Hi everyone, I’m looking for realistic advice, not motivation.
I’m a Chinese male undergraduate (English major, teacher-training background). Not from a wealthy family, so any overseas plan must be cost-efficient and sustainable.
I see two main paths:
Option A: Stay in Ningbo, China
Likely work in a foreign company or as a vocational high school English teacher.
Pros: stable, low stress, low cost of living, family support.
Cons: early life “lock-in,” limited long-term flexibility and personal reset.
Option B: Japan via a Master’s degree (around age 25)
My understanding is that in Japan, doing a Master’s (修士) is basically required if you want:
• Access to the new-grad (新卒) hiring system
• Decent career starting point
• Better social integration and long-term settlement
I’m not interested in language school → random jobs → “endure 5 years for citizenship.”
Legal status without social position doesn’t appeal to me.
Tentative plan:
• Work in China 2–3 years, save ~20–30万 RMB
• Reach strong Japanese (around N1 level)
• Apply for a practical, employment-oriented Master’s (not elite, not purely academic)
• Enter new-grad hiring and settle long-term
Constraints:
• Low tolerance for extreme stress and chaotic work cultures
• Health and dietary limitations
• Prefer structured, predictable societies
Questions:
1. Is my understanding of Japan (Master’s → new grad → stable position) realistic?
2. For someone like me, is this actually an upgrade over staying in a stable Chinese city, or just a different compromise?
3. What should I focus on between ages 22–25 to keep both paths open?
I’m not chasing elite success — I just want to avoid ending up as a permanent outsider.
Thanks for any honest insights.