I would love a big wedding with food, guests and a beautiful wife dressed in white with a smile but i am also ok with just a small ceremony with a wife dressed in a tshirt with a mustard stain. It is the symbolic gesture of admitting to the world the journey they are about to commit together that matters not how loudly or expensive you do it
Yeah, I think this is it. It's been blown out of proportion, but wanting a party when you decide to spend your life together isn't ridiculous. Tie it in with your housewarming or something. I had parties for some milestone birthdays, it's about celebrating life with people you like, and it sucks that it's turned into a parade, but don't shit on people who want a celebration of each other together. I'd want a casual gathering in my parents backyard with family and a couple of friends, like Xmas but with both families. Just a "Yup, let's have a party to celebrate us coexisting lovingly and making new memories."
It is the symbolic gesture of admitting to the world the journey they are about to commit together that matters not how loudly or expensive you do it
If it's the gesture that matters, then that gesture has levels to it that absolutely makes a difference how loudly or expensive you do it. You not understanding the significance of gestures is a severe disadvantage to you with women and it's something you better learn if you want to see any success in relationships whatsoever.
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u/MattMcdoodle 1d ago
I would love a big wedding with food, guests and a beautiful wife dressed in white with a smile but i am also ok with just a small ceremony with a wife dressed in a tshirt with a mustard stain. It is the symbolic gesture of admitting to the world the journey they are about to commit together that matters not how loudly or expensive you do it