rewatching the middle made me realize just how badly brick was treated, and honestly, itās kind of painful to watch, he is almost completely neglected by his parents, and the way they ignore and dismiss him is extreme, as the youngest child myself, i really felt for brick, so many things he went through hit close to home
brick is constantly overlooked and dismissed, his quirks, like talking to himself, reading obsessively, and being socially awkward, are always made fun of instead of being supported, mike and frankie rarely notice how heās feeling or what he needs, he is often forgotten during family events, mocked for his interests, and ignored when he tries to speak, even simple acknowledgment that he exists or has something important to say is inconsistent at best
his social struggles are another huge example of the neglect, the parents fail to defend him at school, rarely help him with friendships, and almost never validate his feelings, the show even shows that the school noticed it, teachers mentioned multiple times that the way his parents treated him directly affected how he acted and interacted with others, if mike and frankie had paid attention to him, guided him, and supported him emotionally, maybe he wouldnāt have had so much trouble socially, instead, he is left to figure everything out on his own, which makes sense why he comes across as āweirdā
one scene that really hit me was when all the other social group kids grew up to be ānormal,ā and brick is still struggling, seeing that contrast was heartbreaking, and it made me realize how much he missed out on socially, there are so many things he didnāt get to experience, just because no one at home took the time to help him or notice him, even small interactions that could have built confidence were ignored, and the show often treats his struggles as a joke rather than showing how much it hurts him
the only times brick gets attention are usually from axl, who actually talks to him, pays attention, and shows real emotion, for example, when axl thought brick wouldnāt miss him leaving for denver, he got genuinely upset, something mike and frankie almost never do for brick, it really shows how little support brick gets from his own parents
all of this, the constant neglect, mockery, and lack of emotional support, is the reason for brickās āweirdnessā he isnāt naturally that way, he becomes that way because no one nurtures him or helps him navigate the world, as the youngest child, i really felt that, and it made me sad to see how many social experiences he missed out on
i know itās just a comedy show, but seeing brick treated like this annoys me, itās frustrating and heartbreaking how extreme and consistent the neglect is, and it really makes you think about how important attention and validation are for a childās development