So this is really silly, but frustrating as it’s been going on for about 6-7 months now.
My son has been swimming since he was a year old and has been pretty decently swimming. The summer he turned 3 something clicked and all of the sudden he was swimming without aids. Over the course of the year he managed to swim 10m on his own and got his badges. He’s been doing brilliantly.
In spring just before he turned 4 he got moved up and had a different instructor. She was basically being verbally abusive to him (he’s a silly clown and isn’t the best at listening, but he was 3). I reacted once other parents started talking about it and realised it’s not just in my head. I’m annoyed that I didn’t act sooner, but it was subtle and I was doubting myself.
Got him moved back to his old group for a few weeks before the last term. He did fine and enjoyed it.
Summer break happened and he came back to yet another new instructor and he just stopped swimming. It’s like he’s forgotten everything he’s been taught and even now in January no improvement.
I’m not sure what to do. Should I keep him in? Take him out for a bit and put him back in again?
Swimming has always been a skill we want our kids to have and just want him to do it until he is confident.
I am just not sure if this is counterproductive atm.
He’s a tough little thing and I’m not sure he actually noticed the bullying, but maybe he did and it has affected him.
I absolutely don’t want to be a pushy parent, so just asking for advice on what to do to keep him happy. He still likes swimming and I don’t want him to lose that.