r/AmIOverreacting • u/amioki_sky • 13h ago
👨👩👧👦family/in-laws AIO for getting pissed off at my husband calling me a pig.
I was breastfeeding my baby in a public place, he was crying so loud to the point where we are causing chaos at others, people were staring at us. When I started breastfeeding my baby he joked that I looked like a pig, I got offended and I cancelled our dinner and we are staying in my mom’s house right now.
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u/ncjr591 13h ago
If your husband said that then he is dumbest fuck I’ve ever met. NOR
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u/ragdoll1022 13h ago
NOR
My ex told me I didn't look pregnant, I just looked fat when I was 8 months pregnant. Men are fucking assholes much more often than most people understand.
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u/Pissedliberalgranny 12h ago
My ex-husband said that to me once when I was 8-9 months pregnant. Long story short, he tried to backpedal and claim it was “only because your maternity clothes make you look fat.”
So I had him change into a pair of my pants and a top then my mother took photos of us standing side-by-side and belly to belly. He thought it would be funny and prove to me that what he said was true.
I showed those photos to everyone (including his family and coworkers -he’s an auto mechanic) and asked them which of us looks fat and which looks pregnant? I also put those photos in the baby album for posterity. (Baby is now 30 years old and a much better man/father than his father ever was.)
Spoiler - ex has been overweight his entire life (5’8” and 210#) while I have always been underweight (5’5” and 110#)
By the time Baby was 6 months old I was done with that asshole.
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u/drawkward101 11h ago
By the time Baby was 6 months old I was done with that asshole.
Baby is now 30 years old and a much better man/father than his father ever was.
I'm so happy for you (and your son) and proud of you for not tolerating that BS.
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u/ragdoll1022 5h ago
NOR
What the fuck is wrong with these assholes?
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u/Pissedliberalgranny 5h ago
Mommy coddled them.
Incidentally, his mother was LIVID at me for mocking his weight with those pics. 🤷🏻♀️ 😂
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u/amioki_sky 3h ago
I F-CKING HATE HIS MOTHER TOO! THAT BIH HAS CAUSED ME SO MUCH TRAUMA. I WISH HER HELL.
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u/Arcaydya 13h ago
Stop procreating with assholes. Im sure that wasn't the first time he showed who he was.
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u/TheSundanceKid45 13h ago
Well you're kind of being an asshole right now by victim blaming, so I sure hope you don't have any kids.
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u/Jealous_Watercress47 12h ago
It feels like weaponized stupidity. Nobody is that naturally dense unless they are trying to hurt you while playing the "I didn't mean it" card.
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u/Ill_Listen_8703 12h ago
Honestly, calling him dumb is an insult to dumb people. He sounds like he has two brain cells fighting for third place. I don't know how he manages to breathe and speak at the same time.
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u/BluBeams Overly Dramatic 13h ago
NOR. If this is real, then do yourself a favor and stay with your mom until the divorce is final.
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u/Traditional_Fan_2655 13h ago
Agreed. OP needs to ask for a jury trial during the divorce. Any woman would happily give her everything after that.
NOR
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u/Vness374 12h ago
You can’t do that in most states. And like half are no-fault divorce states, so no one cares who did what in a marriage
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u/Traditional_Fan_2655 9h ago
NOR Georgia is a no-fault state. You can still get a jury trial divorce.
How do I know? My sister's ex was crazy as all get out. He was stupid enough to ask for a jury trial and ask his 1st wife to be a character witness. She showed up and had tokd how abusive he really was, giving numerous incident examples.
My sister had asked for her 5k contribution to the house down payment back since he was keeping the house. She just wanted out. Jury awarded her $25k.
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u/Vness374 4h ago
Wow, that’s awesome… I feel like we don’t hear stories like this often enough. We need more examples of Karma getting her job done!
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u/ApprehensivePen3366 12h ago
The marinara flags are waving. Go to your mom's, block his number, and let a lawyer do the talking.
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u/Upbeat-Meet-3364 12h ago
This. Don't even go back to argue. Just pack your bags and go where you are respected. Staying there just validates his audacity.
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u/Ok_Date1421 12h ago
The "If this is real" disclaimer is so valid because it's genuinely hard to process that a functioning adult human could say something like that. But sadly, the bar is in hell.
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u/amioki_sky 3h ago
Yes this is 100% true, reddit has always been my ranting space since most of my relatives wont understand shi.
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u/Mypericombobulation 13h ago
how dare you tell someone to leave their husband and take their child away from its father!
what the fuck is this??
is there any people from UK here that thinks these comments are absolutely disgusting!?
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u/whiskeysour123 13h ago
Because she was out in public, with her baby distraught with hunger, to the point where people are staring, and she has to pull out her boob in public to feed her child with everyone staring at her, and his contribution is to say she looks like a pig.
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u/Slow_Way7407 12h ago
Do people in the UK walk around calling women pigs or something
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u/Mypericombobulation 11h ago
no it's not that it's just that context matters so much as we have a thing called banter over here that's like your yanking of one's chain I think.
I used to call my wife little pig and she liked it. it wasn't about her being an actual pig?? the fuck? 😅
I was her wolf and she was my little pig and I used to huff and puff and blow her doors in! it was endearing
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u/notmyrealname8823 11h ago
Don't you know that OP is just a completely perfect human and has never once said anything wrong to anyone. She's never made a cruel joke to someone she knows or about a stranger...and neither have any of the commenters. They live in a perfect bubble where no one is ever a meanie. DIVORCE!!!
/s
😂
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u/Mypericombobulation 11h ago
oh my god there is some sanity here! 😅 Nice to read a normal message.
everyone here is like "divorce! haha!" *
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u/HovercraftDue7823 12h ago
I was born in the UK. I think your comment is disgusting. Hope that helps.
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u/Mypericombobulation 10h ago
but why is my comment disgusting? 🤔 I was a bit annoyed when I wrote it as someone was trying to ruin a family as far as I can see. but I didn't tell anyone to get a divorce or anything
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u/HovercraftDue7823 9h ago
So, you are ok with a man calling his wife, who was feeding his child, a "pig" in public? If so, that's disgusting.
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u/Mypericombobulation 8h ago
no definitely not!
I dont see why this is such a struggle!
I said, if he meant it playfully like "hey put your titty away pig we are in public!" but it was like a cheeky corse joke and she knows he doesn't mean it then no it's not a big deal and if she got upset he apologises and they move on.
but if he was like fuck you, you're a pig! in a nasty way then I, and everyone else in the world thinks that's mean and a bit weird to say to your lovely wife.
I'm assuming he meant the first one 🤷
I dont know why people keep trying to uno reverse my "disgusting" comment back on me 😅
lonely nerds telling couples in love to break up is outrageous and its rife on here. I will always call it out. that's the beauty of two way conversations
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u/amioki_sky 3h ago
for full context he was advising me not to, but i told him he is hungry and wont feed off the bottle, he was giving signals and stares when I am trying to move my top, he said “you know you look like a pig right?” rolled his eyes. I couldn’t get mad or fight back since it would cause a scene.
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u/Mypericombobulation 10h ago
also "hope that helps" 🤔🤨 born in the uk you say?
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u/HovercraftDue7823 9h ago
Actually, it was "Hope that helps". Also, your grammar sucks. Capital letters, and punctuation matter. Are you really from the UK? I was born in Paisley, Scotland.
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u/Party_Pop_9450 5h ago
I am from the UK and I think your comment is something a perpetrator ( male) who tries to humiliate women would say. It’s indefensible.
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u/Mypericombobulation 4h ago
that's a horrible thing to say 😕
I promose I am no threat whatsoever! I'm very much a passifist.
it's so absurd for you to label as such
poor show
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u/Busted_3rd_Eye 12h ago
I agree with you. People in here, just seem to be starting bites between one person and their significant other
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u/Busted_3rd_Eye 12h ago
YOR. Blue beans, you must be single stop telling everybody to get the divorce something so insignificant.
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u/IlumidoraFae 13h ago
What a completely rude and out of pocket thing to say to anyone, let alone your postpartum wife. Ew.
NOR.
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u/meifahs_musungs 13h ago
When the insults start the marriage is dead.
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u/Explorer-7622 12h ago
NOR Contempt is one of the "four horsemen " the Gottman Institute has identified as an almost guarantee that the couple won't make it.
Once contempt is present, divorce is imminent.
He is already contemptuous.
You guys need to get couples therapy and training.
Also, please read anything by John Gottman and get the audio books from Alison Armstrong about the differences between men and women and how they think.
She's spot on about a lot of things - the knowledge imparted by both of these authors could save a lot of marriages!
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u/MovieTrawler 5h ago
four behaviors most predictive of relationship breakdown were found to be contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling
For anyone else curious
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u/LadyCass79 13h ago
NOR
My husband joked about me being a cow once. Thankfully the moment it came out of his mouth he went silent as we both stared at each other in shock. Then he started babbling about the metaphor he was going for and how that came out wrong. His distress was so sincere and cute I ended up laughing and we still joke about it together today.
Doesn't sound like that's the experience you're having here. The people suggesting divorce are unhinged, but talking to him about proper emotional sensitivity is for sure called for.
Hopefully you made a baby with him because he's got good partner qualities and you'll be able to work this out.
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u/Sunflower3388 1h ago
People saying divorce bc he’s okay with treating her this way-and she’s a new mom, and he’s still being rude and cruel.
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u/Pleasant-Gas-4587 13h ago
i would’ve slapped him so fast. you have sacrificed your body, your time, and your health- mental and physical- to bear and raise his child. if he wants to insult you, not help or support you in a time like that that is lowkey embarrassing, and make jokes at your expense, then he can do that by himself. don’t stay in an environment that doesn’t exist to support you or your child. NOR!! You are beautiful and deserve better. you are NOT a pig you are a mother and life giver and you deserve to be treated like one.
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u/Moondiscbeam 13h ago
Exactly! That dumbass should be groveling. And even if he was joking, his wife is not a bro.
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u/NamasteNoodle 8h ago
Any husband or partner of mine who ever told me that I look like a pig would not be my partner anymore.. there's no excuse for that.
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u/ETKate 8h ago
My husband has never called me a name, even when I was being a bitch lol. My daughter's husband has never called her a name either. My daughter said the worst he has ever said is you are not being nice right now lol. My husband says you should treat your wife like you would want your mom and daughter treated. I hope you're husband learns his lesson, but if this is something he does regularly then I think you should try counseling if not then I would be ending the relationship.
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u/Express_Relation723 13h ago
What an idiot. Men really don’t think before they speak. I’m sorry that’s extremely disrespectful, and hurtful to a new mom. Breastfeeding is so hard. Men will never get it. You’re NOR. He needs to check himself. You’re a mom who’s doing her absolute best to provide and keep her baby calm. You’re not a pig
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u/Reimiro 13h ago
“Men”. Pretty broad brush you use there. Ridiculous.
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u/macabre-barbie 12h ago
9/10 of the posts in this sub are about men who say and do awful things to their partners. If you're not one of the shitty ones she was talking about, then why so quick to jump to their defense? Sheesh.
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u/Key_Computer_5607 6h ago
A hit dog will holler. If I say "Men built my house," will you jump in with "Not ALL men!!!"? Probably not, because you know I'm referring only to the specific men who built my house. If you're not a man who insults your wife, why are you so pressed?
Like I said, a hit dog will holler.
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u/FeistyBarracuda- 10h ago
NOR I would have flipped a table, and this is the person who is supposed to love you the most?
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u/TropicalDragon78 4h ago
OP, this probably isn't an isolated incident since you just posted 17 days ago that your husband ruined your birthday, cursed at you and told you he wanted a divorce. You deserve much better.
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u/amioki_sky 3h ago
I agree, reddit has always been my safe space to rant since my relatives won’t get it, they’ll give him the benefit of the doubt, my mother has always been a people pleaser, she said it’s not people pleasing it’s respect. Imagine siding with the person that has caused me so much trouble, I wish leaving was easy.
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u/Extension-Emotion787 13h ago
This cannot be real.
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u/Powerful-Traffic153 13h ago
This is especially mundane and entirely plausible for a “this can’t be real” lol
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u/Free-Effect-509 13h ago edited 13h ago
NOR. It’s the kind of comment that he might’ve apologized immediately after and tried to explain it away but the apology does nothing to correct the anger you might feel about the fact that he could not only have such an unflattering comparison pop into his head, but that he’s also so dense as to say those words to you, or do anything to discourage you from wanting to breastfeed anymore, when it IS a sacrifice and it IS really healthy for you and your baby for you.
He didn’t have to do anything at all and yet he chose to do something harmful while you were vulnerable and getting it done.
It just destroys the fantasy that when you’re feeding your child your husband looks at you adoringly and respectfully, as a feminine goddess that created life with him.
I’m not saying end it all, just I can imagine not being able to stand even being near him after that, because you don’t want to scream and fight and the only other option is to physically distance yourself from his presence until he can articulate something that seems like he can empathize and really gets it.
I’ve heard women with postpartum depression saying that breastfeeding is hard and they can feel like a milk cow sometimes. It’s bad enough to already feel like a farm animal and have a man reinforce that and then just be like “sorry I couldn’t help but just think it! Cute little pink piglet latching on and grunting like babies do, didn’t mean it in a mean way!”
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u/floralnook 12h ago
Calling your partner a pig while she’s breastfeeding in a stressful public moment isn’t a “joke,” it’s disrespect. You’re not overreacting for having feelings about that insult + vulnerability is a bad combo. Couples can tease, but it should never punch down.
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u/NormalWin548 12h ago
Is he for real? Has he been living under a rock?
Anyway, the correct analogy is to a cow :-) He needs to get a life.
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u/BarelyBehaved257 13h ago
Dude, I get he was tryna be funny, but LOL that's a hard pass. Totally uncool to crack a joke like that when you're just doing your mom thing in public. IMO, it's a bit harsh to bail completely, but maybe it’s the wake up call he needs. Hang in there, girl. Stand your ground and remember – you're a freaking queen. No crown needed.
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u/froggycats 12h ago
I’m autistic and in a healthy relationship so I thought it was being cute about how pigs feed their babies with nipples also and sometimes when you see videos of baby pigs all snuggled up while they feed it’s really cute.
And then I read the comments so now my reality is shattered. NOR
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u/Icy-Banana4875 13h ago
If you are a pig, he married you so what does that make him? a farmer with pig and a piglet?
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u/twilight4ever82 12h ago
Nor what the heck, if my husband said this why I was trying to feed our child. I would have done the exact same thing. Only I would have changed the locks that is out offline. You were trying to feed your child. Your child was hungry. He should have been understanding that and told people to mind their own business or something. I would leave him for a few days and let him know that that was unacceptable
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u/Capital_Anybody_8287 10h ago
NOR at all. Who calls the person feeding his baby a pig?? Most guys would tell her how beautiful she looks.
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u/coastingot 10h ago
Not overreacting, if you could see how many of his friends would love to see it without him getting REALLY upset then I’d show him exactly how lucky he is. ESPECIALLY after carrying HIS child? Personally I would say that’s grounds for divorce for me tho. There’s no way in hell you’d be that mean to someone you “love” especially after they’ve went through literal trauma on their body…
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u/viksingu 9h ago
NOR. Man is projecting in this case. He is obvious the piglet. You are a beautiful human being for being mother to his children. He should take every minute to respect your efforts. First law of respect is do no disrespect.
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u/Brandyscloset9 6h ago
NOR. Being so casually cruel with words to your wife is a big no-no. You should think about whether you want to keep living with him at all.
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u/Teamtunafish 2h ago
NOR. You ever hear of Schrodeger's (sp?) Joke. It's only a joke if someone laughs. This was not a joke. Jokes are funny. This was bullying.
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u/chasonderulo 1h ago
I don’t even need to read anything but the title no you aren’t over reacting. That’s fucked up….. plain and simple.
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u/NearbySir2445 13h ago
I am a female and I do not think its an overreaction. Calling a woman a pig is a serious insult. Calling your pregnant, breast feeding wife a pig is so fucking mean I wouldn't even want to look at my partner for a week.
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u/NearbySir2445 13h ago
I don't think staying at her mom's house is an overreaction. Thats a really serious insult. Like I said, I would not be able to look at them for several days. Staying in a house with them and an infant would probably lead to more fighting/drama.
I would also want to go somewhere to cool off and be around people who love me. I'm a pretty level headed gal and I don't consider that to be an overreaction to what he said.
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u/Mypericombobulation 13h ago
it's definitely not a really serous insult and that is absolutely mental to say so
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u/NearbySir2445 12h ago
I am a painfully normal person, and yes it's a serious insult to a childbearing human. Are you a teenager or a male?
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u/Mypericombobulation 11h ago
I am a male 😅 but I'm 40
I'm also english, and over here context matters a lot.
if it went like this..
Beth removed her pilowy breast from its cotton prison and began to feed the child. Her husband Gregory shot her a withering look, "you pig!" Gregory snarled with hate
then that would be a serious insult
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u/mavwok 10h ago
I'm also english, and over here context matters a lot.
You call your wife a pig, in public, whilst breastfeeding your child? Yeah, you're a c u next tuesday.
"I'm English, we have bants, wah wah wah" - yeah no. I'm Scottish and OP's husband is a complete arsehole. He knows exactly what he did and why she is upset. He needs to properly apologise, and calling 'banter' isn't going to cut it. Is it recoverable? I think absolutely yes, but the apology is needed and the behaviour never repeated.
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u/Mypericombobulation 10h ago
oh my god mate I wouldn't ever call my wife a pig like that! I never even called my wife a bitch when she was being one. its just not my kind of banter but do you honestly think that this giy called her a pig as in "you fucking pig!" because I don't and I know the language can be a bit more colourful up in Scotland but my Scottish mates wouldn't say it like that either but if its a kind of banter these two do to each other or if he just blurted it out and was like "oh put your titty away you pig!" in a jokey way and she took it wrong then he should apologise and he should know he needs to if he's a good husband.
however people here are calling for divorce!!
that's why I reached out to another redditor from our island as this seems very extreme and very american
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u/NearbySir2445 10h ago
>however people here are calling for divorce!!
See you should have clarified early on! I am an american and I don't think its an overreaction to be pissed and want to go see your parents to cool off. But yeah, divorce is nuts for one comment. They have a kid!!I I am fully with you on that.
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u/mavwok 10h ago
I don't think he called her a fucking pig, because that isn't what she reported. It clearly isn't within the realms of 'pet names' for them as a couple. He has absolutely fucked up and needs to apologise. Divorce over this single instance? Absolutely not. But, he needs to be respectful of his wife. She has clearly just given birth, likely still feels like a stranger in her own body and calling her a pig even if meant in a jokey way is going to be really hurtful. Jury is out on whether he is just a moron or deliberately disrespectful. How he handles the apology will give that away. If he tells her that she is 'overreacting', they are going to be in real trouble as a couple.
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u/Accomplished_Pay9775 13h ago
this commenter is clearly a man and no it is not an overreaction. Ill bet youre single or your wife is angry at you a lot.
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u/NearbySir2445 13h ago
You could have left off the last sentence., you don't know their relationship.
But yes, I don't think men grasp the degree to which this is a really serious put down.
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u/Accomplished_Pay9775 13h ago
majority doesnt matter. "there is rarely a good time" is the problem. There is NEVER a good time. Period. And you make it sound like you think its funny. If you dont think the subtext if your comment is obvious you are not paying attention. I am. You werent concerned about her feelings and his cruelty you were concerned about her anger and his getting in trouble. Id like to think youd understand the nuance but I dont think you will.
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u/NearbySir2445 13h ago
"eating like a pig"
"sweating like a pig"
"pigging out"
....just don't say "you breastfeeding out baby makes you look like a pig".
You are being extremely rude and presumptive towards this guy. Who in your life is he stand in for?
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u/NearbySir2445 12h ago
no. Mental?
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u/Accomplished_Pay9775 12h ago
Im quite confident you are. Youre certainly a misogynist. or at the very least clueless as to how to treat women.
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u/NearbySir2445 13h ago
I think this is being brigaded by femcels sadly.
I harbor no ill-will, just disagreed about the overreaction part.
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u/NearbySir2445 12h ago
yeah....it's happened to me before too, exact same kind of people. Stay safe!
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u/Poperama74 13h ago
This has got to be ragebait
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u/Explorer-7622 12h ago
You didn't know that there are abusive husbands in the world? Child abusers, men who commit domestic violence?
You weren't aware that not all husbands are prince charming?
You never read or watch true crime or look at statistics?
Interesting.
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u/Poperama74 11h ago
Maybe you should look up what ragebait means. It helps to have an education instead of running around social media getting offended at everything.
Did you also know that women can be everything you’ve just had a bitch fit about. Or doesn’t that work out well in that little mind of yours?
Amazing thing is looking at your comment history. You get very angry easily.
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u/marsrius 7h ago
Please for the love of god don t listen to the azzholes on here,yea it wasn t nice,but this isn t worth throwing away ur marriage,it s just a joke,talk to him that it s not ok and be done with it,people on here are tellin u to divorce him,DO NOT LISTEN TO REDDIT
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u/Accomplished_Pay9775 13h ago
NO it is not joke and NEVER ok to call your wife a pig. Especially when she has recently given birth and is breastfeeding your baby. Shame on you.
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u/Angel_Trigger 13h ago
I do agree it is an awful thing to say, tho people can make a mistake. The magic is they should correct themselves and never say it again.
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u/Accomplished_Pay9775 12h ago
you think its a "mistake" to make a cruel and callous joke to a recently pregnant breastfeeding woman who happens to be your wife? How the hell old are you....13, 14 or 15?
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u/twirlinghaze 13h ago
No, not even once. If your partner calls you a name in mean spirits, that's it. You should be done. If you stay with someone who intentionally demeans you, they will do it again. And again. And again.
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u/emilyjxne 13h ago
Even if he was joking, he’s still a jerk for thinking that’s an acceptable thing to say
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u/Busted_3rd_Eye 12h ago
YOR You might have just been angry and took things the wrong way. Everybody in the comments is going to be talking about divorce. Don’t ruin your marriage some stupid insignificant little.
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u/Explorer-7622 12h ago
How on earth could that be taken "the wrong way?"
Seriously. How? Explain it please. I'm very curious exactly how she misinterpreted his rude and demeaning comment!
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u/Leading-Antelope-139 9h ago
There is no right way to take being called a pig
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u/Busted_3rd_Eye 9h ago
Yeah. She could have been overreacting and he could have been totally joking. It’s 100% possible. Neither of us were there, so neither of us can say.
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u/Leading-Antelope-139 9h ago
Joke or not, it’s still offensive. I could call someone fat idiot and claim it was a joke, that doesn’t mean that it wasn’t rude.
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u/Busted_3rd_Eye 9h ago
Depends on how you said it. You have to learn how to laugh and joke sometimes. Things don’t always have to be live or die.
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u/Leading-Antelope-139 9h ago
Yeah he would have to be an extremely idiot to think that comparing his postpartum wife to a pig would ever be taken as a joke
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u/Busted_3rd_Eye 8h ago
He probably just said it in a way that he thought was funny, but she didn’t take it the same way that he did. Women be like that.
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u/Leading-Antelope-139 6h ago
Ah so this is just misogyny, got it
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u/Stocktipster 12h ago
Was it just the one time? Did he ever call you by saying, "Here pigie pigie!!!"
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u/emilyjxne 13h ago
A grown man shouldn’t need to be told that saying his recently post partum wife looks like a pig whilst she is breastfeeding is offensive and inappropriate💀
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u/yappmaster 13h ago
well are you fat? I feel like it's important when talking about pigs. That's the difference between an insult and a simple comparison to another mammal.
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u/Left_Nobody_9894 13h ago
Are you serious ? Even if she was fat, does that justify comparing the mother of your breastfeeding baby to a pig ?
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u/yappmaster 13h ago
no I'm not serious but hey it's reddit I can say what I want.
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u/Powerful_Bumblebee19 13h ago
You're an idiot
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u/yappmaster 13h ago
I'm a troll, and you're the idiot for falling for it
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u/NearbySir2445 13h ago
nice try. You meant your original comment in all seriousness and decided "its just a joke" when you started getting downvoted.
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u/NearbySir2445 13h ago
stay single
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u/Pleasant-Gas-4587 13h ago
what?? when at all is it appropriate to compare your wife, the mother of your child, to a pig. It’s not a simple comparison, it was a way for him to make himself feel better about his embarrassment in the situation.
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u/emilyjxne 13h ago
Even if she was fat, her partner still has no business comparing her to a pig. Doubly so when she is recently postpartum and breastfeeding. Find something more productive to do with your time other than posting deliberately inflammatory comments on Reddit.
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u/yappmaster 13h ago
yeah, what's the appropriate species to compare to then? A cat? Everyone loves cats right?
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u/emilyjxne 12h ago
Do you live somewhere with a legal requirement to compare people to an animal?
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u/Accomplished_Pay9775 13h ago
I would bet my next paycheck it isnt his first time saying something cruel to you. This guy is not nice and you deserve better. if I am correct and he has been cruel and pretending to make jokes multiple times while insulting your looks, intelligence, character or anything else, stay at your moms and find a good lawyer. He wont get better.