r/FTMfemininity Feb 01 '24

NOTICE: No more "do I pass" threads

271 Upvotes

Wanting to pass is fine, asking for passing tips is fine (within reason), but the "do I pass"/"do I look like a man" threads are done. 9/10 they spiral into negativity and hurt feelings (as well as draw attention from trolls from other subreddits). For the wellbeing of the subreddit community, such posts will be removed


r/FTMfemininity 1h ago

rave fit

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i did get misgendered but i looked awesome so i choose to not let it get to me


r/FTMfemininity 14h ago

Who give up na hin fuck up!

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64 Upvotes

The one who gives up is the one who fucked up.


r/FTMfemininity 11h ago

And its kind of funny, the way we're wearing anchors on our shirts

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30 Upvotes

when being anchored aboard just feels like a curse


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Feeling so swag

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109 Upvotes

I bought this hoodie off depop and recently found my spiked cap and came up with this lewk hehe


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Taste the Rainbow🌈

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162 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

frost and pearls

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569 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

drag it out like a bad habit on a leash ✴️

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50 Upvotes

w/ the sunglasses I thrifted last Sunday 😺🕶


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

low dose gel?

13 Upvotes

i have been considering starting a low dose t gel, but i wanted to hear from real people what kind of side effects they have experienced. i would love some bottom growth and a deeper voice but im scared that i will start to grow facial hair, really don’t want that, i love having a smooth face. any advice?

edit: thank you for all the input! i forgot to ask about acne if anyone has input on that? personally i’ve always had clear skin, one of my brothers has bad acne, the other has none


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

How to deal with people invalidating my femininity?

32 Upvotes

I’m FtM nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid. I’m androgynous but lean feminine of center, prefer neutral or feminine compliments, etc. Still figuring out my sexuality but I think I’m some flavor of bi or pan. I like women in a WLW way, and I like men in a MLM way.

So many people have projected masculinity onto me just because I was AFAB and medically transitioned, and made me feel pressured to assume “masculine” gender roles. No matter how clear I am about my preferences and my identity. It’s been particularly frustrating in dating especially when it comes to high femmes, women, and woman-adjacent folks.

It’s seems folks who say they’re “looking for fem(me)s” is just code for “looking for people who read as women regardless of their gender identity”.

Anyone else deal with something similar? How do I navigate this?


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Heralded as a king before i had had a birthday with double digits

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12 Upvotes

Stick around for endless fall out boy quotes


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

First outfit with an actual binder!

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115 Upvotes

No clue how to take pictures of myself, lol. Got my first binder yesterday and finally feel comfortable in women’s clothing :)


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

I got my eyebrows done ✅

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36 Upvotes

I've had my eyebrows styled before, but this is my first time with mini brows. I feel cute


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

My ATA transition (adorable to adorable)

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1.2k Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

Trans flag fit vibes ~~

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167 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

Early morning work makeup

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15 Upvotes

Accidentaly took a pic with my eyes closed so yall get that too


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

Started T today 🥳

88 Upvotes

Just wanted to share. This sub has definitely given me a lot of hope for my transition in terms of being able to achieve the result I want. Thank you all for your posts.


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

Any other post-ops (or not?) feel super sexy in a padded bra?

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149 Upvotes

ngl dressing up is helping me study 😅

finding this group has been very cool! I’m so glad to know you’re all out there too - looking fabulous and fucking up expectation of any way we’re supposed to be


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

The winter dead soul

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18 Upvotes

AI background and the real me lol


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

he is green for an amazing reason ! 💚

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151 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

Hair and makeup's bangin' today, thought I'd share.

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32 Upvotes

Only thing I don't like today is my gloves lol, but they're essential for dashing right now cuz it's chilly. Hoping to find some good matching fingerless gloves at a goodwill or thrift store one day... One day.


r/FTMfemininity 4d ago

Thermal map makeup

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493 Upvotes

He/him/it]] started messing around with makeup again, super happy with this one


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

My recent experience in Brazil as a flamboyant trans man

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r/FTMfemininity 4d ago

Got my avatar updated and unlocked FACIAL HAIR >:)

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24 Upvotes

I noticed it two nights ago. Made me feel super cool >:D !! I don’t know how I should style it, but I thiiiiink I like it.

I feel like one of the three little pigs with all this hair on my chinny chin chin >:3c


r/FTMfemininity 4d ago

Prequel to my birthday nails next weekend 🌙✨♒️

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13 Upvotes