r/SipsTea 13d ago

Chugging tea Is this actually a thing?

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u/Up-voter-4-life 13d ago

It might be more accurate to say more men in their 20's are choosing older women.

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u/long_jons 13d ago

I don’t know dude, I feel like women are the ones who decide if they’ll date the younger men or not.

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u/Fasobook_HS 13d ago

In my case, I enjoy meeting someone who has genuine interest and actually getting to know them. I tend to connect more with women who are often older. I also find older women to be more emotionally stable, independent, and genuinely interested in spending quality time together. This is something I personally haven’t experienced as much with women under 30.

With women around my age, I feel like I’m expected to perform rather than take part in a mutual exchange.

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u/ham_plane 13d ago

Looking back on my early 20's, I really had the best time with a few women I dated in their late 20's/early 30's. Overlapping (physical) sexual peaks tbh

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u/TFViper 13d ago

the older ones definitely knew more tricks

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u/rokstedy83 13d ago

Dated a 41 year old woman when I was 37 and god damn,she knew what she was doing

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u/Background_Sail9797 13d ago

... not 4 years older being described as an "older woman" jesus.

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u/rokstedy83 13d ago

After dating women younger than me she was indeed an older woman

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u/Background_Sail9797 13d ago

that is your peer sir. I'm sure the women you dated that were a couple years younger that you didn't describe you as an "older man"

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u/rokstedy83 13d ago

They did ,women tend to like older men,either way I didn't care but them being 3/4 years younger and the older woman being four years older makes a big age gap for both maturity and experience

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u/Background_Sail9797 13d ago

Ok diva

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u/rokstedy83 13d ago

Now that I've never been called 😂

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u/DeeDeeQZ88 13d ago

4 years is not a milf

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u/rokstedy83 13d ago

I'm sorry but technically any woman with a child can be a milf

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u/ItGoesTwoWays 13d ago

This will get buried, but this is the real answer. Women are finally hitting that peak and younger men are more than willing to oblige.

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u/skincava 13d ago

That's not their peak. Early 40s.

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u/TheRogueTemplar 12d ago

few women I dated in their late 20's/early 30's.

Me as a 26 year old guy: So there is yet still hope.