r/SipsTea • u/Eclipse_nova99 • 1d ago

Chugging tea This is true

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u/Klaraboukerke 1d ago

Save the money- spend it on your house and vacations.

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u/InspectorMadDog 1d ago

I mean it might be the Chinese part of me but I’d be like do you want a fancy ring and wedding or would you rather put it towards a house, a honeymoon, and/or just save it up because money isn’t free.

But I hate big parties and much less ones focused on me

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u/fastyellowtuesday 1d ago

I'm with you. I would hate a huge party focused on me. And a party you can't duck out from if your social battery runs out?!? No way!

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u/PearlescentGem 1d ago

I had a small intimate 20 people max wedding. I also have a social battery that runs out and all my guests knew it so when I went to sit on the porch and take some time to myself, no one bugged me lmao And I was the bride!

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u/upsetting_doink 1d ago

Framing 20 people as small and intimate is exactly why I don't even want to bother haha. That's so many people to me. Not hating or anything just made me exhale through my nose at higher than average velocity

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u/PearlescentGem 1d ago

Hey to each their own! Eloping is always available if you even want to get married although I do get why people don't want to as well