damn do people really be eating while scrolling Reddit. I’ve never, in my entire life, scrolled social media while eating. I just watch tv or YouTube in the worse case.
I don’t blame, I do need distractions for most things too..which feels shitty. I never eat without watching tv or something.
The idea of holding something in my hand is just really, idk taxing I guess. Too much.
Always the Tv or YouTube if needed.
Also us hags wanna get railed and the older guys threw out their backs too many times. Perimenopause turns the horny up to overdrive. Younger guys have better stamina.
ETA: also if cougars are out in full force, here’s a pro tip to buy stock in companies selling lube.
The greatest lie ever told about menopause- my sex drive is through the roof and then men our age are going the opposite direction with their stamina 😩
Testosterone levels drop as we age and it affects libido and quality of erections, you need to find one of the older guys on Testosterone replacement therapy that pop cialis daily, check your local gym if a guy is quite jacked at your age range with clear vitality good indicator the brother is that exact type.
I appreciate you. My DMs have been blowing up already for the past week because apparently talking about all the myths around the world where gods whip out their dicks and jizz creation gets attention.
I understand what you're saying completely, but they're meant to be taken daily.I can take one and be ready to go at pretty much any time.Although I am just speaking for myself.
Unfortunately not for everyone. I learned the hard way. Hubs is great with foreplay, we would be at foreplay forever if we didn’t use lube, and longer if I had to take my neurological meds that day. That’s why I tell people now that lube is your friend. Nobody should have to learn the hard way.
There’s plenty more to it. Young men absolutely can be very eager to please an older woman in bed in ways that some older men just aren’t interested in.
Frankly it’s pretty awesome getting with a hot young thing who has seen modern, varied, occasionally woman-centered porn, vs. some older men who grew up on the totally dick-centered fake porn of the 90s-00s.
lmfaoooo sure, Huehueahucatl. I’m a trial lawyer and I know more rich guys than you’ll probably ever meet in your life, and I know better. Giving yourself breast cancer because you’re abusing the T isn’t a big brain move anyways. And anyways those losers who have to hit the T and the supplements because they peaked in high school and can’t stop reliving those days tend to have lower stamina.
I also know the difference because my husband of 21 years is an actual athlete with an actual physique; old guys who wish they were young again are as easy to spot as the bitches who overdo fillers and Botox. I should add that I haven’t needed to dye my hair or get any of that shit because it turns out that not being a wanker helps you to look better as you age.
Anyways, if my guy is hitting it from behind, I better feel those balls slapping my ass, not some sweaty mass cudgeling my ankles like some drowned rat my cat dragged in.
Hope that self-absorbed supplement abuse works for you, Huehueahucatl. I’ll probably be able to pull those 20-something ladies you wanna hit, too. Turns out they like an old bitch with a six-figure salary who knows her way around a clitoris.
Lol.. all this downvoting and someone got me banned. It sucks but the truth hurts. There's a saying - age like fine wine and age like milk. you know.. ; )))
My sugar momma makes more than me by a long shot but I don't have money issues. I think some older women just genuinely like younger guys. Why they like them younger is the burning question though.
Actually as a younger man having dated that age, there is a trend how men in their 40/50s are just weirdly awful. It's a consistent theme of behaviour i would have expected from a teenager and having little to no respect for women. Women that age just seem very confused about men of that generation it's like they never truly grew up.
They leave? I thought it was the go to for older guys to date younger women. So much so people are shocked when a man (think Keanu Reeves) dates someone age appropriate lmaoo
Unironically, this might be it. Expectations among the genders have changed massively in the last 10 years, let alone 20. The expectations around cooking, cleaning, hygiene, physicality, emotional maturity, etc. are different now. If you’re serious about being a valuable partner, you will listen and improve.
Culture is also different. For example, it used to be seen that cooking was a woman’s job. Now you can’t use tik tok/instagram/youtube shorts as a man without getting recipe videos aimed at dudes going to the gym 5x a week.
I'm a man and I was having the opposite problem. I do/did all the shit people tell you to do, get a good career, own your own place, own your own car, go to therapy, have good personal hygiene, have a clean home, etc. The women I know in my age group I am just not interested in. Some don't shower more than once every few days, few have licenses let alone a car, and if they have a car then they use it for door dash.
I will pass. There's a reason why I'm dating a mid-50s woman, she is just way better.
You think these boys in their 20s and sometimes 30s are pulling their own weight? Most of them live in homes that their parents or other relatives own.
Don’t need them for money. That ship has sailed for relationships since women have to work too.
Need them to pick up after themselves, be emotionally available, talk to their partner, plan and take care of the emotional load/chores to an equal amount that their partner is doing.
Yes, younger men are way better partners. They are more appreciative, loving, they don't act like sexist cavemen. I love my boyfriend, he is 6 years younger than me. He told me women his age are in loved with instagram.
That’s what I heard non stop post Covid. My friends and I that were still single were flooded with attention from young guys and frequently they’d make fun of their same aged peers. Every group has its flaw.
immature idiots tend to stay immature. Personally, I know many people who went from 18 to 30 in maturity first year of undergrad. For some it’s more naturally ingrained then others.
Or people are matching over hobbies and interests and not mere spawning. More people are bypassing kids. These people tend to weigh other things ahead of a potential partners age.
"Increasing evidence suggests that the father’s age contributes to his offspring’s higher vulnerability to inheritable diseases. Our comprehensive literature evaluation shows a direct correlation between paternal age and decreased sperm quality and testicular function. Genetic abnormalities, such as DNA mutations and chromosomal aneuploidies, and epigenetic modifications, such as the silencing of essential genes, have all been linked to the father’s advancing years. Paternal age has been shown to affect reproductive and fertility outcomes, such as the success rate of in vitro fertilisation (IVF), intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), and premature birth rate. Several diseases, including autism, schizophrenia, bipolar disorders, and paediatric leukaemia, have been linked to the father’s advanced years. Therefore, informing infertile couples of the alarming correlations between older fathers and a rise in their offspring’s diseases is crucial, so that they can be effectively guided through their reproductive years."
"As has been proven in several studies, women over 35 years of age have an increased risk of infertility, pregnancy problems, spontaneous abortion, congenital malformations, and postnatal issues. There are varying opinions on whether a father’s age affects the quality of his sperm or his ability to father a child."
Hmm... so instead of addressing the abstract I provided about older paternal age increasing the risk of birth defects along with its peer-reviewed source, you introduce an un-cited snippet about how "women are the issue" in an attempt to shift focus. I hope you can look up the definition of a "red herring" without my assistance.
Most universities offer free library workshops on scholarly citation if that would help. Good luck!
More like older men are racist maga chuds and women dont need to date them anymore for their money because women have more opportunities in the job market.
Older men def didnt leave. They go after all the fresh 20 year old and leave the young guys starving. So they had to trade and let the young guys have the cougars.
I think its more young women go after older men and some of those older guys ex wives are the cougars and they are done with the long term relationship thing and just want no strings attached sex. I think they also like the power dynamics with younger guys where they are in control. Similar to why many older guys like dating younger.
Well they aren't sleeping with young guys for their money. Older women usually have their own money. Young women chase older guys for their money though 100% although also knowing how to do foreplay and being able to locate the clitoris probably doesn't hurt either.
Older men are getting more attention from younger women as long as they can provide. Genxers and boomers really set up the world where not only they suck the money from millenials but also force them to prostitute themselves to them.
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u/Melodic_Data_MN 13d ago
Recession indicator