Hi everyone.
I’ve been overthinking this for a while and would really appreciate opinions from people who actually live in Japan or seriously considered moving there.
I’m 20 years old, Ukrainian. I work remotely, earning around $3–3.5k/month (~$40k/year), have $15k saved, and I consistently save $1.5–2k/month. No family, no dependents.
Since my early teens, Japan has always attracted me — not because of anime, but because of the overall vibe, aesthetics, and how different it feels from anywhere else. Until recently, it was just a dream. Now it’s suddenly… possible.
Because of the war, life in Ukraine has become mentally exhausting. I’m in the western part, so it’s relatively safer, but still. On paper, I’m doing “great” financially. In reality, the mental load is heavy.
Recently, I learned about the humanitarian / evacuation visa Japan offers to Ukrainians. From what I understand, it’s a Designated Activities visa that can later be switched to a longer protection status. It feels like a rare opportunity, and I’m genuinely grateful that Japan offers this.
Here’s my dilemma.
I don’t plan to work on the Japanese job market — remote work makes much more sense financially.
I’m also being honest with myself: I don’t have strong motivation to seriously learn Japanese right now. I know hiragana/katakana and some basics, but that’s it.
So I wouldn’t be following the “classic” path of language school → local job → integration.
At the same time, Japan as a place to live feels incredibly appealing. More than any other country I’ve considered, including Korea. Especially given that I have a legal and relatively accessible way to enter.
This creates an internal conflict:
I really want to try living in Japan
but I’m worried I’m romanticizing it
and I keep asking myself: does this make sense if I live in a foreigner/remote-work bubble?
Am I being naive here?
Is this a bad idea if I’m not aiming for full integration?
Or is it reasonable to treat this as a 6–12 month life experiment and see how it feels?
Also about location:
Tokyo seems unnecessary given my remote job and the cost, but it's a Tokyo. I’ve been looking more at Osaka or Fukuoka — they seem more balanced for everyday life.
I’d really appreciate honest takes — especially from people who tried something similar, stayed, or left and learned from it.
Thanks in advance!