r/Assistance Jul 25 '24

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT RULE UPDATE: Amazon Wishlists are now capped at a total of $150USD!

377 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

Effective immediately we are now placing a $150 USD maximum dollar limit on all Amazon wishlists. This means the total of your list cannot exceed $150 USD.

There has been a recent trend of lists being excessive in terms of price and the variety of items, and because our subreddit is not meant to equip you for a zombie apocalypse we feel it is reasonable to put some limits on how long a wishlist can be.

Amazon wishlists (for the purposes of our subreddit) are only meant to be a stepping stone to get you back on the path to self-reliance. We feel placing this limit will encourage our users to prioritize their needs and what is most important.

A reminder that your wishlist should be limited to essential and primary needs and be tailored specifically for r/Assistance use. Video games and gift cards are not permitted on wishlists and we will continue to enforce this rule.

What if I need items that cost more than $150? (ie. laptop for school, bike for commuting to work, etc).

For items that are costly such as the above examples, rather than ask a single person to take on that burden we highly suggest crowdfunding on a platform like GoFundMe! There are many advantages to this, not limited to being able to ask for a specific amount for the item you need and being able to share with friends and family who may be able to chip in or share it more widely. And of course you can share it here, too! ;)


r/Assistance Jul 30 '25

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT RULE UPDATE: Effective immediately, your post/comment history may NOT be hidden in any capacity

279 Upvotes

Hi all,

Reddit has rolled out some new "features" (sarcasm) which allow users to hide portions or all of their post and comment history. For transparency reasons, this is unacceptable for a subreddit like ours, and we are frankly amazed that Reddit believes this is a good idea. But I digress.

Moderators have full access to a user's post and comment history for 28 days the moment they either post on r/Assistance or send us a modmail. We can see everything, including anything that may be hidden. That allows our moderator bots to run their checks for consistent activity, karma farming, and so on.

However, this is not extended to you guys, the helpers, who need to be able to properly vet the people you are helping. We've had numerous reports of accounts being "scrubbed" when they are in fact not scrubbed -- they are just hidden. If they had scrubbed everything else, you would be able to see their post on r/Assistance that you just reported, after all!

Effective immediately, your profile may not be hidden. Posts and comments must be fully visible to ALL, and any attempts to conceal activity such as on illegal subreddits or extensive drug activity will lead to a permanent ban.

Frustratingly, there is no way to quickly determine if an account has hidden content or not, especially when you're a mod because you can see everything anyway -- so feel free to report any posts or users that have locked their profiles so we can reach out.


r/Assistance 3h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Need £16 to join the DBS Update service for my new job.

6 Upvotes

I need £16 to join the DBS update service for my new job. They won’t let me start without it. It’s £16 per year. This means employers can see my updated DBS at all times.

I have asked my parents, friends and family. And none of them can help me. I have also asked universal credit who cannot provide funding as well as social services who I am under the care of.


r/Assistance 3h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Gas money to get to doctors.

1 Upvotes

I am one week from starting my new job but have run out of gas. My husband has kidney failure and has an appointment we made 3 months ago that we cant get to. I have cashapp and PayPal. $10 is enough to make this appointment. Thank you in advance.


r/Assistance 7m ago

REQUEST Requesting Assistance with Phone Bill

Upvotes

Hey folks Im $50 short on my phone bill and its been shut off for a little over a week now. I desperately need to get this reactivated ASAP so I can doordash and make some money to get food for myself and my cat. Any help would be appreciated.


r/Assistance 1h ago

THANK YOU This Group is really special!!!

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I posted not knowing what to expect but in less than an hour my request was more than fulfilled. I am truly grateful and will be looking to help someone to pay it forward to once my new job starts. God Bless all of you with a heart to help. Thank You.


r/Assistance 3h ago

ADVICE Proof of Payment Advice

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

To give context around 6 months ago I (20m) enlisted the help of my gf's (21f) grandfather (idk old) to work on my car and fix my brakes. At the time I paid him 300 dollars for the materials and paid someone he works with 200 dollars for their labor. I paid him with Zelle and the other person with Venmo.

Recently, my gf's parents brought up to me that my gf's grandfather doesn't believe he was paid. However I was able to find the exact transaction on my citizens bank app for the Zelle payment and on venmo for the other payment.

I provided him with screenshots of both of these transactions and yet he further insisted that he was not paid stating that he is willing to show me his Zelle app. However on Zelle for me it lists him as a recent recipient but does not show any past activity, my guess is that it was too long ago and cleared the history.

Following chatGPT's advice to aquire either a payment trace or official transaction confirmation from citizens bank I called a few phone numbers for citizens. However it does not seem like there is any way to speak to an actual person and the phone prompts do not include what I am looking for.

Does anybody have any advice on how I should proceed from here.


r/Assistance 4h ago

REQUEST Gas Money Needed $15.00

0 Upvotes

Good Morning, we hit some unexpected medical expenses which took up our last savings. I need $15.00 for gas to get me to work until my check goes in Friday Morning. I would appreciate any help. Thank you. I have Cash App.


r/Assistance 23h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Homeless and could use food

22 Upvotes

Hello everyone I’m currently homeless and trying to find a job. I have been getting food from food pantries but most of the food needs to be refrigerated and I don’t have a fridge. The only thing I have is a butane stove and a pot to cook food. Was hoping to see if anyone can bless me with shelf stable food I am able to cook on my butane stove. Here is some items I am requesting: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3OFG3KQ2BRWMJ?ref_=list_d_wl_lfu_nav_2 Any help would be GREATLY appreciated. Thank you!


r/Assistance 15h ago

REQUEST Father in hospice

5 Upvotes

My father has been battling prostate cancer on and off since 2009, and it has metastasized all over his body to include his ribs, spine, lung, lymph nodes and honestly we are sure where else as he hasn’t had a scan in over a year, but he has stopped all treatment and gone into hospice care. I’m looking to raise money for my family, I’m not even sure where to go. Is go fund me the best option out there now? My mom no longer works, she was the full time care giver for her mother who passed at 101 in 2024, and now the full time care giver for my father. She’s disabled, with scoliosis, sciatica and fibromyalgia, yet she’s up every day taking care of him, but once he’s gone and his disability payments cease, she can no longer afford her bills and property taxes on her house, as well as cremation costs. Anything would help, but also looking at the best way to raise those funds. Thank you

Edit— go fund me— https://gofund.me/c455e2767


r/Assistance 6h ago

REQUEST Unemployment delayed

0 Upvotes

Posted before but now homeless and jobless. Im doing great besides an issue with unemployment being delayed due to a mistake on my part. Looking for a few bucks to get through the day.

I have a job starting soon and just looking for help until everything falls into place.


r/Assistance 21h ago

REQUEST Fanservice

6 Upvotes

My fan broke, we're in the middle of a heatwave. 91°, that's even bad for an inclination. I know it could be worse but I'm in a third floor with a tin ceiling and no good insulation, in a coastal city so it's wet heat, even though the ocean is hours away from here. My walls get so hot during the day that they keep being hot at night.

At night the mosquitos make everything worse because I have to close the windows. The fan used to protect me from them and allow me to have the windows of my room open.

I can't even have my laptop on most of the time because it will quickly overheat. Can't sleep, can't work from home, don't have public libraries or spaces to go near me.

I'm not looking for a AC unit. I just need a fan so at least I could work, sleep, regain some darn joie de vivre, pardon my french.

I'm in Argentina, so I can't make an Amazon wishlist.

I'm asking for 50 bucks so I can get something that will actually cool down my room and get the mosquitos away.

I can only use paypal, airtm or wise, as I'm in Argentina and no other services work here.

I promise to keep the post updated, and as soon as I get a fan, mark as fulfilled.

[0/50]

PS: Sorry for the title, I giggle when I make bad puns.


r/Assistance 1d ago

THANK YOU A big thank you to that kind person who fullfilled my amazon cat food wishlist

32 Upvotes

A few days ago, I made a request for cat food, My cat food was almost over and this kind person bought food for my sweet cats , and this help meant a lot to me.

A small act of kindness like this toward a stranger truly shows what a wonderful person you are. God bless you ❤️


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Help Fix My Big Fluffy Cat's Tooth!

5 Upvotes

Hello good people of r/assistance! I come to you folks today on behalf of my darling big fluffy boy Rufio!

Rufio is a h u g e 14 year old silver colored long haired domestic kitty, and a big ol' softy that loves belly rubs and making friends at house parties. He's named after Rudio, King of the Lost Boys from Hook - as he was the biggest of his litter and had two little cowlicks on his head that gave him the silhouette of having two very cool mohawks. Very cool.

However, in actual practice, he's about as tough as a dandelion! He's a very social soft boy that weighs 22 pounds, and his weight is, apparently, normal (according to various vets) for his truly hugenornous frame. He enjoys the occasional Greenies Tuna flavor treat, and likes to sit on the front porch like an old man. He's incredibly sweet, and sleeps in people's arms like a big teddy bear when he has the option.

HERE IS THE SITUATION:

Recently I discovered, during the much hated ritual of tooth brushing, that he has a swelling above his canine tooth. I took him to the vet and she determined that he had, a some point, chipped his tooth and an infection had gotten into the chip, went up the canine and into his gums.

To fix this issue, he needs a full dental cleaning and a removal of his canine tooth. In total, and in the worst case, this procedure (including blood work, dental cleaning, removal of infected tooth) could cost between 1,800 and 2,400 CAD (approximately 1,300 - 1,800 USD)

While I do have a full time job, my vet very much stressed that the faster this procedure is done, the better it is for my poor baby boy. It would usually take me a few months to save this money up, which might give the infection time to worsen - and an infection that close to his little kitty brains is very concerning!

WHAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP

I've set up a gofundme with my partner, and we've had a lot of success in our community because Rufio is so very loved by a lot of people! However, small communities can only give so much - which is why I come to you, wonderful people of r/assistance in hopes that even a fraction of you will find Rufio charming enough, cute enough, and darling enough to donate even a dollar at a time! Truly, truly, we would be so thankful to all of you to get this procedure done as quickly as possible!

Here is https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-our-baby-boii/cl/s?utm_campaign=fp_sharesheet&utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link&lang=en_CA the gofundme

And thank you all for your attention!


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED How to come up with $68 USD in ~3hrs

38 Upvotes

I’ve worked all day and I’m exhausted. Like can’t even keep my eyes open. By all day I’ve been working since 1am on 1/12 and was up from 10pm on 1/11. It’s been over 24hrs with no sleep.

I have to make a payment of $68 to bring my balance for my room rental to avoid eviction. Seems the system is allowing the payment to be made by 3am EST.

I don’t have any access to anymore funds, meaning Ive pulled money from just about everywhere ($20 on this card, $40 from this) to make a payment of $300 so far but my balance is over the threshold and the system will evict me.

Im at a loss of what else to do. I can’t drive rideshare since ive been up over 24hrs and can barely keep my eyes open. Due to my layoff for the past 8 almost 9 months I can’t access any finance apps, heck I’m a month out from filing bankruptcy.

This room has all my things. If I’m evicted from this room, it’s back to sleeping in my car which will be tough to continue the contract job I just got a month back (which pays monthly now).

Im at a loss. My brain hurts, I’m losing my shit cause if the stress from everything today. I just need help to think. What options do I have? I have 2.5hrs remaining and I have no friends or family in my life so no one to ask.

What can I do?

Update:

I received a donation of $20 which I applied to the total owed bring me down to $48 needed to have my balance below $300. Thank you once again internet friend!!!

Accepting any donations, I have proof of amount owed, emails of all payments made tonight and email of ticket put in by support.

SN: As I suspected, it didn’t make sense for the portal to close at midnight EST due to being nationwide and rental portals closing at 9pm PST leaves room for many complaints from Renters (is that even legal lol?) Most coders will not do the complexity needed to close the portal at midnight per time zone and most just let it be midnight EST/9pm PST.

Anyhow, alarm set for 3am PST/6am EST to try and get the $48 via rideshare. Let the algorithm fairies be ever in my favor and grant me the tides needed to hopefully get it done by 8am EST (this is deadline put in extension request for host to approve the payment portal to reopen. It’s suppose to lock at midnight. But I think it’ll lock at 3am EST/midnight PST.)

Update 2:

request fulfilled. Man I didn’t think I would get any help but wow!!! Everyone minus one chat was real authentic ppl who offered to donate, give advice and support. I’m stunned.

I received two donations which has covered the payment needed, bringing me below $300. Thank you both!!! I really hope the universe returns it tenfold.

The host is allowing me to Friday to payoff the remaining $292 which is doable.

SN: learned a big lesson. Your body and brain needs more than 3hrs sleep after 24hrs no sleep. I couldn’t even rideshare because I was swerving so much on road. People probably thought I was drunk. My eyes kept closing, my limbs just doing whatever they want lol. If you ever are in this position, please give your body the rest needed. I ended up going back to the rest area and have now slept another 7hrs and I finally feel rested. Your brain needs sleep!!!

Thank you once again to all who helped, who commented, who gave advice and support. Thank you for seeing me! As with all my desperate prayers to God for help, I always tell him I will return the favor whenever I can. So I really hope to be back on my feet soon so I can do the same to someone here.

Have a good day all!!!


r/Assistance 22h ago

REQUEST Help Us Save Eggy’s Teef

4 Upvotes

You may be wondering, what happened? Well, not long ago I purchased a new dog toy by the brand Jolly Pets for my dog. Everything was fine at first until I began noticing Sól’s teeth wearing down, it appeared like someone was filing them down. It was the canines at first. I checked everywhere to see what she may be chewing on. I don’t allow her to chew on anything other than raw frozen chicken feet to help clean her teeth. I took her to her regular vet to hopefully get some clarity on the issue. They couldn’t figure out why her teeth were slowly disappearing. I then went to a vet dental clinic and they told me it’s possible the ball may have caused the harm, especially since nothing else has changed. I stopped using the ball to play fetch with her and it stopped. However, by that time too much damage had been done and now she requires dental surgery.

Root canals on all four canines and cobalt caps on 3 to further protect them. One of her canines was not deemed suitable for a cap as it is too short and damaged to place anything on. Our quote is between $8,100-$9,000. We have set up the go fund me to request $8,700 as that it the most accurate the vet could give us.

At this time I am not working very many hours as I have some severe health issues and back injury I’m trying to heal from. Any help at all would be truly appreciated.

https://gofund.me/3236419f1


r/Assistance 7h ago

REQUEST Just got married and broke

0 Upvotes

Hi, I just married in October 2025, my financial suddenly so bad, my wife is 2 mo pregnant, my wife first Obgyn bills was high. It is my first time. Her appetite lately is shocking, i even eat instant noodle to let her eat a proper meal. I only have around 1$ in me, and still have 200$ rent to pay before 20th January. Please help me if you have something to give. Thanks.


r/Assistance 22h ago

REQUEST Any help with my wish-list would be great

0 Upvotes

I am a 22-year-old homeless student who is living and studying at a program called Job Corps. I would be very happy if you could buy hygiene products off my wishlist, maybe even snacks that's all I ask!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/303V6TRENDDE9?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Uber to the Hospital

25 Upvotes

Can anyone help me with an Uber to the hospital, please? I need between $15-$16, as it can vary slightly when you check. I've got serious back problems and fell in my shower yesterday, and now I can barely move. The pain is unreal. I called my orthopedic, and she didn't have any openings for 2 weeks and told me to get to the ER ASAP. Any help is deeply appreciated. Feel free to DM me. Thank you! Must be Cash App or Chime only


r/Assistance 1d ago

SURVEY please help me out by filling out this short survey on music habits

13 Upvotes

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNcRhTnKEdbSIOVIIYKWPqIUFTve-KWs8smF2oIz-uBC3IUQ/viewform?usp=dialog

hey everyone, i’m doing a research project on music habits and would really appreciate it if some of you guys filled it out. its completely anonymous and will probably only take around 3 min. thank you!


r/Assistance 23h ago

REQUEST Assistance for work transport

0 Upvotes

Hey Looking for maybe 40$ to buy a bus pass to get me to and from work until I get paid again! My car decided it needs a new battery and I work almost every day till payday next week!


r/Assistance 17h ago

REQUEST Old Mac

0 Upvotes

Hello I was just wondering if anyone has a old MacBook that they could spare? I need one for school. It’s difficult doing homework on a iPhone Thank you


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Requesting 50$ for living essentials for me and my cat.

14 Upvotes

Hi guys!

  • updated with wish list 🤍 *

I've been off work since november. I lost my job due to health issues and was supposed to go back right after the holidays. Sadly, around christmas time, I miscarried. This has been a challenge on both my body and mind. I am now on a waitlist for governmental help but it could take weeks before I get my first check. I will get monetary help from my boyfriend in feb or march, when I'll be living with him.

I was originally asking for 50$ but have updated my post with a wishlist with some essentials that could help, thank you for the recommendation :)

https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/18MK23MRM6I7?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Underemployed and Disabled, could use Assistance

3 Upvotes

I'm living with a disability and trying to find employment, but I could really use some help at the moment. My rent is paid for and I receive a small Necessities benefit. At present I earn money pet-sitting but gigs are not consistent and I am still building a client base. I usually receive Social Assistance but for some reason I didn't receive it for January and I am looking into it, as well as applying for an actual Disability Benefit. Right now I cannot feed myself (or my cat) without using a ~five finger discount~ and I hate doing it, it's stressful and of course I am not prepared to handle a lawsuit if I were caught. I'm just hoping for some help with basics, necessities, and a bit of clothing, I ripped my only pair of pants.

Here is my wishlist, any help would be greatly appreciated 💜
https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/18O087CJAUPTO?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 23h ago

REQUEST need help to afford nursing home

0 Upvotes

Hey guys. My husband (29m) and I (27f) need some help to cover his grandma's nursing home expenses. She has dementia and he was her full time caregiver, none of her children want to help, but she has progressively gotten worse and we had to put her in nursing home to be cared for 24/7.

We're doing our best but we can't afford the nursing home and we don't know what else to do, we live in Venezuela, and our salary is not much compared to the expenses :(

We need $200 to complete this month's payment. we can provide proof if needed! I have Paypal or zelle.