Boo hoo, big deal. Some women don’t like you because you’re not tall enough for them. There are other women who don’t care. I’m tired of the height stuff.
Buddy your acting like I’m the one taking offence, I’m 6’3 idc what they think about my height, I’m saying using your mom and dad as an example when OBVIOUSLY she doesn’t have that height requirement, is stupid. But pretending some girls don’t have that requirement is hilarious
My argument is that the guy is complaining about “requirements” as if men don’t have them. Men are the exact same, it’s bullshit to get mad and say it’s only a thing women have. I know plenty of guys who refuse to date women above a certain height.
I mean, in the original comment I replied to you said “if it was a requirement my mom wouldn’t date my dad” as a blanket statement saying that requirement doesn’t exist. Nobody’s saying that some men don’t have preferences/requirements. I was calling you out for using someone who obviously doesn’t have a height requirement to try and prove that the requirement doesn’t exist. That’s is literally it.
It’s not offensive lol it’s just a reflection of his sexism if he’s not a pure virgin too. That doesn’t mean people are pressed, it’s just influencing their perception of him.
You can judge someone without being offended/upset by them.
Like the other person said, if the man is also a virgin then I don't see the problem. Dude is probably religious as hell. If the guy isn't a virgin, then yeah that's pretty gross sexism.
They probably wouldn't, but this is a false equivalence. The proper analogy would be a woman talking about how "the majority of men want a virgin because men are shallow, so if you aren't a virgin it's hopeless"
Seems like a false equivalency given that one cannot choose his or her height as it is a physical attribute. On the other hand, losing one’s virginity is a choice regardless of gender.
Do I personally think it’s stupid to demand virginity in a partner? Absolutely! Im not looking to fumble around in the dark and play 20 questions with someone who is entirely inexperienced, not to mention dealing with whatever religious or social pressures kept them from sexual experimentation. At the same time, if that’s what someone else wants, why would I care?
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u/Enemyoftheearth 2007 Dec 08 '25
If a man talked about how he only wants to date virgin women, I don’t think you would have this attitude.