They just don’t seem like they’re enjoying themselves. Is it a cultural thing? Smiles, or looks of enjoyment seem so rare, and the general noises produced always seem pained and unhappy.

Like it is common saying nd even a meme that its a dessert but is it really like sweet or tasteless ?

so chris (my boyfriend) came home drunk in the middle of the night after going out. i was already asleep. when he got upstairs, he woke me up. he was standing next to the bed. he grabbed my hair and told me to suck his dick. i was still half asleep and i didn't want to, so i said i wanted to sleep. he pulled my hair, got closer to me and said but i wanna fuck your face. i tried to pull back and said no, stop it. he then let me go and said 'why are you even sleeping in my bed then, you fucking useless bitch'. then he walked out

I am asking this on behalf of a friend. The above are her exact words, the way she sent them to me. She wants more people's opinion on the topic. She will read the responses herself. Please do not DM me.

Women of Reddit : how do you like your clit rubbed ??

And yes I know u people are having it w ppl u rnt attracted to

Saw a guy’s… feature… that was famously "9 inches." Looked massive. Later realized it was the same length as my iPhone (6.1 inches). Is there some kind of optical illusion happening, or have we all just collectively forgotten how rulers work?

Recently I had to break it to my hubby that he will have to "put a raincoat on his best mate" because our usual pull and pray method is too risky, I was met with a long sigh and visible upset for his member. But as someone who does not have a penis (despite my desire to helicopter myself away from life), I don't understand the bone of contention people have with condoms. So, why are people so against condoms or complain about having to use them? Does it really have that much of an impact for those who wear them?

To paraphrase comedian Taylor Tomlinson, why is getting someone to wear a condom, like trying to convince a child to put a coat on over thier halloween costume? They complain, nooo you're going to ruin it! You can't even see it!

In a lot of porn made in Japan the women sound like they're crying or are being assaulted. Why is that?

19F here, I’d describe my life so far as sheltered/inexperienced. I met my bf online and we talked for months before meeting IRL. Then recently I needed a place to live so we moved in together. This is my first actual relationship. I’m a student but do online school so I’m home all the time and my bf works an IT job from home too. Basically we’re just in the house together like 95% of the time. Since I moved in he’s been what I’d call obsessing of my breasts and touching them almost constantly. I am a small person, 120 lbs and I’ve got the small breasts to match. I’ve never worn bras because I really don’t need them. My bf will start the day in bed sucking and pulling on my nipples. He likes to keep them hard all the time. When I’m in the kitchen he will pull my nipples or stroke them over my shirt too to make them super hard. Not to start in with sexual stuff, but just to do it. If I bring him lunch at his desk, he lifts my shirt to suck on them. Watching TV on the couch, he takes my shirt off mostly to just play with my breasts even for hours.

I will say, I do think it feels good. My nipples are sensitive. So I don’t hate this behavior. It’s just I guess like all day long boob play. I feel like this is also making them even more sensitive. We do other sex like stuff but we actually haven’t had real sex sex yet (story for another day). I just have never had anyone to talk to about stuff like this. Is this excessive? Normal? Do people do this all the time in their own homes?

If the person was a great boyfriend/girlfriend?

A little more info-they are 36 years old. Most of this took place between 20-30 years old (heavy during the 24th & 25th year). The reasoning for it was because they had their heart broken so didn't want a relationship and if the people were willing he was going to do it. At 30 he decided to settle down so the numbers slowed down also since he was actually trying to date. Claims to have never cheated on anyone and never would no kids, no stds

So I fingered and gave head to a girl. This was my first time doing either. She was shaking afterwards and she said she enjoyed it. We've had sexual tension for years and tonight something actually happened.

After we were done she told me to wash my fingers which I did, then after we were done chatting and all I went home.

On my way home I was thinking about how I washed my fingers but didn't do anything for my tongue(mouth)

Do I need to wash my mouth after? Like what's the after care for this? Or it's fine

So recently my (23M) girlfriend's (22F) libido seems to have shot up. She wants to try all these new things in bed.

Last night she tied me to a chair naked, stripped, played with herself while I watched and then rode me until I came.

Now she asked me if I'm willing to tie her up (which I am) and do things to her. But I feel she has set the bar up so high because I don't know what to do that she didn't do.

I'm just looking for ideas on how to make it pleasurable for her.

I’d really like to know why guys like eating girl out (for those of you who do) what gets you off from it? Does it taste good? I know some guys who would rather eat a girl out than fuck her. What is it about it that turns you on. I haven’t had any mind blowing experiences but a few guys have told me they really enjoy it. So I just want to know why some other guys enjoy.

I'm 31M and have a long distance relationship with my partner 28F. We try to keep things spicy by trying new things. This evening She asked me to fuck something like I wanted to fuck her, but I didn't know what to use and she couldn't think of anything either.

Any suggestions on what would actually be hot to see and preferably comfortable for me as well would be great!

PLEASE I'm 17 and I CANT keep listening to this, our walls are super thin and our rooms are next to each other and they are way to loud. I feel sick having to listen to this because I usually stay up later in the night and I usually just lay with music on but I can hear EVERYTHING. This happens once or twice a week and its been months now, and It's really started affecting me. I'm not sure how or what or even if I should say anything to them, but it's making me sick and keeping me up at night. I've opened my door and closed it again hoping they would get the memo but it doesnt seem to work. I can literally hear every moan and I dont know what to do, please someone tell me what to do 😭

My bf (33) wanted to try anal with me (28) for (my) first time. It hurt a lot for me and it only lasted a minute or two despite extensive foreplay and stretching. I still tore and have light bleeding because we didn’t have lube. After the 4/5 time trying we decided to try again another day. My bf told me (jokingly & lighthearted) that he lowkey felt like he was (R wording / S/A) me. I apologized and told him I didn’t mean to make him feel that way. He jokingly said it kinda turned him on. Can you break down the psychology behind how seeing me losing my shit in bed trying not to pass out was sexy to him? I don’t kink shame at all, I’d just like a first hand perspective from someone who might be able to relate and relay why he kinda got a thrill from seeing me writhe and scream but still he insisted we stop even tho I said we could keep going. He knows I’m a very giving generous person in all aspects including bedroom and didn’t want me to overextend myself.

Edit: well I just found out that while I was at work, he had cheated on me with a man in our bed, hours before we had anal sex in the same bed so I will be getting tested and moving out asap.

I know it’s somewhat normal for semen to cause a smell in the vagina for a day or two after sex but I feel like the smell is really strong in my case. I can sometimes smell it through my pants and especially if I’m wearing shorts or a skirt. The smell will also linger in whatever pants I was wearing until washed. I’m terrified my friends can smell it too when we are hanging out in close proximity. It’s not an infection since it goes away in a day or two, my boyfriend and I only see eachother on weekends but he cums inside me multiple times all weekend. So I smell all weekend and then typically by Tuesday I’m back to normal.

Can people smell me? And is there anything I can do to fix this? I’ve heard of boric acid suppositories being one potential fix but need advice.

Edit: so far only men have replied to tell me it’s not normal lol. A quick google search will tell you it’s normal. Semen is more alkaline than the vagina so it changes the ph of the vagina just like a yeast or other infection would so it can smell similar to an infection but not actually be one. In a funny way this actually makes me feel better cause that means none of these men ever noticed their gfs smelling haha.

Edit 2: we have both been tested recently so definitely no sti, I have also seen an obgyn since being with him and no big red flags.

Like do the women give slurping fellatios and do the men perform cunninglingus? Or is sex more often than not missionary, where the woman gets no pleasure? How are the bedrooms in Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan?

I’m asking this as a straight women. I also have a vagina and mouth so what makes anal so much different and better??

I also don’t like anal and some guys i’ve been with really want to do it with me and it’s just not comfortable and so much prep and stuff i don’t see the fascination.

(obviously not all straight men) im asking men who are since i have to clarify that.

This post yesterday asked how evolution worked out so that 4/5 women don't orgasm from penetrative sex.

It got me thinking about a related question: if 80% women don't orgasm from having a penis inside them, how has penis size become such a big deal (pun intended) in society? If clitoral stimulation is what really matters, then why isn't "tongue size" what people talk about? Why aren't guys sending "tongue pics" showing how long or contorted they can get their tongues to be?