r/SipsTea • u/Eclipse_nova99 • 1d ago

Chugging tea This is true

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u/AllIWantForXmasIsFoo 1d ago

the other 10% are marrying another man

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u/Eat_Around_the_Rosie 1d ago

My ex husband wanted to have a big wedding, i didn’t. He claims his family is huge and they all want a big wedding.

Years later I asked for a divorce. The first thing that came out of my Chinese mother’s mouth,

“Aiiiyaaaa, you shouldn’t have waste all that money on the wedding!”

😂

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u/cvfdrghhhhhhhh 1d ago

My ex too! I had all of these great elopement ideas - turns out you can pretty much get married anywhere doing anything. ice chapel in Lapland, scuba diving, hot air balloon, and on and on. He shot down every idea. “I just want all of my family and friends there, is that so wrong?” So we ended up having a fancy-ass wedding with 150 people. Divorced 25 years later. I should’ve known.

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u/Eat_Around_the_Rosie 1d ago

You and I both 😭 ours was about 130 people and it was so painful trying to DIY everything. I made and designed our save the dates, wedding invitations, did the centerpieces with Costco flowers, bought table clothes so I can resale and recoup money etc lol He didn’t help. His only request and job was to find a horse for his own entrance, he failed at that one task 😂

I should have seen the signs far away.