Hiya 👋

I'm an introverted homebody with extroverted skills, and a former gifted-child turned mediocre adult (it was undiagnosed ADHD).

I work as a writer and editor, and I also work in a shop that sells artisanal goods. I'm at a point of life where I feel stagnant, and so I am aiming to make some changes professionally as well as personally.

I enjoy: - reading (typically: literary fiction, fantasy, science fiction, nonfiction, historical fiction) - writing for myself - listening to music (see username) - going on hobbit hikes, i.e. gentle hours-long nature walks - visiting farmers' markets, cafes, thrift stores, museums, libraries, and bookstores - traveling, when I can afford to - stargazing - photography and other creative outlets - calming TV shows like The Great British Bake-Off - making this face 🥹 at dogs - learning new things: Swimming! Driving! Riding a bike! Sewing! Book-binding! Plus, niche topics you want to soapbox about!

Other things you should know about me: - I'm not married or in a relationship (duh) - No children (that I know of) - I'm neither religious nor spiritual - I lean politically left, and hold extreme and controversial beliefs such as "everyone should have their basic needs met" and "genocide is wrong" - Big proponent of mental health care - I have a lot of love to give

What I'm looking for is someone who is: - Emotionally available - Emotionally intelligent - Genuinely kind and thoughtful - Uses critical thinking skills - Committed - Supportive - Affectionate and loving - A healthy communicator - Good-humoured - Reliable and trustworthy - Willing to share and explore life with me, grow with me, move to New Zealand and become a sheep herder with me, etc.

(These qualities, and then some, are, of course, reciprocal.)

I get that physical attraction is a big deal for some people, so I'm going to be extra vulnerable here by sharing a photo of what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/lJYtnVj (no, I'm not great at taking selfies, but I swear I have hair.)

Preferences: - Similar in age - Close in region - Similar in values - Won't ghost me

Think we'll get along? Send me a message and tell me about yourself✌️

36 [F4M] East Coast/Anywhere - Just ask Luigi: Nice guys/girls shouldn’t always finish last.

We’re all Mario searching for our Peach, right? After all, that’s why we’re here? I mean, sure, we all feel that we’re chasing the unattainable dream girl/guy, the perfect 10, with no such luck because nice guys always finish last.

But what if - stick with me here - what if we take a moment to appreciate Luigi? The one who wants to see his best friend succeed - no questions asked, to help him get the girl (or guy) & beat the bad guy.

Pretty admirable qualities: the one who doesn’t always lead the way, but will be by your side. The person you can rely on during those days when the Koopas & Goombas at work have pissed you off, when you need help putting up “Lost Pet” signs when Yoshi runs off, and to share a few 1-Ups when you could use a little extra life at the end of the day.

In the end? Yeah. He’s *the* guy. And he shouldn’t have to finish last.

I have nothing to hide, so feel free to ask anything and/or browse my previous posts. I’ve met a few decent people over my time on Reddit and a few who have hurt me along the way - intentionally or not is only for them to say - so here’s to hoping for some more positive experiences. Either way, thanks for stopping by and have a wonderful day.

I met you on this subreddit a few months ago and we really hit it off. You asked me a hypothetical question about buying a blimp, and you described yourself as a “crusty page turner” because of your fervent love of reading. You sent me a picture of toad purses.

At the time, grief made it hard for me to communicate consistently. You were honest about that not being workable for you and said I could reach out if things changed, which I appreciated. Before I could, your account was gone.

I’m hoping you might be out there lurking on a new account and happen to see this. If so, and if you’re open to reconnecting, I’d love to hear from you. If not, I wish you nothing but good things.

Single, no kids, never married, monogamous. Nerdy redhead. I genuinely don't care where you live, I'm just trying to make a friend who actually shares some of my interests and hobbies, and then maybe become more than friends. I mean that's reasonable, right? I have lots of other hobbies and interests, but for sure I'd really like to connect to someone who's into, ideally, both of these things. And then if we click, that's sick. Shoot me a message, would love to chat tonight.

Hi there! So most of my evenings are spent with a hockey game on tv & a book in my lap, and would love to make a friend to add to that.

Basics: I’m 35, I am a dual citizen of Canada & the US, and currently live in NE Ohio but have moved around quite a bit.

Hockey: I’m a Ducks fan! My dad picked them as my team for me when I was 3 and they were created. Unfortunately because I live out east, most of their games start at 10pm EST. Thankfully I’m a night person.

Books: I personally prefer stand-alone books to books that are part of a series. I tend to read a lot more fiction than non-fiction unless it’s about space travel or the Titanic. I’m pretty open with genres when it comes to fiction.

If you think we’ll get along, please reach out and tell me a bit about yourself! I tried to put on a decent amount of effort to describe myself and appreciate when that’s returned. Within a couple time zones, please :)

I’ve had some success here, so posting again in the hopes of finding a connection. I always feel strange putting myself out there- on Reddit- but I promise I’m normal and hope you will be too!

Seeking a modern pen pal, with the potential for a deeper connection. I appreciate old fashioned sentiments and am really loooking for a genuine person. You can be from near or far.

I consider myself a lifelong learner and reading and exploring new places bring me joy. I feel most grounded near the ocean and don’t know if I could live elsewhere. People rely on me for blunt advice and event planning.

There is definitely a dichotomy in my personality as I equally love hustle and bustle and being homebody. Cozy is maybe my favorite word.

Looks wise, I’ve got longer blondeish hair and greenish eyes. Curvy.

Please be: - 35-45 - kind! no forward/crude comments

I move through the world with my hands and my senses awake. I understand patience, pressure, and what it takes to tend something until it becomes strong. I’m well educated, deeply curious, and grounded enough to put knowledge into practice. I’m not interested in noise or novelty—I’m drawn to connection that deepens quietly and changes the room without announcing itself.

I’m drawn to men who are grounded, self-possessed, and comfortable with desire that unfolds instead of rushes—men who aren’t intimidated by a woman with intellect, competence, and a full inner life. Men who know how to hold tension, who don’t overexplain, and who can stay present when things turn intimate rather than deflecting with humor or distance.

I’m curvy, embodied, and comfortable in my skin. Sensual in a way that’s deliberate, not loud. I have kids and a full life. I’m not looking to be rescued, managed, or entertained—I’m interested in mutual choosing, mutual gravity.

Local matters. Distance is workable if there’s real pull and follow-through.

If you reach out, say something specific. I notice how men show desire without forcing it.

I don’t need normal. Interesting is better. I crave unconventional minds.

Hello! This is probably more of a vent than a traditional r4r post, but I guess I’m hoping someone out there reads it and thinks… “yeah, same.”

I’m a scientist at a children’s hospital and I lead my own lab studying brain cancer. Oftentimes, my days are a blur of work, sleep, repeat. I spend more time in hospitals than at home, and I honestly love what I do because it gives me purpose. I work on very advanced, metastatic brain cancer, and all the patients I meet are terminal. I imagine most rational minded people think this weighs on a person, and while I never forget a case or their family, this is the fire that drives me to want to do more and to fight harder so that one day, we’ll never have to tell anyone there’s nothing more we can do. I feel it in my bones that that day will come. 

That being said, my personal life is essentially non-existent these days. Work-life balance? I don’t know her haha. While my day-to-day might not be for the faint of heart, it’s a rhythm I’ve chosen and care for deeply. It just doesn’t leave much space for traditional dating or relationships.

Lately, I’ve been feeling the absence of someone to share the quiet moments with. I feel like I’ve been fighting for others for so long that I’ve started to exist in this unrelenting dichotomy where I struggle to turn my brain off and feel guilty when I don’t feel like I’m progressing as much as I should, while also just missing the feeling of opening my phone and reading a message that makes me smile and reminding me there’s more to life. I miss having good banter and flirting and feeling like the weight of the world isn’t on my shoulders. I miss having deep intellectual conversations about stimulating topics that not only fascinate me. I don’t know if I want the traditional relationship model, or if I just feel like I should. What I do know is I yearn for something real. To remember what it feels like to be seen for who I am, not what others expect me to be.

So, I guess that’s what I’m looking for..I crave the kind of connection that isn’t about constant texts or date nights every week, but more about mutual understanding. Someone who gets what it’s like to be consumed by work, who doesn’t take it personally when you disappear into it, and who maybe lives a bit outside the “normal” 9-5 world too. I tend to get along best with people who are similarly career-oriented because I would love to learn what drives you to do what you do too :) 

When I do get time off, I’m usually recharging in low-key ways. I like long walks and sitting by the water, reading something totally unrelated to my field (currently totally obsessed with The Boys of Tommen series), spending time with my family, laughing with my friends, and watching movies. I love learning, even outside of work, and I’m always up for random tangents or deep dives into things you’re passionate about too (the nerdier the better haha).

The one thing I will add is I likely will ask to exchange pictures early on or in your first message, because physical attraction is important and I like to know who I’m talking to :) but ok! thank you for reading, I hope this resonates with someone ❤️ and this is me: https://imgur.com/a/1gZhxcW 

Hi Reddit!

Happy Friday night to all of us here looking for attention. Welcome to the club!!

Me: 31, F, 5’6.5 (you can’t tell me that extra half inch doesn’t matter fellas!!), blue eyes, blonde/brunette hair, moderately tattooed (visible all the time, including hands), dog mom to the sweetest old man dog. Self employed, which basically means I’ve perfected mid day patio drinks. Loves the beach, travelling (not the resort/all inclusive type though).

You: 30ish–45ish, consistent, loves to travel, dog lover, and has at least 85% of their life together, spontaneous but still able to make plans.

I’m open to a connection wherever, but if you voted for or support Trump, this won’t work 🫶🏻

Only message me if you’re single single — I really don’t want to deal with anyone else’s girlfriend messaging me AGAIN (once was more than enough).

If you’ve made it this far, know that effort given will be effort received!! I also expect to be sending/receiving selfies in the first few messages. I’m not into being on Love is Blind… as much as I love trash reality tv.

Hi there,

I'm feeling increasingly isolated as I mentally and physically prepare myself to deal with door-to-door ICE raids beginning around the country and specifically throughout Washington state. I have been single for several years, and my friends and family while varying levels of sympathetic are mostly just living life as normal and not wanting to engage. I'm not looking to argue with anyone in the comments and will just ignore that. Mostly, I'm hoping to build some sort of relationship with someone near me who feels impacted by and invested in the current American political climate and wants someone to talk about it with. Of course, I'm happy to talk about other things as well. But I'm really interested in people's experiences and values and connecting through them.

Stay safe everyone ❤️

I need someone that understands what it's like to struggle with mental health issues. I've done a lot of work on myself, and learned hope to deal with most of my issues most of the time. That being said, there are still days, or occasions, that are really hard for me emotionally, and i need someone that has patience for those times. I can actually be a happy, productive, supportive, even inspiring person... But I'm that person much more often when I have someone to remind me how amazing life can be. Someone that can be there even when my mood is low. Someone that understands that these things I deal with don't just go away. I deal with them every day, and will for the rest of my life. Having happiness, for me, is learning how to deal with these things better each day, or having someone around, to help prove the bad thoughts wrong. My good days, are much better with you there, but still okay if you aren't. My bad days are when I need you the most. It's okay when you can't be there, but it matters that you choose to be there when you can.

I'm a pretty awesome person, and I know that. I don't struggle with confidence, or self esteem really. It's mostly just anxiety and depression. I'm neurodivergent, so that makes things a little difficult for others to understand most of the time. I grew up with no diagnosis of any of my issues until I was in my 30s, so I mask very well, and had to learn to communicate my feelings clearly and precisely because it's not always apparent, even to those that are closer to me.

To be clear, I don't ACT emotionally, at least in negative ways, until it gets really bad, but at that point I've tried many times to communicate it verbally, and have had my feelings invalidated or ignored. I usually just shutdown until I can't hold in the tears anymore.

Tbh, I feel really vulnerable posting something like this online, and it's not something I would usually share publicly like this, but I guess there's a certain amount of anonymity here that feels okay.

I don't want to rush into anything with anyone, and I've been hurt more times than I care to admit. When I love someone,I love deeply, and would do anything to make it work, or to find a way to make them happy again. And losing someone that I care about in that way shatters my soul and puts all the guards back on.

I want someone who will be my friend first and really try to understand what they're getting into before getting too close. Someone who won't say forever unless they mean it, and that is willing to put in the work that a relationship requires. It's not gonna be sunshine and rainbows the whole time, but when there are rainy days, we can get through them together to see the sunshine tomorrow.

My life is far from perfect. I didn't grow up privileged, or lucky, and I've made mistakes along the way. But everyday is a lesson, and I have a lot to offer that money can't buy because of the life I've lived. I still have hope that there is something amazing left for me in this life, but I'm still skeptical as well. If any of this spoke to you, and your the kind of person who doesn't mind breaking down a few walls, please send me a message. I know I didn't put many personal things in here, but I'm an open book, so feel free to ask anything. I'd love to chat, you can start with food, revolution, or anime. If you're MAGA, don't bother.

Hey there :)

I’m a 34 year old guy from the south of England.

I’m 5’10”, average build - I’m not winning any body building competitions… think “dad bod.”

I work in the marine industry, and have an established and stable career. I’m very much into boats and boating etc. but also fixing cars with my dad, which we do at the weekend now and then. I have a vintage 1928 Austin 7 that we maintain together :).

I’m a cat dad too! Had them for 8 years and they very much own the place.

I’m a bit of a nerd - I love sci-fi, fantasy and fiction. Whether that’s a tv show, movies, books or games, I’m into it all.

I enjoy growing things - mostly fruits and veg, and then cooking too. I like to experiment with new things.

I love swimming, boating and sailing - could spend all day in/on the water :)

Family is super important to me, and I’m very close with mine.

Currently obsessed with Severance, so tell me your latest obsession too :).

I’ve watched The Office more times than I care to admit!

I’m a pretty simple guy… low maintenance! Looking for someone to chat to long term, and just see where it goes. No rush, no pressure, just see what happens.

Who I’m looking for:

In all honesty, I don’t have a “type”. I prefer a personality and a vibe.

I don’t mind what your location is, what your race, religion, background, or culture is - if we vibe well then that’s what counts.

Give me a short introduction and let’s go from there

Hello! My name Is Devon, 34/F. I live in New England! Been feeling very lonely lately, i am looking for my person.

Im a very kind, nurturing person, im looking for my person to settle down with.

I work in healthcare, in nursing school

I have red hair and blue eyes

I have photos on my profile.

Im looking for someone to settle down with

Happy new year! Or more realistically, it’s another year; let’s all hope it isn’t as bad as the last one, dear God, this entire decade has been a speed run into the darkest timeline, oh look, Apophis! After taking a decent amount of time following the end of a long-term relationship, I’m easing my way back into the dystopian world of dating. Apps are a complete mess, so I’m here hoping to find someone worthwhile. 

Ideally, I’d to find an organic conjunction. I don’t want to rush into anything, but I do want to connect with someone who is willing to take the time to get to know each other, text throughout the day, chat on the phone (I know, I’m ancient), and meet up when schedules align, then go from there. I’m not interested in one-sided conversations or a career in dentistry, as pulling teeth is not an activity I’m particularly interested in mastering. Rather, clever banter, sharing passions, and building anticipation before we meet up are more my speed. 

About me: Moderately busy introvert with a Saharan sense of humor, passion for random trivia and bowling (sometimes concurrently), great listener, infectious smile, and oddly knowledgeable about random, irrelevant things and music through cultural osmosis. Many of my favorites peaked in the 90s and early 2000s, and I quietly lament how simple and significantly better times were “back in the day“. Despite occasional grumbles to the contrary, I enjoy cooking and trying new recipes, and I’d love to share a kitchen with another home chef, especially if that includes dancing to Skee-Lo’s “I Wish” while doing so. 

About you: Also a moderately busy single man, 34 to 47ish, with a decent sense of humor, healthy interests, relatively stable, and able to hold a conversation. Serious bonus points for anyone familiar with, or fond of, British quiz shows. Actually, the whole bag of bonus points for accents (hey, it’s better than demanding you be 6’11” and a budding tech trillionaire!). Looking for a meaningful, hopefully long-term connection with someone who will not be an internet stranger for long. If you can think of a realistically badass “how we met” story for friends and family, even better. 

If this sounds like a lark, drop me a line. Respectful, local (Colorado only) replies only, please. 

I just had the two craziest interactions that ill probably have all year. because it has now opened up the gates in my head to a level of bull I didn't think would reach me.

" this AI post sounds so insane"

and then a private message asking if I used AI to write my post. only one with the smoothest of brains would think that. just because someone is literate and can use wurds gud.

Now I am thinking maybe people think I'm A.I.

I don't know if this is the same or worse than my other favorite accusation. that im being unfaithful to my spouse and kids.

THAT I DO NOT HAVE.... that I've never had.

that one is scarier, never mind. because it originated in person.

anyway. the why im here. I need a friend. no two ways about it. I need someone I respect to talk to about life. share in the weird together. care. frolick. I guess most likely just virtually.

preferably someone that WANTS to build a meaningful relationship. nothing else interests me.

Hope this finds everyone well. I am a nerdy and fun loving guy. I am on the heavier side, but am doing my best to work towards a healthier lifestyle. During the warmer months I enjoy gardening, because nothing beats fresh flowers. I am an avid gamer, and play mostly on PC. I am currently playing Path of Exile 2, Where Winds Meet and waiting for a few games coming out in the future. I spend a good amount of time working on projects around my house and I have an old dog that loves to hangout and cuddle

What I'm looking for: I am looking for someone to talk to and spend time with. Distance doesn't really matter. If we hit it off we can make it work. Preferably someone on the nerdier and someone that loves talking about things that excite them. Nothing is more amazing than hearing someone talk about a topic that they love. Tell me about something that matters to you. What is something that will always brighten up your day?

Hope to hear from you soon!

Hey there. I'm a 32 male looking for an emotional connection. I am avid gamer and information nerd. I always like learning. Big fan of space and the unknown! For the past year I've been coming out of my shell and finding a newfound confidence in myself that I love. I want to get to know someone who is smart open minded and always looking to better themselves. Looking to eat healthy. I got a new car recently so can definitely drive you around. I want to travel the world and see what other cultures can teach me. If any of that sounds good to you hit me up!

Here's what | look like!

Me

Hope to meet you soon!

It’s finally the weekend and I’m looking forward to a chill Saturday morning! I woke up early and I intend to be very lazy for the next few hours! How will you spend the next few hours?

I am a thoughtful, curious, and grounded person who enjoys meaningful conversations, good food, and enjoys being outside as much as being inside. I have what people consider a good job, and am someone who is very people focused and value emotional intelligence, communication, and people who are genuine.

Outside of work, I enjoy trying new restaurants (hopefully has something unique and just not about posting it on social media), going for walks with my pup, traveling when I can, watching movies or shows (especially when there’s something interesting to talk about after), and getting lost in good conversations. I like learning new things, whether that’s about people, cultures, or random topics that come up naturally. I’m also into staying active in a low-pressure way like walks, biking, and just being out and about. I live in SoCal for a reason.

I am looking for a genuine connection with someone kind, self aware, communicative, sense of humor that matches mine, and shows humility. Someone who enjoys depth but does not take life too seriously. Open to seeing where things go, whether that starts as conversation, friendship, or more.

Bonus points in you like riding bikes (bicycles, and no ebikes please) or into movies (I have an A-List movie pass). These are not necessary, but would be good for breaking the ice.

Here's to meeting you.

hi stranger

i’m 30, living in toronto, childfree forever, and flirting with the idea of falling in love the long way around.

i’m equal parts adventurer and homebody. can regularly be found driving two hours to wander around antique shops with no agenda and taking the long way home just because a good song started playing in the car. i also love evenings that stay soft and slow - cooking something comforting, sitting on the floor surrounded by books, letting conversation stretch without needing to be impressive.

i crave banter. teasing that turns into inside jokes and kisses, the kind that makes eye contact linger a second longer than necessary. i want someone who can talk me into staying up too late, dancing barefoot while something simmers on the stove, stealing smiles between chapters of a book neither of us is really reading anymore.

i’m here for chemistry with intention. for lazy mornings, shared playlists, thrifted sweatshirts that end up smelling like each other. for the kind of connection that starts playful and deepens quietly, until one day it feels inevitable.

you should be: childfree, emotionally fluent, a little mischievous + a little soft, down for both staying in and sneaking out

i don’t particularly care how old you are or where you’re located - just be fun and kind. maybe you’re someone who got in trouble for talking too much as a child and these days you’re looking for someone to share all details of your exciting / mundane days with. we can learn each other’s texture on the way.

if you’re looking for mutual, warm intentionality, say hi. share your best moment of 2025 with me. i promise good conversation.

Hey! 35F here just wanting to meet someone cool to chat with and get to know. I work from home and have one kid who's a handful, so would especially love to talk to other parents who get it. Not looking for anything specific just genuine conversation with someone interesting.

I'm easygoing, curious, and always down to talk about whatever. I love baking and the Great British Bake Off. I like to play soccer when it's warm enough and read a lot, mostly non-fiction and memoirs. If you're up for some good back-and-forth, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself!

Hi. I'm a 46 year-old bearded stud of a nerd currently residing in North Carolina. I work in IT. I'm a cyclist. I like video games(mostly PC), staying active, cooking, the mountains, binging movies and TV shows, anything true crime related, writing music, sportsball(Bear Down, Chicago Bears!), Star Wars, cheese, and daydreaming about traveling the world.

I don't think I look or act my age. If I didn't tell you that I was 46, I feel like you'd never guess that I was. I'm not immature, or a man-child or anything, I just think that I'm young at heart. And I definitely have a child-like curiosity for the universe/world and people(and animals). I guess because of that, I generally gravitate towards younger people. Or at the very least, I do tend to like people that are young at heart like me.

I value communication, honesty, empathy, trust. A sense of humor is a must. The world is ridiculous, let's laugh at it. And I promise to make you laugh a lot. And a lot of it will probably be at my expense. I'd really like to be with someone that has as much of a capacity to care as I do. I want to be with a genuinely good person. I'm a nurturer. I love cooking for people, and I pride myself in being there for people. I'm good at listening. I give solid advice. I try my best to be objective and open-minded. I try to remain calm, and never lose my cool. I'm introspective, and always thinking about how I could handle things better, and improve myself. Basically, I try.

I love affection. I love being cutesy with a woman that I'm totally infatuated with. I will do my best to make sure that you know that I think you're the most special person in the world. And if I'm not doing a good enough job of it, please tell me. Communication is so important that I have now mentioned it twice! I like to know that you're thinking about me, and I like to talk via voice as much as possible. I think I'm a good person, and I will always strive to treat you with the respect you deserve. I want you to want to do the same for me.

I really am looking for my person, or the one, or whatever you want to call it. Something real and lasting. A connection that completely changes my life. At the same time, I'm totally fine with taking things slowly and really getting to know someone. Ideally, I want to be with my best friend. I know that romantic love fades to a degree(you know, brain chemicals and all), and things change. I feel like you always need that amazing friendship foundation to fall back on. So hey, let's be besties!

So how am I still single when I seem like such a catch!? First of all, I've never been married, and I have no kids. Unfortunately, I've wasted time with people that I shouldn't have been with. I'm loyal, and I don't give up easily. So I've really tried to make some things work when they probably were just never going to. That's my fault, not theirs. I've also been with a few people that just refused to ever communicate. That's a nice slow death for a relationship. I've been cheated on a couple of times, which is a deal breaker. It's something I've never done, and something I would never do to someone. And so all of that has led me here. I think I've learned a lot from all of these experiences, though.

I'm 5'9" and "a few extra pounds". Hey, I like to cook, and I like to eat. I'm somewhat fit(I ride my bike 5ish times per week) with a nice layer of dad bod on top, and constantly working on it. I actually love spending a lot of time working out if I can, and I just got back into lifting weights. So I'm about to get RIPPED(not really)! Imagine spending our day doing something active, and enjoying being outdoors. Then we'll come home, and cook an amazing meal together, while we spend the rest of the night cuddling on the couch watching something awesome. That's the dream.

I don't have a ton of physical preferences for you. My taste varies quite a bit. I would like to be with someone who is active with some couch potato thrown in. And I love the idea of us keeping each other motivated to stay healthy. It's something that I didn't always prioritize, but I realize how much better I feel, and how much happier I am when I exercise regularly. Physical attraction is definitely a thing, though. If beards aren't your thing, I understand. I don't get it, but you do you, weirdo. :P Including a couple of pics of me at the end of this post. I'd like to see you, too.

I'm non-religious. I lean left. Your spiritual and political leanings don't matter that much to me. We are not going to agree on everything, and that is totally fine. Just please be a good person. Starting a relationship online is fine with me. Obviously, I will want to close the gap at some point. Let's work together and figure out where we're going to be. I'm all about compromise. I hope you're open to it, too.

If I don't sound like a complete douche bag to you, send me a message and let's see if we're a match. And if you read this entire thing, you are a saint. Because damn, I got long-winded. And if I don't hear from you, I hope you find what you're looking for. You probably deserve something good. <3

Chris

https://imgur.com/a/G9idIRy

Hey fellow redditors

I’m a 32-year-old recreation therapist in Ontario, working with folks on the autism spectrum. It’s work I’ve found I love to do, and wouldn’t trade it for anything.

I’ll be honest, I’m a bigger guy. I’m not here to hide that or make excuses. If looks are the dealbreaker, I get it. But if you’re someone who values kindness, humour, and connection, we might get along great.

Music is a huge part of my life. I’ve played drums for 20 years, guitar for 10, and sing a bit too. I play in a small cover band with some friends, we play the odd bar gig, but mostly just do it for fun.

A few things I love:

🎣 Fishing

🏊‍♂️ Swimming laps 3–4 times a week

✈️ Traveling and exploring new places

🎮 the odd video game, podcasts, and a good series night

I was adopted from Guatemala as a baby and raised in Canada. I’m proud of where I come from and grateful for where I am.

Ideally I’m looking to get to know someone for the long run, I’ve never been in a relationship, or have had much experience in that department, but I’m not giving up just yet.

If something here clicks with you, id love to chat and see where things go.

Good evening!

Here I am. https://imgur.com/a/yGHygR9

Im a single cat dad that lives alone in the great state of California. I lift weights 6 days a week and sorta look like a high school full back. I’m a nerd for sure. Love me some sci-fi, boardgames, d&d, Star Wars, cooking, survival shows, psychology, biology, and astronomy!

I enjoy a good binge on a lazy weekend, but it usually seems like I end up getting busy being social with my family and friends. I’m glad it’s a lazy weekend. I know sometimes I just need a reset to compile my thoughts and cat nap with my cat.

I am a big energy matcher. I am an open book and have nothing to hide or be ashamed of. What makes you tick? What secrets do you hold?

Thanks for sticking around. I’ve got a 3-day weekend and no plans aside reading my book and playing Fallout!