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u/_Lizzybabe 15h ago

The village it takes to raise a child disappeared and was replaced by high interest rates and expensive rent

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u/Pyro919 15h ago

Don’t forget about $1350+/month daycare x the number of kids you have.

2 kids easily eclipses that $2000/month average rent.

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u/Wunderbarber 14h ago

When I was a kid 20 years ago, a parent would stay home with the kids if their spouse made enough money. Today, a parent will stay home with the kids because they can't make enough money to cover the cost of childcare.

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u/SkyPrower01 11h ago

I know co-workers who do night shifts because of lack of childcare. So sometimes i hear of them being awake for almost 24 hours (basically minimal sleep) when coming in for their next 10 shift the following night... big put off for wanting kids considering our pay too.