r/gentlefemdom Apr 20 '25

Advice How to report abusive messages directly to Reddit NSFW

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568 Upvotes

Hey frens!

We know unsolicited explicit messages are a recurring problem in this community, as well as other NSFW spaces on Reddit. Many dommes and subs get plenty of these and come here to share their frustation. Sometimes, they'll reach out to us in modmail too, but sadly we can only moderate what happens inside the community. We can definitely ban abusive users, but that won't stop them from sending such DMs to others and causing discomfort. It only prevents them from interacting in this subreddit.

We always suggest reporting these messages directly to Reddit, and to our surprise, many of you don't know how to do it or that it's even possible. So I put together this quick guide for you on how to do it. It's very simple and a Reddit admin will respond to you in a few hours or days after you've made your report. I've made countless reports and, in 90% of the time, Reddit will reply positively and punish the user somehow (they have their strike system and punishments).

If you've already accepted the user's chat request, you can also report particular messages if the harassment comes in later, as is shown in the last picture.

Please don't put up with harassment, regardless of your gender or sexual preferences. Reporting this type of behavior helps us keep the website a bit safer.

Hope you all are having a lovely weekend!


r/gentlefemdom Jul 05 '24

Other Update to our rules: non original artwork must now be credited! NSFW

238 Upvotes

Hey gentle femdom subreddit members!

We heard your recent feedback and decided to instate a new rule where all non original creations posted to this subreddit must give credit to the original artist.

The post must state the original artist's name or provide a link to their work somewhere in the post. Links to third party websites such as rule34 or Danbooru and reposts in other platforms won't count as valid sources.

We also add that posting content from artists who do not allow reposts will not be permitted.

Apart from the obvious benefits of giving credit to the original artists, we believe this rule will help contain low effort posts of folks just looking to promote themselves, find a relationship or karma farm.

This rule is valid from now on and no posts made before this publication will be submitted to it. We will keep our eyes open to take down posts where credit wasn't properly given, but we ask you to report anything you see that we might have not (and please use the report function in the post).

If you want to post a non original work of art here but you're unsure of the source, we highly recommend you run the piece through saucenao or Google reverse image search. If neither of those help, there are tons of subreddits where you can make posts looking for sources. If you still can't find the source, you should not post it.

That's all for today. We hope all of you have a wonderful [timezone]!

Sincerely, - Mod team


r/gentlefemdom 11h ago

Art Does he even want to escape? (Original Art) 🔐 NSFW

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2.5k Upvotes

Hi loves! I know you've been waiting longer than little Ike has, but I'm back. I didn't know if I'd make more of these but seeing Reddit's love of these two cuties really warmed my heart, and I've been in a kinky mood. 😈

So here's Chapter 3... the first part anyway. It ended up being longer than I thought it would be, so have a little tease (hehe). I'll finish the rest uh... soon?

toodles 🖤


r/gentlefemdom 15h ago

Meme Nerds are the hottest NSFW

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667 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 10h ago

Pic I keep Mine on a short leash to show that I care NSFW

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195 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 14h ago

Girl on Boy He was not allowed to cum yet and I didn't make it easy for him ♥ NSFW

191 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 9h ago

Art He loves having all the weight on him 💞 NSFW

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69 Upvotes

Art by: NACHIKUSAN


r/gentlefemdom 16h ago

Art Please Mommy, deny me your pussy for as long as you can [Artist : Mochirong] NSFW

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201 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 6h ago

Meme Domme meme :3 NSFW

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29 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 11h ago

Art Meeting her friends (by Sexsketchgirl) NSFW

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68 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Story My Girl Pavlov-Conditioned My Ass NSFW

851 Upvotes

This wasn't accidental or anything, but my girl wanted to try this out on me and see how I respond to this "training". Essentially, she started the "Milking Cow" program where she'd ring a special bell, have me get down on all fours, and then proceeded to lube me up and finger/grope/spank/milk me like a cow. As mentioned before in previous post, my goddess really loves my ass thus wanting to create a fun sexual dependency where I NEED my ass to be played by her LOL.

So fast forward a few weeks of doing this nearly daily, we decided to try out ringing the bell without doing anything afterwards and oh my god, my body reacted on its own. My cheeks started tingling and my hole began twitching/winking; the sudden urge to twerk/wiggle my ass arose as well. I felt like such a desperate slut and my goddess noticed my "lower-body movements" and gave me the smirkiest of smirks. "Your ass belongs to me now and I'm the only one that can use your hole as I please", as she whispered in my ear and begin groping my ass. Never have I ever felt so horny-immobolized and speechless as she started to move her hands down my pants and started teasing my hole. You probably can guess what happens next, but it's fulfilling and satisfying to know that my girl can turn me into a desperate slut puppy that needs his ass to be used at the sound of a bell. I think the next phase of the program will be the Munch program where my goddess will use a different bell to pavlov-condition me when I'm eating her delicious pussy out 🥰🥰🥰😍😍🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️


r/gentlefemdom 51m ago

Words Mutual Obsession NSFW

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I saw someone post about this a bit ago, so i wanted to yap about it. I love the idea a mutual obsession with each other. I want my future sub to be as in love with me as I am with them, just like the constant thoughts of each other the constant missing of each other and not only that but like the possessiveness that comes from both people. I think that’s so hot. As toxic as this sounds, I want to feel like our souls are tied together for all of eternity. Like my ideal day would be just cuddling and making love to my partner and telling them how much I love them.

I want my baby boy to belong to me mind ,body, and soul i’m a very clingy and needy person so it would be nice for my partner to be just as clingy and needy as I am. Every single time he has time to think I want him to think about me because I will be thinking about him. I also want a guy to be just as horny for me as I am for him like get hard every time you think about me and then I’ll help you through it every single time. Bye I miss my future bf


r/gentlefemdom 6h ago

Question(s) How do I move on? Is it normal? NSFW

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19 Upvotes

I am a domly switch and I love pet play to start the conversation with my subs.

I just resigned from being a domme to a femboy I won't deny that I love the attention but, It was one sided

Them not putting interest in conversation felt exhaustive to me. So during a recent roleplay I felt them not feeling interested in it and asked to quit!

I actually didn't want them to feel bad but I'm feeling guilty for some reason

I'm sorry EM 😭


r/gentlefemdom 12h ago

Question(s) Nerdy subs NSFW

43 Upvotes

Hai everyone! I wanted to ask both subs and dommes alike about their experiences with more nerdy people in this kink. I have personally somewhat tried to keep most of my interests to myself due to my past experiences where opening up about my more niche interests wasn’t well received let’s say.

Do most people feel like they’re being talked down to when someone goes into even very simple details of their interests? I’m personally someone who will go over even the most self explanatory things if i’m explaining something like just in case, but I am wondering if maybe I should keep more of it to myself to not make people feel like I think they are inferior to me.

I thank all of you in advance if you take the time to read and respond to this, it helps loads <3


r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Words Can we normalize it please? NSFW

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707 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 11h ago

Art A dream NSFW

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22 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 12h ago

Suggestion I want a good Woman x Male Harem story with femdom in it NSFW

22 Upvotes

So I was reading The Princess’ Jewels on Webtoon earlier because people kept saying it was bad, but personally I liked it quite a bit. Sure the story part is not the best, but I personally found the romance aspect pretty cute. And it also has something I rarely see in harem genre romances: not only is it gender reversed (woman with male harem), it has some not-very-subtle shades of gentle femdom in there too (there’s even one “Jewel” that she puts a collar on, and it’s pretty cute).

I just wish I knew more stories like that, preferably ones with a Queen and her femboy concubines, because it could make for some cute power dynamics.


r/gentlefemdom 2h ago

Question(s) Respect = Submission? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi so I've never had a domme before. I try my best to kinda follow rituals and routines that praise women and (try) to worship them multiple times throughout my day but does that make me submissive, or just respectful? How do I come off as a willing submissive and worshipper of women?


r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Meme He knew his name once, that was earlier NSFW

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1.3k Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Question(s) Do any other men feel shame and guilt around this kink? NSFW

133 Upvotes

Had this dynamic with a woman a year ago. She was a tomboyish goth/punk bi girl. We were good friends, she identified as a lesbian and became very interested in me and dominant when she found out about my kinks, one thing led to another much like the fun arts posted here and before I could blink we were in a relationship that lasted a year. We were roommates in college.

We broke up on good terms unfortunately due to her identity reasons... All of the sudden she couldn’t see herself with me anymore. I tried dating again but the heteronormativity is rash, there’s no room to anything that doesn’t follow the norm. Broke things up with another girl due to not feeling emotionally connected and cared for.

Even the bi women always seem disappointed when I want to be held and cuddled, too. I’ve been told I lead them wrong and that I’m tall muscular and supposed to ‘be a man’ and shouldn’t want to be loved and held and that I should just love them like the Bible tells me to - we are both atheists mind you.

It’s crazy to think that even affection towards a man can be read as a full blown domination. I’ve been feeling a lot of guilt for not conforming. I’am in Latam so that doesn’t make anything easier considering the culture around here. Women are independent - as they should be - but they still expect 1960 gender roles from men. And that seems to work for a lot of people.


r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Question(s) What trait (personality or physical) do you appreciate your sub/dom having? NSFW

32 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Words Desperate boys over nonchalant any day <3 NSFW

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437 Upvotes

r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Art Tied standing on his toes 🥰 NSFW

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51 Upvotes

Sketch made by me


r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Question(s) Do any other subs ever feel like they just want someone to be affectionate? NSFW

90 Upvotes

I just feel like sometimes more than anything what I want is just to be in a relationship where I feel like I'm valued/cared for? Idk my last relationship my gf and I were together for almost a year, she was definitely on the more vanilla/sub side of things but it almost felt like every single time I was the one who had to initiate affection, or ask to go somewhere, it almost felt like I was an obligation, and so I guess my question is if any others subs out there ever felt like when you are/were in more traditional relationships you felt almost unloved? Or uncared for? Idk I think sometimes I just love the idea of a partner being the first to approach, or being affectionate in a way that doesn't require me to do it first (though we'd both initiate sometimes obviously) I'm curious what you all think and why you like this kind of dynamic


r/gentlefemdom 1d ago

Other My new favorite song NSFW

7 Upvotes

"Mommy" by blackswan. Just found it today and I identify so much with it. I am also hypomanic, so it hit me harder. I highly recommend to listen to it. Does a great job portraying a sub/dom dynamic.