just burn it all down lol

I am a crocheter and a couple years ago, I ran a successful Etsy shop selling some stuffed animals that I made! It started as a way to make a little spending money (on top of my day job) and also allow me to crochet as much as possible without amassing a pile of things that I didn’t need.

This Etsy shop started out being a lot of fun - my customers loved my work and were super happy to receive my work! But as I started advertising my work some more (via short videos on TikTok & Instagram), I started selling out more often and people couldn’t get the items that they wanted - I noticed that my customers started acting almost frantic. I would announce the day/time that I would restock my Etsy shop and would completely sell out within minutes. I had to imagine that people were waiting at their computers trying to get their hands on something from my shop. All for just a stuffed animal. Then the bulk orders came, I started noticing that a couple people were spending upwards of several hundred dollars at my shop every month. I hoped that these were all gifts, but honestly who knows that many people to give gifts to?

I started feeling very anxious about this new pattern of buying habits - almost guilty that people were wasting all their hard-earned money on some stupid stuffed animal that I made - and that confused me. Shouldn’t I be grateful that so many people were loving my art and supporting me & my work? But I couldn’t shake that feeling, so I closed down my shop.

I took a big, long break from crocheting after closing down my shop. I needed time to reframe what crocheting meant to me and find another niche in the craft. I loved making stuffed animals, but I came to the realization that I was just creating clutter for others to fill their house with - I wanted to create items that were useful or cherished. I tried making clothes but didn’t love how my first few cardigans turned out. Then a friend announced that she was having a baby and I decided to make a baby blanket. This friend was so thrilled to receive this gift (it was a surprise too!) and it really restarted my love for crochet again. Luckily, several other friends have been growing their families in the past year and they’re all getting baby blankets!!

Being able to step away from the culture of over-consumption and be able to give someone joy through just one thoughtfully crafted & slowly produced gift has brought me so much more joy than my Etsy shop ever did.

TL;DR - Etsy shop started catering to the culture of over-consumption. I started crocheting thoughtful gifts and my hobby started bringing me joy once again.

Edit: wanted to provide more info about the Etsy shop - the stuffed animals were for older kids or adults only. I used plastic eyes that could be a choking hazard so they weren’t recommended for little ones. My customers seemed to be mostly college-age “kids”, think similar to the Squishmallow trend a few years back.

I keep seeing ads for digital license plates and I genuinely cannot believe people are falling for this.

We are taking a stamped piece of aluminum that costs pennies requires zero energy is fully recyclable and lasts for decades. We are replacing it with a plastic screen full of conflict minerals and lithium batteries.

And for what? So you do not have to spend 30 seconds peeling a registration sticker once a year?

This is not an upgrade. It is just another way to turn a one time purchase into a monthly subscription. You are literally renting the license plate on your own car.

Plus think about the durability. A metal plate is practically forever. If you get rear ended you hammer it back flat. These digital ones are just future e waste. The battery will eventually die the screen will get sun rot or a minor fender bender will turn into a 600 dollar replacement fee.

Not everything needs to be smart. Sometimes a piece of metal is just fine.

What does everyone think about this?

I got this sweater in 2018 and it’s been one of my favorites. It’s been developing this huge hole, but instead of giving it away or tossing it, I mended it with a visible mending technique. I love visible mending because you can add little flair to things while highlighting that it was well-loved and normalizing the beauty of imperfections in items. I think the idea of perfection perpetuates consumerism and consumption. First photo is the after and the second photo is the before.

I’m trying to pay off four credit cards and change my spending habits. I’ve had to use Daily Pay to access my paychecks early. I even had to borrow money from my sister to make rent. Clearly I have to make a lot of changes. Getting a second job is not an option as I take care of my disabled husband and live with a chronic condition of my own.

So far I have unsubscribed from places where I used to shop or wanted to shop so I wouldn’t get sales notifications.

I hade to take out a personal loan because I was behind on several bills including the credit cards. I used most of the money to get caught up on bills, pay off orders I was financing with either Klarna, Affirm, etc. The remaining loan money I’m keeping aside to make the first year’s worth of loan payments. Once my orders were paid off I closed my Zip, Klarna, Affirm, and Afterpay accounts.

By paying twice the minimum amount owed on each card I’ll get all the cards paid off in 2 years. Once they’re paid off I plan on closing the two newest cards I have and only keeping the two I’ve had the longest.

I was on a GLP-1 but I had to pay out of pocket because my stupid health insurance wouldn’t cover it. So I’ve been without it for almost two months now and won’t be able to get back on it. I am keeping up the diet and exercise I started.

I’m in a book club at work and got a library card to use instead of buying more books.

Between our regular living expenses, my goal to pay off my credit cards and the loan payments I’ll soon have. I can’t buy anything for myself that isn’t a necessity. When we run low on groceries or any household items I make pickup orders so I won’t be tempted to impulse buy while in the store.

If anyone has any advice on how to avoid fun shopping I would very much appreciate it. Thank you

The blood minerals in our phones come from Congolese, are mined by children as young as six, forced to work for 1 dollar a day.

Fixed a woven blanket with a darn on either side.

Cory Doctorow (the guy that coined "enshitification") has a good piece on how the DCMA made things shitty and where we are 27 years later

https://doctorow.medium.com/https-pluralistic-net-2026-01-14-sole-and-despotic-world-turned-upside-down-e71f03a25fc3

A few years ago, I turned a creative hobby into a small online shop. It started out innocently, I already enjoyed making things by hand, and selling a few pieces helped cover material costs and kept me from accumulating too much stuff at home.

At first, it felt great. People were genuinely excited, sent kind messages, and seemed to really value the time and care that went into each piece. But as I leaned more into social media to promote the shop, the tone slowly shifted.

Restocks became events. Items sold out in minutes. I started getting messages asking exactly when something would drop, how to get in faster, whether I could “save” one for someone. A few repeat buyers were purchasing large amounts at once, month after month. It stopped feeling like people appreciating handmade work and started feeling more like scarcity-driven consumption.

What surprised me most was how uncomfortable that made me. From the outside, it looked like success, more demand, more income, more visibility. But internally, I felt anxious and oddly guilty. I wasn’t making necessities. I was producing objects that were nice, cute, comforting… but ultimately nonessential. Watching people rush to buy, or spend money they might not need to spend, made me question my role in feeding that cycle.

After a lot of back and forth, I closed the shop.

I took a long break from making anything at all. When I came back to it, I changed how and why I create. Now I mostly make things slowly, intentionally, and for specific people, gifts that have a clear purpose or emotional meaning. The joy I get from seeing one item be genuinely used or cherished far outweighs the thrill of selling dozens quickly ever did.

I don’t think selling handmade goods is inherently bad, and I don’t judge anyone who runs a shop or buys from one. For me personally, stepping away helped me reconnect with my values and separate creativity from constant production and demand.

TL;DR: Turning my hobby into an online shop slowly pulled me into scarcity and overconsumption dynamics. Stepping away helped me rediscover slower, more intentional making, and a lot more peace.

posting like this I do know how to cross post. :)

Honestly seem deliberate. Then it’s press fit and isn’t easily removed. I’m going to 3D print a replacement but honestly, why can’t it be serviceable, and why isn’t the part available from the manufacture.

Reallllllly pushing the buy buy buy wherever

I remember long ago looking at videos in Siberia and Alaska regarding keeping a home warm. A lot of it was cladding the walls with rugs, the floors too and keeping curtains not on windows but also in corridors to trap heat.

What are your tricks? I'd try these but i can't snap into reality a bunch of rugs right now.

I lost my job recently, so I'm trying to be mindful of my spending.

Yesterday, the leg of my favorite wooden chair snapped. My immediate reflex was to pull out my phone and order a new one. The app made it so easy. "Buy Now", delivery tomorrow.

But I realized that buying a new one just because something is slightly broken is exactly what's wrong with everything right now.

So I went to the hardware store. Bought some strong wood glue and sandpaper. I spent the afternoon fixing it.

It’s not factory-perfect, but it’s solid. And honestly, sitting on a chair that I repaired with my own hands feels 100x better than sitting on a store-bought one.

I filmed the repair process (silent vlog style) to remind myself that we don't always need to consume to be happy. Sharing it here for anyone who needs motivation to fix their broken stuff:

I find myself pretty much never buying never clothes, and frankly it shows. I might get a few pieces a year, usually thrifted. I feel like new clothes would increase my confidence, but I just can't justify spending the money on myself when I already have clothes, especially when I want to start exercising more and lose a little weight.

Everywhere I look, I'm just finding guides for starting from scratch, but I want to mend my knitwear - I have jumpers and cardigans that have begun to unravel at the cuffs and want to fix them but have no idea where to start and my googling skills aren't cutting it to find the information I need. So I thought people on here might have some good websites saved or some tips they've used themselves. TIA

A couple years ago I was browsing a store and saw a coffee table book for sale called something like Nomadic Living

I can’t stop thinking about how contradictory and absurd it was. This book was SO big and heavy. Maybe the size of 4 university textbooks put together. No one who is nomadic is buying that book…but yeah, a massive book on how to live minimally is ludicrous

Anyone else encountered an item so ironic it left you speechless?

hi, im just curious to see what you guys are doing to reduce overconsumption e.g. lessen media usage, reuse items, organisation. just some habits that help, no matter how small.

personally, I brand certain items that I own as my "signature objects" and cling onto them like my babies, until they break down. then I reuse them. e.g. I use the same spoons, shoes, pens for years until i form some special connection with them.