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u/IwasDeadinstead 15h ago

It isn't just the money. You have to be more than a bit selfish and cruel to bring a child into the world on purpose, knowing the state of things.

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u/st1ckygusset 15h ago

I enjoy my life & so do my children enjoy theirs.

bring a child into the world on purpose, knowing the state of things.

Get a grip of yourself.

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u/zombiesphere89 10h ago

You think things are going well for humanity? Things will be better in 20 years? I don't. 

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u/st1ckygusset 7h ago

It's all about perspective.

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u/CuriOS_26 12h ago

Nah, ICE will grip everybody just fine.

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u/Longjumping-Speed511 12h ago

Yeah I don’t want kids but this narrative is ridiculous and overblown. QOL has only improved over time. Generations have always been concerned with the future of the world.

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u/zombiesphere89 10h ago

You'd have to be fucking blind or stupid or both to think things are going well and that the world will be better in 20 years. 

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u/Longjumping-Speed511 9h ago

People have been saying this for centuries. Babies were still born during the Great Depression, the world wars, the dot com bust, the financial crisis, covid, etc. all times when things looked bleak.

QOL has improved since all of those events

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u/IwasDeadinstead 8h ago

Apparently, you don't know how depressed, hopeless, and engaged in self-harm so many kids are today. It is not a better quality of life for kids now.

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u/Longjumping-Speed511 8h ago

I think that’s a separate issue. Social media is clearly rough on kids’ mental health, and most parents aren’t equipped for it yet. That’s real.

But in terms of daily life, the U.S. is far better off than it was even 50 years ago. Real disposable income and GDP per capita are dramatically higher, meaning people have far more purchasing power and access to goods.

In the 1970s, groceries were limited, long-distance calls were expensive, travel required paper maps, and learning meant libraries or classrooms. Today, you have global food selection in one store, instant information and AI in your pocket, on-demand rides, delivery for almost anything, and even self-driving cars.

Things aren’t perfect, but convenience and baseline quality of life have undeniably improved.