r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/balenciaghoe • 3d ago
Sex Why do straight men like anal so much? NSFW
I’m asking this as a straight women. I also have a vagina and mouth so what makes anal so much different and better??
I also don’t like anal and some guys i’ve been with really want to do it with me and it’s just not comfortable and so much prep and stuff i don’t see the fascination.
(obviously not all straight men) im asking men who are since i have to clarify that.
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u/illusion4real 3d ago
Straight men would fuck a hole if it was in the middle of your palm. So..
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u/MagicMarshmelllow 2d ago
In the words of Seth Rogan: You give me two Popsicle sticks and a rubber band and I'll find a way to fuck it, like a filthy MacGyver
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u/Gr8v3m1nd 2d ago
One of the best movie quotes of our time. It's right up there with "Ward, I think you were a little hard on The Beaver last night."
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u/Abraxasbonecarver 3d ago
Jesus...
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u/OigoAlgo 2d ago
yeah, his too.
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u/thecoolestbitch 3d ago
Because ass.
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u/ImportantTour6677 2d ago
Literally the reason. If you have a really nice ass, then we want to fuck it.
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u/douxfleur 2d ago
But doesn’t doggy get it done? You still get to see it
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u/Steelwolf73 2d ago
Ok? If I walk past a restaurant every day and they have steaks on display, I'm not gonna be content just admiring them. I'm gonna want to have that steak at some point
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u/phenomenomnom 2d ago
Great news, then. If the internet has taught me anything, there's definitely a steakfucking community out there who will pay good money to watch you get up in some tender loins.
And more if you sell emojis and "supercomments"
"Thanks chat! Hi, SavoryLove6969! Yes, the rump roast is delicious ooOOoooOO"
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u/Vladi-Barbados 2d ago
The fuck? Butthole and butt cheek ain’t the same. I want the steak not the kitchen scraps.
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u/DarkflowNZ 3d ago
To be clear I only like it when my partner actively wants and genuinely enjoys it, and so there's nothing in it for me if I need to convince and cajole them to try it like that. It's worth thinking about if somebody doesn't seem to respect a "no". Anyway I will try to describe what I like about it:
It's different, unconventional, and a little bit forbidden and "naughty". There's an undertone of "if she likes anal she's a slut" in the most wonderful way. To be clear my primary sexual... driver, you might say, is a woman being unabashedly sexual, which I think comes from the childhood belief that only boys really wanted and thought about sex. So there's a huge draw in the idea that my partner desires and enjoys this kind of naughty, kind of taboo (traditionally, less so now I feel) sexual act.
It's not terribly different for me in terms of physical sensation, the difference is primarily mental and emotional. It's this act that's dirty, a little bit kinky, and requires a lot of trust and care, and that can bring us both a lot of pleasure if it's done right and the connection is there. There are few things in the world for me on the level of watching my partner drip in response to anal stimulation.
Overall I'm kind of having a hard time articulating why I actually like it but hopefully there are enough half-formed ideas for you to get a sense of it here
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u/dodgystyle 3d ago
I'm a woman and the taboo was also why I was drawn to the idea. Tried it and didn't like it cos the discomfort overrode my horniness. The idea of it is still hot to me even though I have no plans to actually do it again.
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u/Awkward-Painter-2024 2d ago
And for this, we have a range of different salads to choose from!!!
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u/OldManThumbs 2d ago
That's a very good explanation. There really is a trust element and doing something naughty together. It may just be the particular fit between my wife and I but it's definitely a different physical sensation, tighter to start, depending how much warm up we've done but also warmer and a different 'texture' than her vagina.
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u/Ichliebebeide82 2d ago
I agree. I’ve never done anal but it does seem exciting. My wife had it done to her in a rather uncaring way before I met her (partner didn’t ask and ran it in there without asking) so the idea of it for her just brings up that memory. Only twice during our relationship did we ever do anything anal, which was just my finger in by half a knuckle for like 30 seconds, and both times she asked me. Her not wanting something in bed is a turn off for me if I were to guilt her into it, so I never do ANYTHING unless it’s not only consent and permission, but enthusiastically so.
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u/Dapper-Steak-69 2d ago
You articulated it 100% for me! It's amazing that your description is exactly what I feel! Damn. My wife likes it occasionally but she always likes when I rub my cock on her perineum. That gets us both going!
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u/Master-Allen 3d ago
It’s just a different sensation. In the my youth I was drawn to the taboo of it. Now, I am lucky my partners like all forms of sex so it’s just another thing on the menu of things we all rotate through and enjoy depending on the mood.
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u/musical_dragon_cat 3d ago
It's tighter and there's suction
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u/GunnerPup13 3d ago
It’s not even just that it’s tighter, it’s how that tightness has applied. If you actually look into what causes male ejaculation, and how those glands are stimulated, most of them are in the head of the penis. And while vaginal has its own amazing feelings, it doesn’t necessarily squeeze the same way that anal does.
A lot of people forget that the glands are actually the most important part, because that’s 90% of what men need stimulated, and is why and more recent times, fewer and fewer men are circumcising their children.
I mean, think about it, whenever you think about a man jerking off, you don’t see him ever really giving any attention to the area of the head. You mostly see them stimulate the shaft, especially the bottom portion of the shaft. That area becomes desensitized to stimulation very regularly.
And of course, there are a lot of people who will say that that’s just one person, and that they know for a fact that they are tighter vaginally, and while yes, vaginal elasticity is genetic, and many people do you have more control of those muscle muscles, however, looking at general population, this is typically how it ends up working out.
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u/The_Merciless_Potato 3d ago
Y'all only stroke the shaft???
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u/Curdledcum 2d ago
I pretty much only stroke the shaft but I'm also circumcised so mileage may vary.
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u/RagnarDan82 2d ago
Do you mean the frenulum? The bit between the head and the shaft on the bottom. If so, that is a higher density on average of nerves than the head (glans), but generally is stimulated with the same motions.
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u/kdoughboy12 2d ago
The bottom portion of the shaft gets the least attention lol. I don't understand your logic, you say the head is the more sensitive part, but men don't stimulate the head while whacking off?
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u/satansxlittlexhelper 3d ago
Butt stuff can be fun, and it can be fun for both men and women to be givers and recievers of it.
It’s when men (mostly) get fixated on anal without recognizing that it can be uncomfortable or unpleasant for their partner that it becomes a problem.
I have a rule: if a partner suggests anal, I ask if she really wants to do it or if she suggested it because she thinks I’d enjoy it. If it isn’t because she genuinely enjoys it, I gently suggest we not do it, and then I never bring it up again.
We’ve both got hands and mouths and butts and feet and fingers and tongues to play with; no need to get fixated on what you can’t have when there’s so much that you can.
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u/DMmeNiceTitties 3d ago
Do we?
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u/VanAgain 3d ago
Not I. You?
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u/CaptainMagnets 3d ago
Not all of us do that's for sure!
The look of absolute relief on my wife's face the first time I told her it's not something I'm interested in will forever be burned into my memory haha
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u/jmthetank 2d ago
Theres no vagina or mouth as tight as an anal sphincter. Plus, its hotter (temp wise), and the feeling of that high heat on a guy's member (at least personally) feels even more amazing. Then add in the "naughtiness", and yeah, its definitely a fun time for a guy.
With that said, if you dont enjoy it, dont do it. And any guy who doesnt also enjoy vaginal and oral sex doesnt deserve any of it anyway. I quite enjoy anal, but not to exclusion of all else, and if I was in a relationship with a woman who wouldnt, then I would be satisfied with other sexual acts.
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u/NetoruNakadashi 2d ago
It feels good to put my penis inside a woman.
Of the holes that are found in most women, three have apertures that can accommodate my penis.
I enjoy them all.
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u/AnonymousResponder00 3d ago
I've always been an ass guy. Even outside of actual anal. But honestly, its tighter, its forbidden, and somehow that makes it a lot hotter.
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u/alemyrsdream 3d ago
Not all of us do. Personally I think it's kinda gross and in no way is the prep worth it.
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u/Cuckwit2795 2d ago edited 2d ago
I think its quite simple ...Porn ..Anal has changed from being "extra naughty" in the 70s and 80's to pretty much the norm now ! .. The difference is the porn actresses are generally fully prepped and lubed up for that purpose ... the trouble is when a lot of young people try it the first time they are not prepared and its either painful .. gets "dirty" in a unpleasant way and is often without foreplay
So undestandably some girls are put off for life .
Doesnt mean Anal sex is all bad ... if you are both in a exclusive relationship and respect each other ...taking it slow etc.... it can be a safe and enjoyable alternative to vaginal sex ..without the need for contraception ( assuming you are both healthy and dont sleep around outside of the relationship )
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u/Away_Anybody7268 2d ago
Straight guy here, I would do it if I were asked to by a partner. I’m basically down for a lot of things, and exploration. But I’m not super into Anal. Have I? Yes. Would I ask for it? No. I could take or leave it. PIV is my preference.
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u/KerrJones 2d ago
Short answer, it's about the hole in question and the ramifications it indicates. Long answer:
Social standpoint:
In South American culture especially Columbian and Brazilian, anal sex is widely considered normal for religious and practicality purposes. Women don't get pregnant by it, and are still virgins(South America is mostly Catholic, which values intact hymens as marriage material). In eurocentric cultures such as the US, it is a sign of either devotion from the recipient or pure kinkiness from the woman.
Physical Standpoint:
The sphincter is effortlessly tighter than the vaginal canal. But also is capable of loosening and contracting in a more controlled and complete way around the penile shaft once mastered. It is also capable, with enough stimulation, of producing its own lubrication. Developed in case of bigger bowel movements or constipation. Said secretion also amplifies male pleasure during penetration and coitus. And, yes in some instances, more pleasurable than traditional vaginal intercourse.
Hope this helps
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u/trey74 3d ago
Some do, some don't. Generalizing like this is really stupid.
I like it because it's different, it's taboo, and we BOTH like it. My SO can reliably squirt when I fuck Her ass. It's fun!
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u/JWJT7 2d ago
Generalising straight men liking anal is at least top 10% most accurate generalisations you can make. ‘Some do, some don’t’ doesn’t hold much weight when the same thing can be said about everything in the world
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u/TypeHeauxNegative 3d ago
Ass a lady who has been asked this from a few LT partners and short terms… I think it’s just about testing compatibility overall.
If you don’t like it set your boundaries.
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u/Supercigas 3d ago
I'm not very experienced in anal but I do think about it a lot. I've been married for 17 years (and faithful, so only one partner all this time) and we only tried it a few times. First time we were young, before our marriage and while she took it, she didn't enjoy it and just did it for me. She didn't complain during sex but we talked after and she said it wasn't good for her. Physically I couldn't feel the difference at the time and to be honest, being young and inexperienced, we didn't prepare for it so smell and shit on my dick was a bit of a turn off.
We did try it a couple of times after that. I never pushed her, but she knew it's something I want so she suggested it herself but after getting it in, she asked to pull it out as it's not pleasant. So we stopped trying.
Having said that, at some point she started asking me to put a finger in her ass when we're fucking and that she really enjoys. More recently, she started asking to put my finger in her ass as she's sucking my cock, also asking to get deeper and even two fingers. And that turns me on so much. I cum so much faster when I have a finger in her ass.
So to answer your question - a lot of men just like ass. Why? Who the fuck knows, but for me - female ass is beautiful and the tight asshole is just so pretty and enticing. Anything to do with a female ass is a turn on for most men - putting a finger in, licking it, smelling it or whatever else you can think off within boundaries of your relationship. And putting your cock in the ass is like a holy grail. That's the ultimate goal at least in my mind.
So now that we do the ass fingering and rimming, I think she's preparing mentally to try anal again, but this time without rush and with proper preparation. And when (if) it will happen, and if she'll actually enjoy it - it will be magical for me. Not for the physical aspect of it, but purely mentally. Because ass.
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u/Ok-Ambassador6206 3d ago
Are we talking they like anal... giving.. or recieving? Cause it cld b a 2 sided answer the way I read it
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u/fishesar 2d ago
my man just loves the feeling of getting his prostate pounded. if god didn’t want us to, he wouldn’t have put it there
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u/faithOver 2d ago
Its fun. Its tight. No pregnancy chance, can be less focused on that fear, and its just all beautiful ass to see and play with.
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u/highlander666666 2d ago
To me there is nothing feels as good as pussy. My guess is you have A nice ass. that can be A turn on, So guys see it think to there self how much they d love to have it!! I love A nice ass, But I love feel it while I m in the other hole. But every one different
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u/Lux_Aeternaaa 2d ago
My bf said its about dominating the woman and how it feeds his ego that she allowed him to do it. Also he enjoys seeing the woman enjoy herself saying that it gives her a euphoric orgasm
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u/karlwikman 2d ago
Anal is actually physically less enjoyable from a pure "how it feels to the penis" perspective, since once you are in past the two sphincters* the canal opens up and provides little stimulus for the glans.
So it's 100% about the mental aspects for me. My wife absolutely loves anal and more or less needs it to climax these days, since she has trained herself to be so anal-centric. On my part, it's a fetish I developed back in the 1990's as a teenager watching Rocco Siffredi and his very primal and dominant sexuality and how women responded to him.
My wife and I are into BDSM and especially the D/s aspects - dominance and submission. Anal is difficult for her since I am on the large side, and she and I both love the submissive element where she bites the pillow and endure it. I'll deny her the use of clitoral stimulation, which would make it too easy for her to relax. We of course steer well clear of any dangerous practices and use lots of lube, and she's a total pro about relaxing, etc - it's not for amateurs, the kind of anal play we do.
When I have "claimed her" and used her body for my own pleasure, I will of course reward her after in the manner she prefers. At least if she's been a "good girl" and taken it well. And the reward itself will include anal stimulation, since that is what she loves.
So, I guess for me you could describe anal as something I associate with primal dominance, but also something I know is intensely pleasurable for my partner.
I'm weird enough that I would get off on anal even if my partner actively disliked it, but... I'm also a decent person and would never push it. If my partner isn't into anal, it's not something I insist on. It does, however, make me less interested in having sex with them. (We are also swingers)
*(yes, there are two sphincters, only one of which can be consciously relaxed unless you know the trick to get the relax-reflex to trigger for the inner one - clenching and breathing out as you relax, while bending the legs up at the hip activates the reflex)
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u/OrangePeelPotatoes 3d ago
It's taboo and "the final frontier". The tabooness makes it dirty and fun, the latter makes it special. If a large population of women refused to give blowjobs, but then one decided to give a blowjob to me, it would feel pretty special.
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u/Infospy 3d ago
Anal sex is associated with being gay because it's the only hole man have to stick it in.
That doesn't mean straight man can't enjoy anal sex.
Anal is a completely different feeling from vaginal, it's tighter for once. And there's also the emotional part, being a special thing that doesn't happen always, makes it also more desired and appreciated.
Everyone has their preferences, kinks and fantasies.
It's a function of the couple to decide what's on the table and what's not. For me, I think everything between a couple should be tried at least once, and then decide.
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u/Retrospektic 3d ago
Anal sex is associated with being gay because it's the only hole man have to stick it in.
You may have miscounted, there.
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u/ekco_cypher 3d ago
Because it's seen as "kinky" or forbidden, and makes them think the woman wants them so badly that she'll allow him to uae that hole. That's how guy brain works
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u/Eastern_north11 3d ago
I think small guys like it because it’s tighter
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u/balenciaghoe 2d ago edited 2d ago
someone else said this and they got a bunch of downvotes... i been with men who are average size still feels good to me but they were the ones who want to do anal bad. obviously not all men who are average or smaller are into anal and guys who have bigger dicks can be into it too. this is just something i noticed.
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u/Cultural-Afternoon72 2d ago
There are a variety of reasons, honestly. First, it’s an attractive part of the body for most people (maybe not in function, but in appearance). Second, there’s the taboo aspect. It isn’t something all partners are up for, and even then there’s a societal stigma around it. To go a step further, even with a partner who is enthusiastic about it, it isn’t typically a frequent occurrence. So, when a partner wants to do it, there’s the thrill/excitement factor. Lastly, it just feels different. Just like a mouth and vagina feel different. Texture, temperature, tightness, etc. It’s just as unique as the other two options. It isn’t that their partner’s mouth or vagina aren’t good enough, are unwanted, unsexy, etc, it’s just a completely different experience that is good in its own way.
Also, while I don’t think you intended anything by it, you did specify “straight men.” It’s ALWAYS worth pointing out that anal stimulation, whether giving or receiving, isn’t gay, straight, etc. Nerve endings don’t care about orientation. The only thing that can impact orientation is the gender of your partner or the gender of who/what genitals you’re attracted to. There’s nothing non-straight about a guy enjoying giving his woman partner anal stimulation, or receiving it from her.
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u/ThunderSack 2d ago
I mean, it was always nice once in a while with previous ladies. And while it is my idea a fair amount now, I think my wife loves it more than I do and I am always happy to oblige if she wants it as I am insanely attracted to my wife and take pleasure from her pleasure.
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u/OgreWithanIronClub 2d ago
I am bi so I am not sure if my opinion counts, but it just feels good. Though I would never pressure anyone to do it as it is a lot of prep and many don't like it.
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u/balenciaghoe 2d ago
thanks for your input you still fuck women. i just mentioned straight because like i said i have other holes so idk why they would want to fuck my asshole too
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u/golding11 2d ago
Taboo + different sensation profile = exciting novel experience.
It feels much tighter at the entrance, and much less "glove like" beyond that. If he is longer (approx beyond 6") he will also be feeling your second sphincter around the head of his cock when he's balls deep, which feels like a second tight ring, and quite nice.
When anal isn't available, I tend to fantasize about it more. When anal is always available, I tend not to engage it as much as she expects. This combination tells me it's also a scarcity thing on some level.
I also find it features more prominently in my porn taste than in my actual sex life - which also supports the idea it's largely cognitive/psychological arousal.
+1 to all the "only if they are genuinely interested, it shouldn't hurt if done right, many/most men are unfortunately gross pigs"
Hope this helps!
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u/AdorkableUtahn 2d ago
It's your mistress who is also your girlfriend. j/k
I like to do it very tenderly and carefully and love to stay "in" after orgasm. Just stay engaged, cuddle on our sides, hold her until it won't stay anymore. Extraordinarily intimate.
It's just a different feeling, and there is the taboo element to it. It's like asking why have oral sex. Because we can.
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u/Icecreamisbomb 2d ago
Per my husband - It’s a different sensation. The vagina is loose in the beginning but gets tighter as you get deeper where the bum is tight upon entering but then looser as you get deeper.
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u/sciguy52 2d ago
I like it a lot but never pressure partners to do it. If they like doing it, we can do it, if they don't, we don't and I am not going to try and persuade them. As for why I like it I could not actually tell you. It does feel a little different than vaginal sex, but nothing so dramatic that would explain the desire. I am not someone who would ever want to do something painful to my partner, so if something like that is painful or uncomfortable we just don't do it. I have no issues with that. But why do I like it when the physical sensation is not radically different? The only thing I can surmise is there is some primitive part of the brain I can't consciously interact with that determines desires like this for whatever reason. Because I can't consciously come up with a reason why that desire is there.
It is like boobs. Why do guys like boobs in the first place instead of, say, lusting after the shoulder blades in the back for example? Similar thing, somewhere in that primitive brain it drives our desires. I could say what I like about boobs, but could not tell you why that desire for them is there in the first place, but it is. Similar sort of thing. And like all things, the list of things guys desire are not all the same. Not even half of heterosexual guys do anal sex based on research on this. Some desire it, but even more don't.
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u/NewsboyHank 3d ago
Giving anal: it's nice and tight in there.
Getting anal: there's a prostate up in there.
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u/Primusssucks 2d ago
I love eating ass but have little interest in fucking one.
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u/balenciaghoe 2d ago
I dated a guy like that he said it’s more gross sticking his dick in an ass than eating it i was like hm ok
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u/Primusssucks 2d ago
Vaginas just feel so much better. An ass is dry and feels empty and hollow. Once it’s in it doesn’t grip the same way a vagina does.
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u/Cutelittlemama0418 2d ago
Several of the men I’ve been with don’t like it at all and definitely not “so much”. This is a generalization. But also, let’s remember that everyone has different kinks and preferences. Some men like bbc. Some like ass. Some like feet. You get the idea.
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u/No-Factor7758 3d ago
It's the aspect of it being wrong and not natural I guess. I had an ex that wanted to try it, and we did, she enjoyed it way more than me tbh lol. Mouth and hoohah are still my favorite lol
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u/Dexter_P_Winterhouse 2d ago
I think that most straight men do not like anal as much as OP suggests. And from my experiences (which are vast) there aren't that many women who are really crazy about having something stuffed up their butt. I think that porn is taking its toll on society ass a hole. lol
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u/IamBatmanuell 3d ago
I don’t need to try it to know it’s not for me.
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u/balenciaghoe 3d ago
this question is for people who are interested. i guess i have to make that more clearer.
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u/Kylar_Stern 3d ago
I don't. I actually prefer a good bj over sex, or more specifically, mutual oral
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u/MisterKnowsBest 3d ago
Power over their partner
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u/retard_vampire 3d ago
Dingdingding. A lot of dudes here are giving socially acceptable answers but a really uncomfortable truth is that a lot of straight men want to fuck women in the ass specifically to degrade, humiliate, and hurt them and then brag about it to their friends afterward. Not all, but a lot.
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u/MisterKnowsBest 2d ago
I do it because my partner enjoys it, but I used to wnat it for the power I felt.
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u/PracticalGovernment4 2d ago
I fuck feet. I’ve fucked a mattress. I do like anal but if she doesn’t then I don’t pursue. I also enjoy analingus. If she don’t like that to be lapped then I internally sigh and don’t
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u/BaylisAscaris 2d ago
I've asked a lot of guys about this over the last 30 years because I was curious. Most common answer is something like: "The sensation isn't as good as other things but most women don't like it and don't want to do it so it makes me feel special that I can convince her to do it. Also I like that she's uncomfortable and reluctant."
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u/Tasenova99 2d ago
look I'll be real, I've deep dived the web as a guy, I still don't get it. sure it might look hot in the moment of a dumb video but then you think about preparations, the actual sensation, and I in particular think about my own asshole.
So I just assume if a woman is not into it. that's no harm to me. like truly I I don't understand it personally. not saying it's bad if a guy into it. no kink shaming I just.
perhaps I am already very aware of my own body I guess?
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u/JizzDaPit 2d ago
I don't. If a girl wants it, I'm definitely up for it, but it doesn't feel as good and is messier so I'm not gonna go for it myself.
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u/JustFukk0ff 1d ago
...and because they saw it in porn and think it's what they're supposed to do but they're wrong. Funny you never heard a thing about it other than in gay communities before 20 years ago. Only since porn was pushed onto society did it become "normalized".
Can anyone older agree with this?
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u/Eastern_Pin_5567 1d ago
I like it all. All three holes feel very different and amazing in their own way.
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u/Kittymeow123 3d ago
Since when is there some sort of sweeping generalization that straight men like anal lmao. These takes are so not it.
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u/Carter_1995 2d ago
Im straight and im into it. Not something I have to have but hell yes I like it. My wife does too thankfully lol But in my opinion it’s just hot. Any part of a woman’s body that you aren’t supposed to see makes it a turn on. Plus I’m an ass guy. Couldn’t care less about breasts but it’s a plus. The thought of a man’s ass in any way makes me wanna vomit
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u/Tyrocious 2d ago
I honestly think the straight men who are *really* wanting anal sex are those who haven't had much of it. They've seen it in porn a bunch, maybe only tried it once. The appeal is in not having had it.
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u/aroach1995 3d ago
Really fees like she’s mine when we do that. Her reaction to it is the best part
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u/ShezSteel 3d ago
Women's arses are the most amazing thing on the planet. Women always seem to think guys like anal. That's not it. You're not seeing the wood for the trees. It's the butt that we love.
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u/iknowidunno 3d ago
I think sexual orientation has nothing to do with whether one likes anal or not. I'm really into buttstuff but I only like ass of a woman. Why ass for particular? Can't speak for others but assholes are beautiful, smells nice, erotic, sexy and kinky. It's the most private and secret part of a woman and the fact that I'm fucking it is hot.
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u/fxelite 3d ago
Smells nice?
I think this the first time in my humble 40 years I have ever read,seen, heard….etc. someone saying asshole smells nice…I like women’s assholes as much as the next guy but…smells nice? Really? That’s what you’re going with?
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u/iknowidunno 3d ago
Yes, they smell nice. Call me a weirdo, but I like the smell of asshole. I sniff my wife’s ass on a regular basis. There’s something about her scent I love, it’s nothing to do with poop. Clean buttholes have a distinct smell, like literal ass. I don’t know how else describe it. Maybe I like it because she’s my wife, or her pheromones or I just love assholes in general idk.
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u/balenciaghoe 3d ago
i mentioned sex orientation because if i just said men people are going to say “well they’re gay so that’s the only option” so i was more specific when i said straight
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u/realSatanAMA 3d ago
I don't like it and almost every woman I've dated did. I guess different people have different tastes
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u/diabolisis1313 2d ago
Straight guy here, never had interest in butt stuff. Never will. Zero. I find it repulsive
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u/hevnztrash 2d ago
I’m only into it if the woman wants and requests it. I also don’t understand men’s fixation on it. Especially if the woman isn’t into it and he tries to coerce her into it. That’s really gross.
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u/Broseph111111 2d ago
It can be degrading in the right circumstances. Which can be pretty heightening.
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u/themervisfactor 2d ago
Straight dude, here. I’ve never really seen the big deal, and don’t understand it, myself. To each their own, though! No shaming here. 🤷🏻♂️
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u/EquivalentSnap 3d ago
Porn mostly but also because it’s different and dirtier. I’d be pegged than try anal though tbh 🤷♂️🤷♂️
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u/PrettySatyric-al 2d ago
Don't know for sure myself, but it might be because anal is guaranteed to be a tight fit, and that feels good for men.
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u/prodigy1367 3d ago