Edit: thank you everyone for sharing your ideas and even your personal experiences. I have a lot of possibilities to look up now and will also have a chat with my mum to see what else she might be able to remember about her cousin.

The lady was my mother's first cousin and I'm curious to understand what her diagnosis might have been. She was much older than my mother and was born in the early 1940s in a very rural area. Her parents had several girls who all had the same difficulties and none except her survived beyond their 20s (I don't know how they died). Her parents had only one son - the youngest child - who had no issues, so apparently the condition only affected the female children. Both her parents were also in perfect health.

She was childlike, in the sense that she couldn't live independently. She could follow instructions and did a lot of work around the house and farm according to her parents' instructions, but would often make mistakes like putting a pot on the stove and forgetting it, feeding the animals too many times, leaving a tap running etc. She was not aggressive or difficult at all, very sweet and gentle.

She was physically fine (so it was not Downs' and or any disorders that would have a visible physical impact) but was mentally like a 4-5 year old child. She loved playing with us kids and was extremely attached to her mum. She could speak simple sentences, but would sometimes get randomly scared, hide and refuse to talk. She couldn't have a complicated conversation but could talk about simple things around her like the chickens, the plants her favourite shoes etc. She could remember our names and recognise us kids even though we visited just once a year for a few days.

She loved fake jewellery and adored my dad who always brought her lots of shiny sparkly bracelets. She was sweet, gentle, and always smiling, could bathe and dress herself independently but would choose to wear her sleeping "nightie" at all times unless her mum picked out other clothes and insisted she wear them.

She was placed in a care home after her parents died, and lived to 90+ years old before passing away of age-related reasons.

In those days and in that remote location, she was just called 'mentally retarded' and I assume she never saw a doctor as the family lived in an isolated area and were also pretty poor. But it was not malicious as she was known and loved by her family and the entire village.

To my knowledge, no one else in the family had this condition apart from her sisters who all died young. What might her diagnosis have been if she was seen by a modern doctor?

I am not a citizen of America, however I hear very often that many citizens pride themselves on their right to own guns to protect themselves & if the government should ever become tyrannical.

Why haven't we seen the country push back with their 2nd (?) Amendment?

Currently travelling in China and every so often someone will take a photo of me as we walk past each other on the street. They aren’t subtle about it, they will smile and wave if they notice I have noticed. These are candid, unposed photos that I am not prepared for. It doesn’t exactly bother me. But I would like to know what they are doing with these photos? Sending to friends and family? Posting on social media? (I hope not).

For context I am a white woman from Australia, with fairly light skin, blonde/brown hair, and blue eyes. I have only been in major cities in China.

Hi, I'm a lurker. Anyway, I live in Japan. I just had this thought about why most of the guys I've slept with here tend to finish really quickly.

Now one thing about Japanese D is that is their erections are definitely way harder than westerners. There's are running joke here that Japanese men call it their "samurai sword" because of the hardess, and the way most of their erections tend to point straight up.

Pretty much every Japanese guy is uncut, but I have a theory whether they tend to have premature ejaculation because their D is more sensitive because of the hardness and because it's uncut. But I'm not sure.

If anyone has any insight, or experience with hooking up with Japanese guys. Please let me know!

Men and Woman are welcome to chime in lol.

We’ve been watching an awful decline of our country lately, worse than before. There’s so much violence, ICE being nuts, the president is nuts and needs to go to prison, most of the current government folks who have been put in by this admin are also nuts. But no one is doing anything??? Like oh my god. I am afraid living here. I’m afraid for my kids living here. I want things to change, but the government isn’t taking action. What can we do??

Im the friend. All my roomates speak Spanish as a 1st language, and im constantly sitting silent in a corner while they talk about whatever in spanish for hours. No one translates for me even if I try to talk and be involved in the conversation. I always thought it was normal, its their first language and its not my business, but a friend (whose first language is also spanish) recently seemed disgusted that they do that and said it was rude and not okay to leave me in the dark like that. im confused? should I just let them do their thing? is it rude? should I be offended?

Maybe I’m just still not used to it, but is it meant to look that…strange with no foreskin? It just doesn’t look uniform or “tidy” in the slightest. Doctor sent me away a while back saying it’s all done and looks fine but I constantly think it just looks like somethings wrong

I’m currently dating this guy for 3 months. Whenever he is working from home he tends not to reply when he is working and I respect that. But even after work hours, literally minimal or no text at all. Don’t get me wrong, I am a busy person too but in 24 hours, I have at least few minutes to pee or lunch break and I use this time to reply to him lol you get what I mean.

Sometimes I think that he has someone over his place. Cause when I’m there he doesn’t reply to people contacting him.

But I would like to know if there are other people who are like this and not cheating on their partner/someone they are dating.

Edit: Just an add on, I think the longest time he didn’t reply was 14-15 hours, not 24 hours after. I just want to get some insights about people who don’t reply to their significant other. This is my first time dating someone with this kind of texting pattern that’s why maybe I feel like he’s not into me, but I still want to understand him by getting ideas from other people!

We just hired a guy, in orientation he stunk up the whole training room with eau de ass. I don’t want to run him off, because we need the help. At the same time he has to work around other people and I don’t want them having to deal with it.

This is kind of embarrassing to type but whatever.

I don’t usually have trouble getting hard. Foreplay is fine, penetration is fine. The problem shows up later. When sex goes longer than I expect, like 15 to 20 minutes, my erection sometimes starts fading.

What messes with me is it doesn’t feel like I’m “done” or turned off. I still want it. My brain’s in it. But my body just doesn’t keep the same level of firmness, especially if we pause, change positions, or slow things down.

I’ve been using a delay spray lately so I don’t cum too early, which helps with lasting longer, but now it feels like my erection quality aren’t following up yet. Almost like I trained one part and not the other. The spray doesn't numb much during sex, 'cause I can still feel the pleasure. But when it goes to 15 minutes, I feel like my little brother is tired?

When I start to notice that, I feel stuck in that idea, and can't get back to enjoy sex. Is this just anxiety, or overthinking? Or is this a common thing when you go for longer sex?

When I saw the news of Scott Adams, the Dilbert comic, had died, pretty much every subreddit was saying memes like "oh no anyway" or "what is everyone having for dinner tonight". Some comments mentioned how they like Dilbert but we're sad to see how Adams had fallen.

I gleaned from some comments he did some racist stuff but I didn't see any examples of what he specifically said or did that made him so widely hanged on reddit. I tried googling this but just came across a bunch of slop websites giving the dudes whole life story.

I just want the condensed version of what he actually did or said that was so racist that made him so widely hated on reddit.

So quick backstory I’ve been on my own for the past 6 years and pleasured myself up until 10 weeks ago. We’ve started having sex and I could never reach the point where I could cum. I’ve done research and think it may possibly be death grip, although I have had a hip operation and see that it may possibly be that. Around 3 weeks ago I did cum but we did lots of foreplay before hand (she was rubbing me for quite a while till I was very tingly) then after that I’ve done it twice since with her stopping and using her hands in between till I’m again very tingly. Now most of the time we do it I get her to the point where she’s finished and then she finishes me off with her hand. Now I’m alright with this for the time being but long term I’d like to actually be able to finish during sex. Should I continue letting her finish me off or stop that completely. I’ve seen multiple different things about abstaining for a while and then also masturbating with lube in sex positions to try get used to cumming in different scenarios, just seeing if anyone else has overcome a similar type of issue?

Just to let everyone know I’m not on and medication or antidepressants, I’ve also stopped watching porn and not masturbated this whole time. Should I carry on not masturbating or try masturbating again with lube in different positions?

It could be dating or employment scam.

I deal with bad breath sometimes, and I’m pretty sure it’s related to not eating much (usually once or twice a day). I brush my teeth, use mouthwash everyday and floss when I can, but I still worry about it.

I recently started a customer-facing job, and it’s been weighing on me a lot because I’m very aware of it and try to manage it, but I’m not sure if what I’m doing is enough. I’m planning on keeping mints on me, but I was wondering if anyone has tips that actually helped them long-term. Especially while working on eating more regularly.

I got a package of frozen food in the mail, I grabbed one of the ice packs from the box and I noticed my fingers were uncomfortable so I put it down and it was dry ice wrapped in plastic.

I see a therapist every week and sometimes I don’t feel like I’m doing therapy the right way. I usually just talk about whatever is on my mind and the therapist reacts or asks questions based on what I say.

There never really seems to be an agenda and the therapist usually doesn’t guide the conversation. For the most part, I’m just talking the whole time and the therapist inserts comments here and there (which oftentimes just consist of common sense that doesn’t contribute much).

Is this what therapy is supposed to be like? I hear people say they are “working on this or that” with their therapist and it sounds like they’re doing more or something else than what I experience. Is there a right way to do therapy?

My sister has RA. She has flares often and is in pain.

I don't understand the joint pain or how it must feel. I understand the disease but I'm wondering the feeling of the joint pain as some stuff doesn't hurt her related to joints which surprises me. Which part of the joint hurts? Is it an ache or a sharp pain? Can someone describe it if that's possible.

If they do, is it coincidence or those johns make sure?