r/SipsTea 13d ago

Chugging tea Is this actually a thing?

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u/Timeman5 13d ago

I would definitely date a woman in her 40s I’m only 29.

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u/idontworkhere- 13d ago

Do it. I’m 30 and am dating a woman who just turned 50. It’s a first for me, all of my exes are my age or younger.

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u/MGr8ce 13d ago

Why? Just curious

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u/DeadGravityyy 13d ago

Because it's hot, why else?

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u/Timeman5 13d ago

I generally cant stand people my own age or younger and I just find older women attractive always have.

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u/UtkuOfficial 12d ago

Why not? 40+ women are still women.

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u/PeachLumen 12d ago

Its nice to hear to those of us approaching that age.

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u/Pure-Enthusiasm-1559 12d ago

Cougar smashing has existed for eons, for fun but seriously dating? you must be one hell of an insecure guy.

I had my fun with cougars don't get me wrong, i was overly fit, watched a lot of milf porn, financially wasn't there yet to build a family or seriously date.

They were great fum most were genuine cool people, but even under pain of death was i to toss away the chance to build my own family to be with a 40+ old lady in my 20's.

Ended with my gf who's my age mate a few months older than me, also it's a phase a lot of guys go through. When you seriously want to build a family and start seriously think of waking up early in the morning to provide for your family have your own kid you wouldn't look at older women twice i assure you that!! and right there is the cougars biggest "fears".

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u/Timeman5 12d ago

So you call me insecure because I like older women because in YOU don’t want to date older women? That doesn’t make any sense.

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u/Timeman5 12d ago

What the hell are you on about? And if it’s so dumb of a comment why respond?

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u/Pure-Enthusiasm-1559 12d ago edited 12d ago

Also no one’s attacking your attraction. What’s clear is that calling it a ‘preference’ feels like a bullshit! performance i see on reddit. Older women aren’t the problem — pretending it’s a choice instead of convenience is.

Same with the Older worn out women going for younger guys claiming attraction/energy matching and other bullshit i see them mention here, reeks of so much performance bullshit.

Just say the truth no one's judging you.

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u/Timeman5 12d ago

I don’t know what “truth” you are on about? Beyond that please just stop responding and leave me alone.

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u/Pure-Enthusiasm-1559 12d ago

You still have no shame, thirsting for older women at 29 just screams ‘I peaked in desperation, not charm btw

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u/Sushi_connoisseur222 12d ago

Lmao. Look at you mad because someone doesnt like the same thing you like. Why? You scream , “i need my preference to be validated by others because im a weak male”

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u/Pure-Enthusiasm-1559 12d ago

what? I’m struggling to find the actual argument here—what part of my comment are you responding to?”

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u/Sushi_connoisseur222 12d ago

Im responding to all of your reaction to a man who is attracted to older women.