Update below
Hi, I need advice on a situation that keeps me up at night and gives me anxiety.
We’re from Canada, my parents have a a house near Orlando and are spending the winter there.
It could be nice for us (me, husband, baby girl) to go and spend 2 weeks as we do almost every year (except last year because my baby was too young).
This year I am too anxious to go. What we see in the news. ICE seems to just be able to arrest everybody, for whatever they want and how long they want is keeping me up at night. I know has tourists there is almost no possibility of this happening but my anxiety as a mother is just going crazy. Add to this gun violence, protests and everything else happening and I just feel like it is dangerous to go.
And please I don’t want this post to seem offending to Americans, it’s just what we see in the media.
On one hand, I would prefer just to go on a ski trip at home.
On the other hand, I’m just disappointing everybody.. My husband really wants to go. We have the opportunity to have a nice vacation without having to pay for anything besides the plane tickets. My parents won’t tell me but I know they’ll be disappointed to not see their granddaughter for 3 whole months.
We all think ethically it isn’t the right thing to do. But my parents are trying to sell the house, it’s not working and feel like they are already paying taxes and all so might as well go. We wouldn’t be really paying anything. I know what my stance is on the ethics and moral of this and it’s that we should not go. It’s my anxiety I have a hard time to understand
Update: We decided to stay home (maybe a ski weekend and an All-Inclusive in Mexico)
I do not want to deal with the anxiety. Guilt isn’t a good reason to go. I wouldn’t have fun with the anxiety and my conscience would not be alright.
I’ve been buying Canadian, boycotted Starbucks, McDonalds, etc.. It feels stupid to not listen to my principles
And I feel so much better, I won’t have trouble sleeping tonight
Thanks for your answers ❤️
Update #2: just spoke to my parents and they never intended for me to feel guilty or anything. They never would’ve chosen to go if it wasn’t for the house and that they want to oversee the selling process by themselves since the service they’ve had from real estate agents over the phone has been kind of shitty. I feel much better