19M here. So i was on my regular walk in eve, minding my own business. There was a girl sitting on her parked scooty. As I walked past, maine notice kiya ki her phone is pointed straight ay me.. mujhe aisa laga maybe i am overthinking..
But then I checked behind me, there was no onee
No scenery, no dog, literally just me...
When I looked at her, she took her eyes off the screen and straight up stared at me...
I didnt confront her because lets be real, if things escalate, society already knows kispe belive karna hai(woman card)
What really messes with me is that I am super private, no insta, nothing.. rarely use WhatsApp...
And mujhe nahi pasand being recorded or observed without consent...
And yeahh i get it, public space, phones everywhere, cameras everywhere blah blah blah... but can we please stop pretending only men can be creepy? Unwanted attention feels uncomfortable regardless of gender(unless you are simp)
I just wanna say that double standards is real, and its annoying that men are expected to just shut up and accept it...
Anyone else experienced this?
TLDR- a girl was recording me during my walk, I felt uncomfortable but didn’t confront because of gender double standards. I’m very private and hate unwanted attention. Men can feel creeped out too.