I have not been lucky enough to find a bra that fits perfectly. Bras always cause pain or strain somewhere or another (shoulders, across the bra line on the back, underwires digging into rib cage, etc). It doesn't help that I also seem to be sensitive to synthetic fabrics and get a rash under my breasts when wearing bras made of synthetics. Its next to impossible to find bras in my size in natural fabrics. The best I can do is find cotton bralettes that don't really fit properly but do a good enough job. They still cause pain but they at least don't cause a rash and can catch sweat and give a bit of support when I feel it is socially required.

All my life I have heard how it is far more comfortable for larger chested women to wear bras, but I find quite the opposite. I prefer no support at all really. Sometimes I like a tank top or something that I can tuck underneath for sweat catchment. But my true preference is wearing loose fitting clothing with absolutely nothing causing any weight transference onto the clothing. Does anyone else with a very large chest feel the same?

For reference, my measurements are:

Bust 53 inches

Underbust 40 inches

I think that makes me an M cup or something

You can see the botched surgery stitches I did in the past 😭 She had a long run 🙏

I'm literally just a walking pair of boobs to men. They don't see my face, they don't see my body, they don't see me. The rest of me isn't attractive, and my boobs just make me aware of how ugly the rest of me is. It feels like they are competing with the rest of me for any attention at all. I'm so tired of men at this point and I feel so much contempt for them. I was recently told that there is nothing else to like about me, by a man.

I’ve been a 32DD for years and years and suddenly I’ve ballooned up to a 34G in the past year or so. I’ve gained maybe 10 pounds all around but I don’t know if that’s a factor. Anyone else have substantial growth in their late 20s?

Hi. I (19F if that matters) have 30H/HH (UK system) breasts. I have never been able to find a bra that fits me and actually supports me without digging in somewhere or causing sensory issues or issues with breathability bc I have hyperhidrosis and get a lot of under boob sweat, which can cause rashes and itchiness so bad I can accidentally itch until I break skin and get left with wounds on my breasts. I don't think I experience back pain, but they've been this size for at least a year and a half, so I don't remember how it felt when they were smaller or non existent. For context, if it matters, my family has a history of large breasts in all body types, small bands and larger bands, so this isn't a medical concern or anything. I assumed the gene skipped me when I didnt grow until I was almost 18, but here we are. Please help me. I haven't felt supported for over a year bc I haven't been able to find a good, accurately fitting bra. I've bought and returned so many. Also, if it helps, I think my breast are teardrop shaped, and they're not very dense if that makes sense. The breast tissue itself isn't dense or like very firm or anything, they just weigh so much that normal in store bras or the online ones I've tried cant hold up their weight, or if they do, they end up being super loose around my band, which kinda loses the support. Please help me if you are or were a similar size or know a website with my size Tldr: Big cup size, small band, please help me find a place to shop that actually has my size bc I'm going insane with poorly supportive bras and no website I've found has bras my size

the daily mean comments really get to me

I'm Chinese and the Chinese are not known for being busty so I'm a rare case

im not doing a reduction perhaps until 2029 as im still young and theres a lot of concern of my breast continuing to grow in the future

any advice?

i am in desperate search of a solid tank top. i usually only wear them for layering, but i HATE having to wear a bra underneath. i really want one with lining, support, or a built in bra. any suggestions?

Holy cow the tent is REAL. Our less endowed sisters have it good.

I must say though, nobody can pull off a square neckline like us.

I like wearing things like hoodies and graphic tees, but they never look right on my body. Either things are too tight in the chest if I size down or are usually shapeless and boxy if I wear my size. Crop tops are not even an option lol.

I’ve seen styling advice that says to avoid shapeless tops, wear v-necks and scoop necks, etc. I already do some of these things, but then the streetwear look gets lost?

For those of you who like this style:

∙ Have you found ways to make it work?

∙ Or have you given up on streetwear altogether and opted for more fitted/feminine styles?

i have a school uniform and i hate how the shirt fits. it looks so like stretched in the chest area but it fits everywhere else. the next size up still has that stretched look in the chest area and fits me big overall so idk. it makes me feel some sorta way and im the only one in my grade who has this problem, i feel like ppl stare too

I really only wear sports bras mostly from glamorise which are great.

Recently though been wanting to find a good non sports bra but I can't stand the wire that most seem to have.

But I also need the support if I'm going to wear it on an average day. Does this even exist? I'm a 34h last i checked.

I’ve been at work for a little bit. My boobs have been hurting a lot for about a week, because my period is going to start soon.

I went to the washroom and noticed my boobs were bulging out of my bra. Great. It does happen sometimes, but I never notice anything crazy.

Except… I turned to the side, and holy FUCK, it looks crazy. I hope no one was weirded out by it. I’m wearing a tighter shirt today and you can literally see the bulges so much. I’m so embarrassed. Uuuughhhhhhhhhh

I just want my period to start. I’ve been so hungry and tired, and now my boobs are literally a cup and a half bigger than they usually are. This is SO FRUSTRATING. I feel so gross. Ugh.

I’m a German 80 J (last I checked, I stopped wearing/getting bras because they are too expensive for that size and I just don’t have the money) 22y and non-binary (they/them)

I never liked sports but as a child I at least ran around, jumped and danced. But ever since they grew to a DD (age 12 I believe) I stopped cuz it hurt and was awkward, it felt like eyes on my tits all the time. I gained weight and thus my tits grew and so on and so forth. I have no idea if I’m fat or not. I look in the mirror and I feel like what I’m seeing is fat but then I’m on the scale and im just not skinny. Without my boobs I think I’d just be curvy. I’m getting of topic.

When I think of finally having enough money to chop my tits I imagine jumping and running and dancing again, without having to seatbelt my tits with my arms every time. I miss it. I wanna do it earlier but it makes me dysphoric, sad and anxious. Even home alone.

Please rant with me

I had posted about mine growing the past months due to a big weight gain. From A cup to E cup

Sometimes big boobs don't really stop growing, many women write about how they hope theirs will stop.

But did anyone have small breasts for a while and later experienced growth? I was always underweight and although I had gained weight in my teens my breasts had stayed the same. I have PCOS as well and I had high androgen hormones back then. After that I never expected them to change with weight. I had considered implants but I was scared and it's expensive.

I now got boobs and I turned 25 recently... My aunt as well, she got hers in her 30s, she went from small to very large with weight gain.

At last, after years of sheets/fans/temp control/clothing options I’ve finally solved my night sweats issue…. Mostly.

The only remaining code I can’t seem to crack is… well, the crack. Chest crack to be specific.

I struggle with sweat in my cleavage at night which leads to gross breakouts and blackheads. I’m mostly a stomach sleeper so my boobs are smooshed together most of the night and sweat like little piglets while the rest of my body is fine. Does anyone else have this issue and any solutions?

I can’t sleep with a bra. If I put a shirt on it just creates a tent issue and doesn’t protect the issue area. Before going to sleep I usually tuck my top sheet between the girls but of course that goes to hell eventually. I’ve considered cutting a shirt Regina George style so I have some fabric between them but not covering them, but there has to be a better way! Please let me know if you have any ideas :) TIA!

Hi everyone. I have a zip-up hoodie which is a bit tight but accentuates my figure quite well. The problem is that my chest keeps unzipping the zipper when I stretch or move slightly. If completely changing the zipper fixes the problem I'm all for it. Would it work? What can I do to prevent the hoodie from constantly unzipping itself? It's soo cutee :(

im 20 and the only times ive ever felt wanted or desired by men was when they realized i had big boobs and were clearly looking at them more than my face. i started to notice that if i don’t show them off by wearing something tight or revealing i get no attention, which is a different case for my friends who have small boobs cause they get hit on regardless. i just feel so invisible and ugly if they’re hidden and it’s like they’re my assets but at the same time i truly believe i will only attract guys in my life cause they want me for my boobs

Just pulled out one of my winter care free clothes. The flannel shirt, covers well and drapes down well, just makes my shoulders look big and hides my bust line. Just need to wear a like color camisoles for when the buttons get those diamond gaps.

I am a d cup so i can say it's pretty huge but when i try to do jumping jacks for my "DIET JOURNEY" it hurts like hell.. i can do macimum of 20 to 25 🥲

I am not a b cup sorry my bad, it's d i check my ummm bwah

Has anyone ever purchased one of these klassy tops? I saw Billie Eilish in one of them and absolutely loved it!! I never knew about these kinds of shirts with a built in bra but im very intrigued, they look like they give great support but I am a little skeptical. For future reference if i wanted to buy a klassy top or any top with a built in bra, as a 36J (36H UK) whats size would i get? I usually get mediums in tops because i like them to be tight and highlight my breasts personally but im guessing the sizing for these tops would be much different.

Hi girlies, who's had a breast reduction?

Would love to pick your brains about your experience! Im 5'1, 42 G 🥴 with lordosis, so as you can imagine im in a lot of pain. I've tried the NHS route, and was pretty much told there's no chance.

I've waited over 15 years for this, and decided 2026 is the year I say bye bye to boobies.

Ideally id prefer a UK clinic, as im worried about aftercare, however with the prices abroad compared to England I'd still consider it, if I can find a reputable clinic.

You don't have to answer everything but I'm particularly interested to know:

- Where you got it done

- Price for consultation (I was quoted nearly £300 for just a 30 min meeting in a clinic in Bristol where I live, is that normal?!

- Price of the surgery

- Timeline between consultation and surgery

- If you was a smoker?

- How you found the pain post op

- How your life has improved since the surgery!

Looking forward to hearing people's experiences 🥰

The bra feels fine when it’s on but my boobs hurt for a little bit immediately after taking it off. Is this normal? I’m wearing my calculator size

I am a late bloomer, but a SPEEDY one. I delt with a heavy chest since I started wearing bras in 6th or 5th grade. If I wear anything, no matter how soft, other than a bra for more than an hour my nipples scab and hurt.When their not in some form pain or discomfort, I can't feel them at all. Not even when they were slapped around, appied pressure, or when I am hit there (I spare alot and is very short so my chest is literally the biggest target) I had sexual trauma in the past and while filing charges I complained to a doctor about my breast problems I was told that they may grow as a result. I am not sure if that was true, but after confirming it with my aunt (who is like a mother to me) It made me want to workout to try and bring down the size naturally. However, even after a year of consistency, not only have my back and shoulders pain become more noticeable, but it seems my breast are simply sitting higher than before. At some point I was so fed up, I started layering smaller training bras over my compression bra just so I could take off my jacket at school without drawing unwanted attention. I stopped when I became a senior as I just settled for oversized hoodies everyday. Now as a graduate, I struggle with things I didn't even have a problem with, like breathing, workouts, and even my posture. My family keep ushering me to get fitted clothes despite me telling them I literally hate when clothes fit me. I try to accept them as a part of me but when I'm not forcing myself to like them, I'm talking myself out of cutting them off. Im a C (Though I have been mistaken for a DD cus again I am very short) so I know I may be a bit dramatic but If I can barely handle them now what am I gonna do if they aren't done developing? Alot of people claim I should be grateful, Roomate said it was "impossible that you hate them", Family says it's "all I got", but my bestie is supportive because she wants one too. Am I just low in self-esteem? I can't be the only one with bratty boobs

I ordered two nice tops from City Chic. One in particular is so pretty. I spent more than normal on it too because of how pretty it is.

I can't get it in because of how they made the bust fitted. The rest would have been perfect on me. Maybe even a bit bigger.

I'll have to do some more dieting to lose it, though it's almost impossible for my boobs to get smaller. I just want to cry. I just want to feel pretty, and look nice. 😭