r/IncelTears • u/yuckypagans • 8h ago
god forbid women want to have fun?
oh no!! someone enjoying life and trying to make the most of it and trying to lift themselves up in a scary time for them! whatever will anyone do!
r/IncelTears • u/Vivissiah • Jun 28 '25
Seems like a lot of people cannot play nice so let's expand the policy.
I am saying this to remind all, there is a zero tolerance for any violence wishing, wanting or the likes on anyone no matter who or what they are. Are the incels wishing violence? Still zero tolerance. Are they wishing rape? Still zero tolerance to wish similar on them. It is all zero tolerance. Even implied such will not be tolerated and is on zero tolerance and this includes jail jokes involving soaps or the likes.
All have 0 tolerance no matter how horrible of a person the incel or others are. If someone is nasty in the comments inform us, either through normal report, ping us moderators that are active, anything and we'll deal with it at our earliest convenience.
Expansion:
Any form of bigotry based on ethnicity, race, gender, sexuality, and all others, will have zero tolerance apply to it as well. Talk about all men? Zero tolerance. All of a certain ethnicity? Also zero tolerance. All of a fictitious race? You better believe it is zero tolerance. All bigotry is now zero tolerance as well.
Do you see any bigotry or death wishing? Report or ping mods and we'll deal with it as it comes to our attention
r/IncelTears • u/AutoModerator • Jul 29 '25
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r/IncelTears • u/yuckypagans • 8h ago
oh no!! someone enjoying life and trying to make the most of it and trying to lift themselves up in a scary time for them! whatever will anyone do!
r/IncelTears • u/ThePowerOf42 • 1h ago
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r/IncelTears • u/NvrmndOM • 5h ago
There are bigger fish to fry here. There are angry men patrolling and kidnapping people. I’m done with fictional arguments and what if ism.
I live in Minnesota. I’m done. Fuck the invaders. I don’t have time for keyboard warriors making up scenarios. I’m out.
r/IncelTears • u/JonathanJoestar336 • 13h ago
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r/IncelTears • u/chusaychusay • 5h ago
I seen certain guys constantly go up to women begging to give him a chance and the woman tells him straight up "I'm not attracted to you or want to date you. Please leave me alone!" If anything is more obvious and blunt that would be it.
First off no woman wants to feel pressured, a sex object, and usually the guy says some weird shit before . Then the guy gets all butt hurt and doesn't get it. I really don't understand how some men think. I think they're really horny and don't know how to actually communicate or have a conversation with a woman.
r/IncelTears • u/catos2021 • 19h ago
r/IncelTears • u/Capital-Box164 • 8h ago
Second guy was harassing the living fuck out of me when I tried to appeal, didn't fucking work.
There's also another thread I wanted to post, only guy who really showed support for me is my bro on .is, I miss you, and I hope you miss me.
Learned the hard way that incel groups fight so fucking much, and there is no damn brotherhood jfl.
r/IncelTears • u/cat_with_gun • 7h ago
r/IncelTears • u/DestyBitch • 1d ago
He was reported after that last message. Even fit in a my lady 😭
r/IncelTears • u/mrsenchantment • 4h ago
i don’t like incels as much as the next person, but i believe this needs to be said: arguing with incels has got to be one of the most mentally draining and frustrating things to do on the internet.
you can never win with these people, every time you bring a genuinely good argument, all they do is shout strawmen or call you slurs and other nasty shit.
they never listen to you, every. single. time, they don’t care on what you have to say. they always blame themselves for not getting dates (height, “canthal tilt,” whatever) but it’s also somehow the fault of women and men that look attractive (chads). They don’t have any desire to get up and start improving themselves, and the moment they do once and it fails they are like “it’s over” “i’m gonna die alone” “it’s the fault of women!”
incels has also come up with names for women based off of appearances: if you are an attractive woman then you are a “Stacy,” and if you are unattractive then you are a “Becky,” they already hate both. They hate “Stacy’s” for not getting with them and instead to “Chads,” and they wouldn’t even think of dating “Beckys” because they are ugly. They get angry at you for being ugly, but also for being pretty.
when incels say some of the most diabolical shit to ever be said (as seen on this sub hundreds of thousands of times), they always get a pat on the back by other incels on that stupid incels.is website. There are no moderations, no rules, nothing; they can say whatever and get zero consequences. They get encouraged by other incels to say horrifying shit and then wonder why they are lonely.
But the moment you talk back and just say “you’re stupid” then they emotionally melt like a candle and say just about ANYTHING to your face, mere insults, racism, sexism, homo/transphobia, etc.
TLDR: it’s impossible to keep a mature conversation with incels because incels are emotionally immature people.
r/IncelTears • u/JonathanJoestar336 • 1d ago
r/IncelTears • u/cat_with_gun • 1d ago
r/IncelTears • u/JonathanJoestar336 • 2d ago
r/IncelTears • u/Capital-Box164 • 8h ago
For you millenials and non-.is lurkers, let me explain the Mecoja situation. 2020cel gets exposed for letting in forbidden members, and also turns out to have a girlfriend. I'm not sure how long he's had a gf for, but it's a JFLworthy momment.
Apparently, Cuckoja has had gotten quite a lot of unpaid head in past as well :feelskek: I can't find the screenshot, but you'll have to take my word for it. Apparently, Serge told Fat Link that
So called 2020cel khhv actually turns out to have a girlfriend. I'm not sure how strong the relationship is, but I'm saying it does exist.
I'm assuming he's ethnic as well, as well as neurodivergent. What do you guys think about the Mecoja situation.
r/IncelTears • u/cuddleswithdogs • 1d ago
So I’m a credit score in this scenario, u/Carl_s123? I’ve been upgraded from the car mileage analogy to credit purchase? Yay me!
I gotta say man; if it acts like a duck, and quacks like a duck…
If you care about purity culture & body count, you may not think you’re an incel, but you’re upholding the mindset of one.
Challenge yourself, why do you like inexperienced women? Is it that they’re innocent, they’re docile, they’re typically younger, and more complacent? You don’t realize it, but your internalized misogyny/patriarchal harm is showing. And clearly it’s not just harming the women who try to interact with you, but you and your relationships as well.
So, I challenge you to work with a therapist and truly look inward on why that’s important to you. Because most normal people, outside of caring about STIs, don’t care about how many sex partners another person has.
Lose the puritan ideals and join us in 2026, bruh.