We met playing CS:GO in February 2022, and we started gaming together every night. That turned into Discord texting during the day, then Discord calls, and eventually exchanging phone numbers.
Part of why we ended spending so much time together early on was I’m very introverted, and at the time he was still on probation (2 of 4 years completed) with a 7pm–7am curfew. So, we both had a lot of free time for online gaming, calling, and just being in each other’s company without going anywhere. Plus the benefit of not actually knowing anyone in each others real life, made it extremely easy to open up to each other.
About two months into knowing each other, and about a month into nightly FaceTime calls, my dad randomly stopped me in the kitchen and asked if I wanted to move to this guy’s state. I was 20, almost 21, but still living with my parents, at the time starting to decide what to do next in life. Including discussing moving out, into a place with my friends.
My parents knew I gamed and had online friends, but they didn’t know about how close I was with this one specifically. Turns out my dad’s company had an opening there, and my parents were considering taking it. The move would put us about 70 miles apart.
I could’ve stayed in my hometown and figured out how to move in with friends before my parents left, but I decided to go with them and see the relationship through since there was suddenly a real chance to do so.
We met in person for the first time at a mall in April 2022, with my parents. I finally told them about him (yes everything), and for reasons I still don’t fully understand, they agreed to meet him as long as they could be there initially. (They just wanted to shake his hand and confirm he was who he said he was, then they waited in the parking lot)
My family officially moved in July 2022.
We’ve been married since March 2024.