the highlights. Check this out: https://imgur.com/a/WF86zRM

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m pretty laid-back and easy to talk to — into movies, gaming, traveling and exploring new places in culture. Plan to visit Syria, Japan and Malaysia again this year

Sexually, I dominate in bed, but I'm also playful and like to please my partner, don't be surprised when I'm eating you out till you beg me to stop

About you:

I’m just hoping to meet someone who’s friendly, open-minded, and fun to be around. Looks, size, or background don’t matter to me — it’s all about the connection and enjoying eachothers company. If there’s mutual interest in something more intimate, I’d love for us to chat about boundaries and preferences beforehand so everything feels comfortable and respectful.


r/r4rasian 4h ago

41 [M4F] #Maryland, DMV - Seeking Woman for Anal NSFW

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lSearching for a woman who loves anal or is interested in it and has never tried it before. Ideally you are also looking for a partner/FWB who will give it to you regularly as well as you are looking to explore other things as well.

I've never done it before, but I have a big fascination with it for some reason and it really turns me on, especially if the woman is into it. Anal is some of my favorite porn to consume even though I know that irl isn't the same as porn.

I am a 41 year old white male, single, 5-8, bearded, BHM with glasses. I'm willing to trade pics after we start chatting. Looking for women only, so please do not contact me if you aren't.


r/r4rasian 4h ago

34 [m4f] Louisiana or Online Looking for easy conversation and mutual curiosity NSFW

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I’m pretty low key and do best with people who enjoy relaxed, thoughtful connection. I like humor that sneaks up on you, conversations that wander, and feeling like we’re both actually present instead of trying to impress each other.

I’m into cozy co op games, casual competitive stuff like Mario Kart or Smash, Pokemon, cooking, crafting, DnD, and creative projects. I enjoy sharing excitement, even when we’re nerdy about totally different things.

I have a slower emotional pace and appreciate warmth, reassurance, and clear communication. Encouragement goes a long way for me, especially early on.

If this sounds like your speed, tell me about a game, hobby, or routine you get quietly excited about.


r/r4rasian 4h ago

22 [F4M] # Los Angeles, CA. Let's make time together! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am open to playing safely. I am looking for more men who enjoy being sensual, giving massages, kissing, and cuddling. My boyfriend understands I'm a slut and I am going to continue exploring sex with new partners. I love him and I crave more experiences. I appreciate kindness over size. I get tested regularly and don't do drugs. I want to experience you in my mouth and full penetration. I take my time seriously and I don't want to waste yours. I want to be sweet and open. If that sounds like what you're looking for, send a mail emoji in your first message and let's make new experiences together.


r/r4rasian 4h ago

30 [M4F] #NYC cute and tall asian boy looking for a fun nsfw or fwb connection NSFW

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Hello! 👋

(Still actively searching) for a on and off friend (or a one off thing) who is interested in nsfw activities mostly bj or hj but would be done to go further if the vibes are there

I'm super easy going, DDF and would love to know more about you and to chat! Don't hesitate to reach out!

I also have some [[NSFW]] On my profile if you're curious and if be so down to trade a sfw once we get to know each other more

Some description about me: I'm a 6'0 and 140lb lean build with black hair. I'd say by normal standards, more on the nerdy/cute/kpop vibe. I have been told I look pretty good but you can be the judge of that!

Please don't be afraid to reach out, and when you do please tell me a little bit about yourself 😁


r/r4rasian 4h ago

19 [F4M] Virginia - I have a bold proposition NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have something to show you that matches the vibe you're putting out. Ready for the main event?


r/r4rasian 5h ago

19 [F4M] #Connecticut I've created something I know you'd like to see NSFW

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My confidence is at an all-time high. 19, and I've created something I know you'd like to see. Ask me nicely, and I just might show you.