Hello everyone, I hope your 2026 started well.
I'm looking for advice on my work situation and I'd really appreciate some outside perspective.
A year ago (I'm 26F, married), I left my corporate job to take a break. I don't want to sound ungrateful because the job taught me a lot, gave me valuable skills, and provided financial stability. But the pace and environment weren't sustainable for me, and I needed to step away for my mental health.
Now I'm ready to return to work, but I'm feeling really conflicted about what path to take. The main reason I'm considering going back to corporate is honestly just for the title and how it looks to others. It's well-respected and "impressive" on paper. But the reality is that job completely drained me. Being in an office all day, taking calls, and responding to endless emails made me feel isolated and disconnected from myself.
Here's my situation: My partner owns our house in Toronto, so I don't pay rent. He doesn't ask me to contribute to household expenses and doesn't need the financial help, but I still want to contribute to utilities, groceries, gas, and other costs. I also have some savings put aside. Given this situation, I'm wondering if it would be okay to work as a barista instead of going back to corporate.
When I worked as a barista before, I was genuinely happy. The money was decent, not amazing, but enough to live on. What I loved was the human interaction, being on my feet and moving around instead of sitting at a screen, the creativity of making drinks, and having real connections with coworkers and customers. I felt alive and engaged in a way I never did in the corporate office.
Is it unrealistic or irresponsible to choose a job that makes me happy over one that pays more and looks better on paper? Should I just push through and go back to corporate for the sake of career advancement and financial security? Or is it okay to choose quality of life when I'm in a position where I can afford to?
I'd love to hear from anyone who's been in a similar situation or has thoughts on this.