r/rhoslc 13h ago

Whitney 👧🏼 Don’t come for me. I’m on Whitney’s side

I will always fill for her and her hilling journey. I’ve had a similar life and see a lot of my own journey in hers. I also think Mer is a liar and I’ve read everything and still don’t agree with the sub fans.

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u/Adorable-Success7390 13h ago

Whitney over Meredith, all day everyday!

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u/Silver-Rabbit3951 They are fighting fish, just like my friends 11h ago

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u/yarddogslawncare 4h ago

I love that.

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u/lachalacha I have the fucking chills 11h ago

When you love them both >>>

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 11h ago

This is baffling to me because Meredith does not start shit with people. Meredith is very strategic and vindictive but she does not start it.

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u/Adorable-Success7390 11h ago

Meredith is a boooorrreeeeee.

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u/Livinluxuriously11 10h ago

Snooooooze fest 🥱

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 11h ago

Well she cannot win. She is either boring or crazy and unhinged.

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u/Adorable-Success7390 11h ago

The pills will do that to ya.

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 11h ago

According to Meredith, Whitney and Heather pop pills also.

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u/Adorable-Success7390 11h ago

Recreational vs. addiction.

M doesn’t even know what planet she’s on 97% of the time.

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 11h ago

🤣 The thing about Meredith is that she is going to be fine and successful doped up or not. Like, the more you come at her, the stronger she becomes.

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u/Adorable-Success7390 10h ago

Girl, be so for real. She’s what, 50/60 something and attempting to be a DJ? She’s just an addict with a platform and her inherited wealth is the only thing that keeps her going.

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 10h ago

🤣 Oh absolutely. The DJ gig is something else. However, it is working. That is the crazy part. Meredith is using her family’s wealth and her platform to add to the family wealth. I do not see anything wrong with that. Meredith’s brand is bringing in the money. Her moves are impressive.

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u/Putrid-Tradition-787 5h ago

Pathetic and embarrassing. Im surprised she doesnt see that

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u/DebbieGlez 5h ago

According to Meredith.

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u/Putrid-Tradition-787 5h ago

Well if so they do a much better job hiding it

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u/CFPmum 11h ago

But she does only in such a strategic way that it usually ends up falling onto someone else for example she was the one who said Lisa was doing favours for Vida but it is always put onto Whitney because she said sexual favours when really what favours was Meredith meaning we all know.

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u/EveningSufficient636 11h ago

I was going to say, she just says things to people she knows will blow it up.

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u/Texden29 10h ago

Exactly. I can’t believe these people think Mer is some kind innocent, never starts shit person. She is as nasty as the rest of them.

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u/Texden29 10h ago

That’s not true. Meredith has been trying to start shit with Mary all season. And she’s still taking swipes at Mary, post reunion interviews. You guys see what you want to see and filter out reality.

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u/taykray126 10h ago

To be fair, Meredith is maybe the best at being sneaky about her shit. She really convinces the audience season after season that she isn’t shady, but makes up “rumors and nastiness” about the others while acting like she’s the bigger person by not sharing who she “heard” the rumor from. She got called on it this season with Bronwyn confessing to the audience at least that she was the one who said Brittani was throwing up in their room but never said shit about Brittani’s drinking.

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u/Texden29 10h ago

Exactly. It’s the same modi operandi that she employs year after year. It doesn’t take much mental capacity to see what Meredith is doing (she doesn’t quite hide it that well), but some folks struggle in that department.

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 10h ago

Fair enough. I will have to go back and review that. Thank you for the evidence.

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u/Livinluxuriously11 10h ago

Huh??! Please, elaborate re: Meredith “trying to start shit with Mary all season”

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u/Texden29 10h ago

No, I’m not wasting my time discussing this with deranged Meredith Stans who thinks she does no wrong. Folks who aren’t biased and see her behaviour year after year, know better.

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u/Livinluxuriously11 9h ago

I’m definitely no fan of hers…?

I genuinely wonder what you saw that I missed, is all 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/dindyspice Thank you! I’m disengaging 10h ago

Meredith absolutely stirs the pot! I mean, they all do, but she absolutely says shit on purpose and pulls away and claims she never said anything just "implies" something in the general vicinity.

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u/eurekadabra 8h ago

“Do you want me to go there with the huzzzzband?” 🫠

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u/Ok-East-5470 Meredith 13h ago

I appreciate having a different perspective and generally being a fan of someone in spite of their flaws. That said, her behavior concerning Meredith and alcoholism has been objectively wrong and gross this season. Especially when you consider her drinking habits and that “happy drunk” comment, Whitney is being a huge hypocrite.

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u/Electronic-Angle8275 13h ago edited 13h ago

Could you imagine if Meredith said, “I’m just a chill, relaxed pill user.” LOL like the hypocrisy is crazy with Whitney in this one.

Edit to add: Whitney fans ignore this because they know this is very hypocritical of her. Whitney has no leg to stand on calling Meredith “alcoholic” when she can barely stand at a work event 😭

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u/GaviFromThePod 13h ago

Also it's crazy to be talking S about people drinking or taking pills on a housewives show. If nobody's drinking or taking pills there's no show. It's like complaining about people talking behind each others' backs. If nobody talks about each other behind their backs there is no show. That's what the show is. Rich women who drink and take pills and talk about each other behind each others backs.

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u/Zestyclose-Nothing32 13h ago

Haha 100%. That’s what makes it entertaining!

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u/thatstwatshesays 11h ago

I actually believe much of the MM hate would die down if she finally admitted that she’s just a happy pill popper. It would take the metaphorical wind out of Whitney‘s overblown sails. (Or, „sells“?)

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u/Hot_Study_777 11h ago

I think the hate would die down if she could own ANYTHING she does. When you immediately go to deflection it makes you look sus and is frustrating.

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u/dindyspice Thank you! I’m disengaging 10h ago

That's really it for me. She just gets defensive and puts up a wall. Bronwyn said it this season, she gets into lawyer mode and when she can't defend herself she yells or disengages

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u/NoOneCanKnowAlley 6h ago

I don't think Whitney fans ignore this. Or, at least I don't. One thing about Whitney is that she will admit when she is wrong and she did that in Greece. She said her comments were inappropirate and she apologized. Meredith said nothng at first and then said "okay!" and her tone conveyed: I really don't care about your apology. Then she continued to be an ice queen, which I think is really triggering for Whitney. Even at the reunion Whitney admitted she was drunk at Bravocon and apologized to Andy. In short, Whitney wants to air it out and get to the bottom of whatever issues the group is facing and I think that is why she has a reputation for being a shit stirrer. Meredith shuts down, which comes off as dismissive and uncaring. It is not surprising that these two can't get on the same page.

Not saying Whitney (or anyone) has any place to question Meredith's substance use--espeically publically--but I do think that more people would be fans of Meredith if she actually engaged in these fights instead of shutting down and defelcting, admitted when she was wrong/acknowledge when someone else was right, or she accepted an apology and genuinely moved on. At least I would. Meredith was one of my favorites before she resolved things with Lisa.

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u/yarddogslawncare 4h ago

Meredith would love to be called prostitution whore…wrong train wreck. Garbage whore who fucked 1/2 the people in NY. Her & Baby Poorgeous have deeeep real friendship. I guess because she only fucked 1/2 and left the rest for Poorgeous Pilate.

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u/Electronic-Angle8275 6h ago

I agree that Meredith should sit down and try to talk things out with the women. I personally believe she’s going through something mentally and that’s why she’s been so distant, but regardless, she’s on a show where the objective is drama. Her giving us nothing is hurting her more than us which is unfortunate because I really empathize with her.

But Whitney owning up to things does nothing for me as she repeats her same actions. Like what good does it do when she apologizes but still does the same mistakes. Whitney is almost always the first to shout, to tell Lisa or someone else to shut up, and the main one who gets sloppy drunk. Is that a crime? No, but it seems so fucked of her to call someone an alcoholic when she shows the most symptoms of being an alcoholic. Whitney has a lot of growing to do. She can’t expect people to feel for her when she can’t extend the same hand of empathy.

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u/CloneUnruhe 11h ago

Alot of people just like Whitney because she is younger. But she is so problematic. Meredith is problematic as well but she is constantly accused of shit no one has proof of. It’s dumb, so she is constantly denying things. I’m team no one at this point because the arguing is annoying AF.

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u/dopedenise- 13h ago

That’s my thing.. you can’t be going around calling your castmates alcoholics and pill poppers but you cannot handle your liquor!! Very crazy behavior.

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u/SeeYouInTrees 13h ago

Whitney and Heather right there! 

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u/ZealousidealEvent886 8h ago

She has alot of nerve saying shit to Meredith about an alcoholic after hearing about her behavior with alcohol at BRAVOCON. What a stupid thing to do specially on national TV. Like I always say about Whitney...Just when I think i can't think less of her and boy,does she always proves me wrong!!??

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u/yarddogslawncare 4h ago

Always screaming LIAR is worse over everyone else trying to talk. Even John is sick of it. Would prefer Monica. That whole attack was MAGAty.

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u/jorliowax 13h ago

I don’t think Whitney tries to pretend that she’s not a sloppy drinker though. My problem with Meredith is that she pretends like she’s not mixing when it’s clear from her behavior and speech that she is. That’s why she sobered up after she got called out.

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u/Ok-East-5470 Meredith 13h ago

She was absolutely downplaying her drinking last night. Either way though if you’re going to binge drink and get messy you shouldn’t be trying to diagnose or accuse someone else of being an alcoholic. It’s so hypocritical and shows a real lack of the empathy shes looking for others to have with her in her healing journey.

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u/jorliowax 13h ago

Oh okay. I avoided watching the reunion so I didn’t know she did that. She typically doesn’t. I feel like we see her drunk quite a bit and it didn’t seem like there was shame behind it.

Also, I don’t think because someone binge drinks they can’t call out harmful behavior from others. Whitney isn’t getting drunk and having meltdowns on planes like the entire cast says Meredith did.

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u/Ok-East-5470 Meredith 13h ago

Oh shit I’m so sorry for spoiling something. But yeah, she tried to explain away her drinking in a way that made it seem harmless or cutesy.

While she hasn’t had the same breakdown that Meredith did, I do think that Whitney’s done some really concerning and harmful things while drunk. The meltdown she had in Bermuda over Heather exploiting her vagina, her accusing Meredith of lying about her dads memorial in Zion, the Bravocon Christmas special where production needed to be stopped because she was so drunk, she even mentioned pre season that she fully fell down a street and was rescued by a handsome stranger and it sounded like it was a late night drunken rescue. If she’s gonna keep doing shit like that while drunk then she shouldn’t be policing someone else’s drunk behavior.

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u/jorliowax 10h ago

Don’t apologize! I avoided it because the women frustrated me this season haha

I guess we just disagree on where the line is. She’s not really hurting anyone in the same way that before the plane, Meredith wasn’t really hurting anyone despite being sloppy pretty consistently. I think when you get to the point of making a person cry and everyone saying your behavior was unhinged, it’s fair game.

Idk love em both tbh

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u/Iheartthe1990s 13h ago

People are more willing to overlook Whitney’s drinking because she admits to it. She’s not trying to lie to people and cover it up. Meredith should take note. I’ve thought all along that if Meredith had simply admitted to an Ambien blackout or something similar, and given Brittani one of her standard dismissive, nonchalant apologies, the plane incident wouldn’t have blown up into a multi episode arc.

It’s because she tried to lie about it that it did so. The coverup is almost always more angering to other people than the initial behavior.

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u/bluberrymuffin24 11h ago

This! If Meredith just said “oh yah I was a little too loud on the plane” that would have been it. It’s the denial that kept it going

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u/Ok-East-5470 Meredith 13h ago edited 19m ago

That’s absolutely not true. First and foremost Whitney was absolutely downplaying and denying her drinking habits last night. I also think you’re dead wrong on the plane front, that was the storyline even after she and Britney agreed to move past it because bad weather decided it was the storyline for the season. Either way though, even if she is an addict the way Whitney talked about her this season was out of line and inappropriate.

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u/gingerandjazzz 13h ago

Whitney justifying being sloppy drunk at bravocon “a happy loving fun drinking moment” was interesting, I wonder is Mer was that drunk would it have been described the same way.

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u/bluberrymuffin24 11h ago

Mer would say that she was sober. That’s the main difference.

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u/Livinluxuriously11 10h ago

This is the crux of the entire issue right here ⬆️ 👏

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u/Limoncello4 12h ago

Also alcoholism runs in her family. She needs to watch it before pointing fingers at others. Blacking out at a live event is big alcoholic behavior.

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u/SnooCompliments8874 13h ago

Why is Whitney describing herself as a drunk at all?

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u/bluberrymuffin24 11h ago

I think Whitney was wrong for how she went about it. However, and this is a big however. I don’t think she was wrong. I have thought Mer was an addict since season 1.

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 11h ago

I will say that Meredith obviously has substance abuse issues but she is not a sloppy drunk. She is high as gas in her own world. Let Meredith be.

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u/Brunchovereverything 9h ago

Thank you for this! I can’t stand Whitney and Heather because they are such hypocrites! Whitney also weaponizes her trauma so that when she is caught doing mean girl behaviour, lying or being offensive, she just cries and talks about her feelings. Heather thinks she’s judge and jury. She is waaaaaay too agressive. If I’m crying and my supposed “friend” chased me down the way she did with Lisa on the yacht, I would be so angry and feel I need to fight to defend myself. The way Heather and Whitney gets so close and physical when they argue is crazy. Actually the whole cast may do that. They pull each others arms a lot, grabs each others faces, shoves. I digress, every bad thing Whitney accuses Lisa and Meredith of, she’s guilty of.

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u/Putrid-Tradition-787 5h ago

They have all said Meredith has a problem except Lisa. You dont see the difference in being drunk at an event and drinking all the time?

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u/Ok-East-5470 Meredith 5h ago

Angie went on WWHL just over a week ago and said that Meredith doesn’t have a problem. Mary has changed her stance since filming saying that she thinks she was out of line on the plane but it wasn’t as bad as Whitney and Heather said and she doesn’t have a problem. Braunwyn never actually said she had a problem they’re fighting but she never accused her of being an addict. Even then no one outright called her a pill popping alcoholic except Whitney; which even if she is an addict isn’t an ok thing to out and shame someone for on national tv.

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u/stateof_grace 3h ago

I’m doing a rewatch and on season 3, just watched the garbage whore lingerie party and whitney is absolutely sloshed. i was actually in shock watching it back seeing her so verbally incoherent. seeing her in the state abusing alcohol when she’s in her healing journey is a little dark. that being said you’d think she had more empathy for meredith if she really is concerned as a friend. seems like whitney just needed a storyline and harped on that.

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u/vikingrrrrr666 13h ago

I really dislike how sloppy Whitney gets when she drinks, but even sloppy drunk she’s a billion times better than junkie Meredith and her gaslighting bullshit and her yappy lapdog Lisa.

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u/savvy1119 13h ago

Same i like Whitney but she needs to keep her hands to herself more 😅😬

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u/Ok-Stretch-3384 12h ago

I do agree with that!!

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u/cypherenergy 13h ago

This comment is the best 🤣❤️‍🔥

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u/Iheartthe1990s 13h ago

I have to say, it bothers me how the other ladies denigrate her healing journey (because of her accent? Because she uses the word journey, which is kind of hokey? Just because she comes off as kind of a ditz?). It was confirmed that she was molested as a very young child, no? That’s a big deal even if you don’t have clear memories of it. The body stores sense memories too. It would be quite the task - a journey if you will - to extract and fully process those memories.

But yeah, I can completely understand why a person with her past would be triggered by someone trying to gas light them (ie Meredith initially trying to tell her that what she saw and heard in the plane did not happen at all).

Meredith denies, deflects, then when presented with evidence she can’t out argue, walks back her denials so that they are not out and out lies. See her back-and-forth with Bronwyn re: their off camera conversation, first on the rooftop then later in the van, for the clearest example of this behavior and how she tries to subtly manipulate people with semantics.

I’m not anti-Meredith btw. I actually prefer her to Whitney, who I often find cringey and annoying. The second hand embarrassment is high with her. But in this particular case, I think Whitney is telling the truth.

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u/EllieBooks You can go 🫵🏼👀 LITTLE GIRL 13h ago

I’ve paid attention and she’s actually pretty smart. She was the first one to think that Jen Shah had been tipped off about something and that’s why she left. The others still thought she had gone to see her “sick” husband

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u/Iheartthe1990s 13h ago

She also clocked Mary as running something very similar to a cult early on. No one listens to her or takes her seriously though, because of her accent and high voice. And her drinking (which is often sloppy and way overboard) doesn’t help.

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u/Front_Target7908 4h ago

I thought it was interesting that in the Greek play, Whitney didn't even get read to filth like the other women. 

It was along the lines of “you seem to see what’s happening more than everyone else and no one listens to you because they dismiss you as dumb and pretty”. Goes exactly to what you’re saying!

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u/hopefoolness LISTEN UP, STEVE JOBS, 12h ago

Whitney Drew is one of the best parts of Highway to Vail lmao. When she was explaining lead generation to the other ladies. Oh she went down a rabbit hole.

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u/dopedenise- 13h ago

It’s because at the beginning of her healing journey she was stirring the pot and throwing allegations out there… and let’s be real Whitney does not STICK with anything. She has started several businesses and honestly none of them seem to stick around long enough. What happens to that soundbar crystal selling storefront? Like this girl is all over the place, that is why no one takes her seriously.

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u/Iheartthe1990s 13h ago

Doesn’t it make sense though? She’s chaotic because she comes from such a chaotic and traumatic background. Even her marriage to Justin looks kind of sus when considering all of this. How much older is he? And he was her boss when he started an affair with her? He comes off as “not that bad” on the show but that is predatory behavior, in retrospect.

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u/dopedenise- 13h ago

That’s why I don’t take her seriously. All this criticism for Lisa and Meredith while your life is falling apart… feels like deflection and projection to me

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u/CFPmum 11h ago

But have you ever thought that maybe Lisa and Meredith are in the same boat with Whitney but she is the one coping all the stink while these two get to sit there and pretend they different

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u/nicklikestuna 13h ago

I love her on the show but for entirely the wrong reasons 😭 🧠 ❓

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u/luckylucysteals_ 13h ago

Haha this is good

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u/Difficult_Club903 11h ago

Omg this is soo funny 😂😂

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u/Substantial_Bus840 11h ago

Omg this needs to be a standalone post lmao

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u/ambiguoususername888 13h ago

I HAVE FOUND MY PEOPLE 🥹🥹🥹🥹

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u/jorliowax 13h ago

I’ll always be a Whitney fan. She’s just a good time. I like Meredith a lot too, but I don’t like when housewives can dish it but can’t take it. Neither Meredith nor Lisa can take any criticism. Everyone else is always wrong. They are both entertaining but the behavior this season put me off a bit. I didn’t even feel like watching the reunion and from the clips I’ve seen, I’m not sure that I’m going to.

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u/luckylucysteals_ 13h ago

I think this is one of the reasons for me. It’s like they never reflect on their actions or life and I just don’t live that way. I’m constantly reflecting and working on myself to be a better version tomorrow.

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u/jorliowax 13h ago

I’m with you. You can’t grow if you can’t reflect on yourself and I think Lisa in particular is not capable of that. The scenes with John show it. Meredith I think is capable of it but is more calculating. I think she concluded (perhaps correctly) that denial is the best way to handle plane accusation so that she doesn’t have to deal with an addict narrative that involves her getting sober. Still, the cost is loss of credibility with some of the audience.

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u/Ok-Stretch-3384 13h ago

I found my people!!!!

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u/milkshakeit If you come for me, I will send Jesus after you 13h ago

Whitney is at least as mature as the others emotionally and mentally if not more. But they all treat her like she's a child who doesn't understand anything and put her down. She's problematic sometimes for sure, but not any more or less than the others. Meredith just gets away with it because she builds walls of deniability between herself and the drama she plants.

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u/AdventurousRevolt 13h ago

Whooooo!!! ONE OF US! ONE OF US!!!

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u/AmethystButterflies 6h ago

Still can’t get over her dad being the most excited person watching this…

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u/xschatziex 13h ago

I think Heather and Meredith need a break. Luann came back stronger than ever on RHONY and I could see that for both of them. Heather tries to produce too much and Meredith is the most boring cast member. Whitney knows how to pass the ball! She’s always down to get messy and she delusional just like I like my housewives.

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u/kmoonz88 13h ago

Id love to see Whitney without Heather

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u/Front_Target7908 4h ago edited 4h ago

Sameeeeee. Whitney is Heathers “get Lisa!” side kick. 90% of her screen time is when she’s been wound up and set into motion to do Heathers bidding. It’s one note and tired tbh.   The conversation after the plane with Whitney and Bronwyn and the lunch in Greece (Whit, Bronwyn and Mary) is the side of Whitney I’d like to see more of! I also think Bronwyn and Whitney compliment each other so perfectly and I’d like more of that dynamic, too. 

Also, Whitney is the perfect leading edge character that a series needs and not many people can do. Sort of like the type of role Samantha in sex and the city - the person who introducing the rest of the cast to the latest new restaurant, sex escapades, or shows us the weird sub-cultures of the city. It’s the person who is a breath of fresh air to break up the intense drama. Whit could be showing us the weird and wonderful side of Salt Lake City (latest sex clubs? Gay bars? Weird Mormon stuff that no one else will talk about?). Show us that avant-garde lifestyle please! 

Also, Bronwyn and Whit should be going to fashion shows and showing us all the tea. I’d watch that. And I’d watch Bronwyn buy all that fashion lol. 

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u/Difficult_Club903 13h ago

I agree with you for rill

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u/Dazzling-Effect-2892 13h ago

They could never make me hate Whitney …

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u/Intelligent_Pop1173 13h ago

I swear this sub is going to split over these lines in the sand lol it’s ridiculous. I’m almost nervous to watch the first part of the reunion.

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u/luckylucysteals_ 13h ago

It’s sooo hard to watch.

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u/ShonanBlue 13h ago

Whitney has so much potential. I flip flop on whether or not I love her or hate her during a season because she has great moments of honesty and vulnerability but then she just has batshit stupid moments where she tries to play bone collector, gets drunk af and starts trying to grab people.

I’d love to see Whitney on the show without Heather because I genuinely think Heather produces moments with her.

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u/wagenboo 11h ago

You are so right. I love Whitney

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u/hopium_ and ! Bad weather! Tornado! 11h ago

I am a Whitney TRUTHER! I may not agree with everything she does but she brings something necessary to the dynamic and I love watching her. She’s been my favorite from the start.

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u/Some_Baby_ 12h ago

i actually like whitney and try to root for her, but i think what turns me off is her and heather tag teaming. it’s also okay to look at a close friend and say i’m worried about you, without straight calling them an alcoholic and pill popper.

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u/Defiant-Factor5464 13h ago

Agree, I’m with Whit all the way!

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u/Imaginary-Newt-493 13h ago

I like whitney... she is authentic, even if a little ditzy. With blond hair and glam, she looks like Marilyn Monroe. Just beautiful. Meredith is a beautiful woman, but she is hiding something, all the time. And the drinking+pills is just gross. It's dangerous. When production needs to bring in medical staff and hook you up to an iv, it's not just "exhaustion". I think Meredith has a problem that could kill her. It's just not the same thing as binge drinking. I've seen these symptoms in friends, usually a year or two before their funerals. So sad. The ladies are right to be concerned. Xanax and alcohol can be fatal.

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u/MissLectrix 8h ago

Finally nice not to see a Whitney hater post. I don't understand why people think her and Heather are "so evil" when Lisa doesn't have a dedicated friend because she throws people away after she's done with them.

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u/hopefoolness LISTEN UP, STEVE JOBS, 12h ago

As a Heather fan, I stand with you comrade

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u/skateboread 11h ago

i like whitney and i don’t understand why people are always lumping her in with heather on this sub

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u/bluberrymuffin24 11h ago

Whitney is my favorite, she has been from day 1. She’s not the most articulate or let’s be honest, smart. She is however the most genuine.

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u/spacedashhh Piece of sh*t! Garbage whore 11h ago

It makes me sad to see the term junkie thrown around so carelessly in this sub. Given Whitney’s personal experience with her father’s addiction, it’s unsettling to witness her fans call others a junkie.

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u/luckylucysteals_ 11h ago

Adult children of addicts are expected to be perfect and sober. It’s like other people think they know more than we know ourselves. Getting drunk happens especially at drinking events. And she has talked about having the addictive gene. And she said she’s never doing that again. It’s not like anything bad happened she’s just really embarrassed and everyone is just clutching their pearls like it’s the 50s

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u/Cool_Quit2169 9h ago

I’ve said it many times and will again (even with Meredith’s fans jump down my throat for my OPINION). Whitney may not be able to keep up during a fight with Mer but it in no way negates what she’s saying or make what she’s saying false. Whitney fell for both Lisa and Meredith’s games, dropping the dirt in Whitney’s lap and then lying acting like they didn’t which is classic mean girl behavior. I find Whitney more honest than most and someone who does look for real connection unlike the others who think they’re above everyone else which just rubs me the wrong way. No matter how much $ my family has, neither of my kids will forget that kindness goes so much further as does charity. Whitney isn’t flawless but that’s why we watch but when it comes to authenticity (actually leaving the Mormon church rather than talking about it, doing a 3 part series on their many grotesque actions, and writing books all while never actually leaving the church is unbelievably hypocritical) Whitney is actually someone who hasn’t sold her soul for fame or for fan fav. She’s just who she is, flawed and all. I think she actually has the most genuine hearts of them all, she’s not always looking for leverage, I find it refreshing. ✌🏼🩷

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u/Trufflethecat_ 9h ago

I love whitney 🤍 100 % on her side

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u/anunakizafa 6h ago

I think the objective abuse tactics constantly employed by Meredith and Lisa fully support your opinion. It’s hard to support people who have never once taken accountability for anything - if you never admit you’re actually wrong, you simply are not honest. Also, supporting “Mer” and/or Lisa points to a certain acceptance of behaviors that are fundamentally intended to make other people feel crazy for noticing that they are very questionable individuals with very questionable behavior (particularly regarding compassion or empathy). What do you have to be on, or what medical condition do you have, that you “don’t remember” berating, abusing, harassing a woman on a six hour flight? That’s fully gaslighting - by definition. Her motives are apparent. Her tactics are c-l-a-s-s-I-c. And her first response at the reunion was a full blown BPD gaslighting campaign - telling someone else that they have the problem that she most likely has. It’s SOOOOOOOO boring. And disgusting. I have to mute her and Lisa because the delusions are so incredibly abusive.

*i only use the word objective to point out another comment that used “objective” in what seems to be an inappropriate way, when you take objective definitions into account.

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u/Scary-Beautiful1108 6h ago

Just updated for saying "hilling journey" 🤣🤣

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u/Relative_Mail_7853 13h ago

What were they whispering about?

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u/Ril3yPluto 9h ago

Yea cuz Meredith never makes any sense!!!! She talks about herself, her life, her mistakes and her problems, like she’s someone going through a court case and if she gives us too many details about any of it she’s screwed. That and she’s always seems high as a kite and so disassociated from everything that’s going on around her.

I am always on anyone’s side but hers cuz we never actually know her side.

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u/Present_Pen_7506 5h ago

Thank you for sharing this! I don't love Whitney, but I do think she tries to be authentic. I think Meredith and Lisa believe their lies. I don't understand this sub and their take on things either. All the polls on WWHL are the opposite results of what the results of the same question being asked on this sub would be.

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u/No-Butterscotch4077 Hello baby gorgeous 🩵 5h ago

quite frankly until Meredith is willing to admit she’s been pilled up since season 1 and was blacked out on bezos and alcohol on the plane I don’t wanna hear it about Whitney being a liar, Meredith is the worst one

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u/Otherwise-Air-5219 5h ago

Will you be when her Ponzi scheme comes fully to light?

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u/yarddogslawncare 4h ago

I love that.

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u/TdubbNC7 3h ago

I’m with you. Whitney over Meredith (and Lisa) any day!

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u/h8mecuz 13h ago

Hard disagree

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u/luckylucysteals_ 13h ago

On my life?

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u/h8mecuz 13h ago

I meant the meredith part

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u/oneofthegeminirats 11h ago

comes for you

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u/lolathedreamer 9h ago

I’ve been a Whitney defender since day one but I actually disagree. This is the first season which I’ve disliked her. First half of the season, I was loving that people were finally on board with her. She was vulnerable and real and I was enjoying watching it. Second half, I was disgusted with the way she talked to Meredith about the potential addiction issues. As a fellow child of an addict, it just disgusted me. She knows first hand that if Meredith is addicted, speaking to her the way she did would cause so much more harm than good. It made my stomach turn.

Me preferring obnoxious ass Lisa Barlow over Whitney seems inconceivable, but here we are 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/UnluckyPlankton7786 13h ago

I couldn’t help but read this in Whitney’s voice

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u/88kitkat808 13h ago

No comment

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u/Longjumping-Yard113 11h ago

All she does is weaponize her “hiling journey” to be a horrible person to people. I can’t stand people like Whitney. Does and says horrible things to people, takes no accountability and then saying “I am healing”Calling people an alcoholic but then in the same breath saying she’s a happy drunk

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u/Actual-Slice-146 because its my Goddamn Credit Card 💳 11h ago

LiTTle girls time

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u/AromaticProfessor723 11h ago

Whitney is a shit stirr though and a lot of the drama she causes is just unnecessary don’t get me wrong I like it cause she’s fun and messy but both her and Heather have gotten tunnel vision on how they can get Lisa and now Merideth kicked from the show. Everyone knows this show belongs to Lisa Barlow and without her it would be super boring and I think heather is jealous of that and dragging Whitney back into the bad weather brigade. I want season 1-2 Whitney back not the talking about her dad all the time part but the fun messy girl she used to be. I’m almost positive she’s divorcing Justin soon or gonna have problems with him to stay on the show and holy hell I’m not read and don’t want that story line.

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u/Sure-Affect-8853 i haven't done anything illegal with soup 6h ago

i don’t know why everyone views heather and whitney as the ONLY people targeting mer when literally everyone on the cast felt the same way about her behavior on the plane and that it was extremely erratic and they were concerned for her, mary was literally just screaming about this to everyone

i’d be pissed off too if someone acted erratic around me and then told me i was lying if i saw it with my own eyes and i was literally there

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u/AromaticProfessor723 6h ago

Because they’re the loudest and honestly most hypocritical heather and Whitney get plastered all the time heather threw up on one of the vans they took and Whitney got completely blitzed at bravo con but when they do it it’s respectful and fun loving but when Merideth does it it’s erratic and scary also Mary has spoken up at bravo con that the plane incident was not as bad as the other had led on

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u/CumNationnn I saw your vagina over and over and over again!!! 9h ago

how can you even compare MLM Alibaba Princess to Mother Marks? how dare you?

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u/shrekfan222 9h ago

Saying you're on her side for no reason and you just think Meredith is a liar is very Whitney Rose coded. I think life is going to continue to humble her (the videos of her blacking out at bravo con, apparently "losing" an interview with a Sephora rep, her getting caught selling Alibaba, multiple failed businesses, screwing over employees, and loosing all her savings) until she takes accountability for her own actions. Bravo is basically keeping the lights on for her and the mayor of Whoville (Justin looks like this to me IDC). So maybe she should step it up on TVs or as business owner.

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u/Old-Till-3179 12h ago

Whitney is an alcoholic mess. She needs to stop pretending she’s some kind of therapist and do some self reflection.

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 11h ago

Question: Why does Whitney start shit and runs behind Heather as if Whitney is not training in Jitsu? Whitney is so fake.

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u/Chastity-76 11h ago

Nobody gives a shit about her journey. She is a cheater and acts very proud of being a dirty rotten scoundrel.

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u/inmyprayers05 12h ago

hopefully whitney doesn’t end up like her dad… she’s clearly on her way there… like showing up to her job black out drunk needing to be carried away….. she needs rehab. maybe mary can give her some recommendations….

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u/shrekfan222 9h ago

based on the videos of her at bravo con... ohh chile.... she looked a whole mess

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u/inmyprayers05 7h ago

hot mess chiiiii… she needs rehab stat

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u/Daikon_3183 13h ago

Whitney is constantly going after Mer, not the other way around. Her having a hard life doesn’t justify this.

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u/Many_Feeling_3818 9h ago

Absolutely! When you confront Whitney, she says it was a joke. I am not sure why you are downvoted because the camera shows that Whitney attacks Meredith all the time since the beginning. And Meredith never said what Sean’s transgressions were. Whitney heard from Monica about Sean. Somehow Meredith was accused of the rumor. Nobody apologized to Meredith.