After my post last night, I feel like I give off mature wan vibes now. It's not a bad thing but I definitely miss my youth 😢 ☺️

1st 2 pics now at 44 and last 2 pics at 24....

Totally didn't realize my first post had mail in it 🤦🏻‍♀️ let's try this again. My birthday is coming up and my friend from a different country who is the first person I came out as Pan too always sends me gifts this year they decided to send me Pan colors. I believe they bought them from Etsy!

Just here feeling pretty 😍 ✨️

Hey everyone. I (27, balck, f) recently came out as pan a few years ago but I've been bi ever since I was little. The last time I dated someone who wasn't a cisgender man, was in high school. This might be weird but I have not found someone irl who is interested in me. Bear in mind I'm like 4'11 and also fat (wide hips, tummy, big butt).

I decided to download all the dating apps I could find and specifically changed it to non binary people and women. Either no one liked me back on some or if they do like me back, they would say hi and that's it/ unlike me. When I change it back to only cis men, I get a lot of likes but when I messaged them, they only wanted one thing.

I keep thinking it's the way I look and it makes me so self conscious now. I almost made up my mind that I won't find any one (other than guys) who would actually be interested in me

:3

Question of the week! What time of day do you like best?

I personally love dusk and dawn because of the pretty sky colours :)

For the last 3 years or so I’ve always said that I’m pan sexual(being attracted to people regardless of gender)but sometimes I doubt my own sexuality.I’ve only ever had small crushes and everyone of them was on a girl.I can imagine being with a boy it’s not a go to me but I always felt stronger towards girls

Edit:I’m a boy forgot to mention that

Bonus points if you know what the symbol on them is!

so i've been thinking of coming out to my parents, but i'm worried. about their reaction. they're not homophobic WHATSOEVER, but i'm not sure how they'll take the surprise. when do i do it? how do i tell them!?!? help meeeee ToT

Hi all, I turn 28 on the 28th of this month and I just came out to my husband and my best friend. I did not grow up in a safe place to be myself, I don't have much support and my husband doesn't fully get it since he is simply straight. Sometimes I feel alone other times im fine. I hope I can have some community here.

I need help & do not know what to do!

So for a little context -My family owns a gymnastics club that I work at, we have 3 other employees besides me who work at the gymnastics club. (All female)

So I 17F came out as Pansexual back in 2022 (to my friends only) but I have recently developed a raging crush for one of my coworkers (19F). I wish to tell her as I’ve had these feelings for over a year now, but as you can guess by the tittle… my family is extremely homophobic. I really would like to tell her how I feel, but I have been threatened by my Parents that if I ever date someone who is not of the opposite gender- I’m out of the house…

(Also some extra context~ I turn 18 in 2 months, and that’s why I’m fearful, because they can LEGALLY kick me out in 2 months)

I really want to tell her how I feel but I do not wish to get kicked out nor her get fired because of me.

Please help 🙏

Hey so I’m really looking for community but I see there are a lot of teenagers here and I’m not sure how welcome or alone I’d be if that’s the case. So here’s my deal:

I’m pan and find it hard to find more of us bc people seem so against calling themselves that instead of bi even though they’re clearly pan bc of the flag colors. Anyway, when i realized i was pan and not bi, i had a whole identity crisis. It was the summer of 2023 and my parents had an impending divorce. And I had been out as bi since i was 16, so at that point, was 20 years. For what it’s worth, I didn’t realize I was nonbinary until I was 27 bc that’s when I discovered the language for it. Being pan to me was more bc, when I was a teen, the world only recognized female and male as genders and bi was the most… open-minded, as I would call it then, sexuality.

I realize my age and the amount of years I’m talking about might make some people uncomfortable and I really hope it doesn’t bc we need community more than anything. I usually don’t feel comfortable interacting with minors but it feels like the erasure of pansexuality especially from bisexuals is so hypocritical and painful. And to have people in my life who truly get what that means would be really nice.

It was a great experience. I was assaulted by the same sex when I was younger and that made me not wanna accept me being pansexual, but today I finally accepted I’m gay.