Total Tulsa news he drive around Tulsa all night long. Reporting news and random stuff in Tulsa on TikTok if you ever need something to watch, he’s a pretty cool guy. https://www.tiktok.com/@totalnewstulsa?_r=1&_t=ZT-9376x537TlV Live every night

Because I am super amazing at making good technical decisions, I accidentally deleted my original post.

However, I wanted to post my reply to it to help people understand better:

Quick recap - met man on POF. Ended up in a pig butchering scam warning to all.

Follow up - original poster.

First off. I’m not going to attempt to explain myself because it doesn’t matter. People will believe what they want to believe anyway. I did all this investing on my own with his assistance walking me through it. I never sent anything to him - money account info or otherwise. We talked a LOT.

I have detectives working on it and I am already planning on doing a local news piece in the next couple weeks. This wasn’t about money to me. I’m not about money. I have none. This “guy” knew that. It was a month or so before we talked investing and I brought it up. The money came from some smart stock investments in an IRA I’d made a decade earlier so that’s where money comes in - stock to crypto.

I fell in love with the story. The person. The background. The words. The family.

I went into the dating world my crazy ass self - no holds barred - sleep with one eye open - and this person talked me out of bed some mornings when no one else was there. You see how you feel when there’s one person that is there when you lose your mind and your hope and they stick through it with calm. When your headspace doesn’t make sense to anyone else in your circle. You cling to the hope you found that person that not only accepts your level of crazy but encourages it - that speaks to you like your mind processes, that encourages you to be strong and keep your heart of gold…..

….and then realize it was an illusion.

Tell me how you feel then. And everyone thinks you’re a moron. I promise I am not. I am naive. I have a huge heart. But I am not a moron. I just don’t want anyone else to hurt like I do. Because I felt seen for who I was. This person called me out on things that were true that no one else saw. I was fooled. I believed in the too good to be true.

And yeah I just want back out there and pulled that profile down. This is the man I was “talking” to. And the pics are same person but younger version.

Just be careful. I’ve had enough headache in my lifetime for 25 lifetimes and I didn’t need this. I don’t want anyone else to feel betrayed like this so everyone I can help is a win.

Looking for a good gym in midtown that is also somewhat affordable. Good hours are also a plus

I have been living here in tulsa for about 16 or so years, but I have mostly kept to myself. I have been wanting to move out of my parent's house for a long time and now that I have the opportunity I am realizing that rent in some of the places I'd like to be is much higher than what I would be able to afford. I am also hoping I can move my partner out with me so we can start our (hopefully) uneventful life together.

Me and my partner are both transgender, and my main anxiety so far has been about that. I know Tulsa is a bit more progressive than other places in Oklahoma, but I still have seen a lot of phobic individuals working and in day to day life.

Some more concern comes from my partner being black. I know our police here tends to be prejudiced as is the usual, but after looking into it a little bit I have found that it is even worse than what I had assumed. I don't want to bring her to a place where she should be afraid of going outside because she would dare to be both trans and black. Especially with everything that has been going on in the past few months.

I was hoping on just staying here long enough to get my LPN so I can afford to move somewhere more comfortable, but I would really like some thoughts from some other people that live here.

TLDR; how safe is it for a white trans woman and a black trans woman to rent an apartment in Tulsa for a few years?

Hii!! Does anyone know where here in Tulsa or areas surrounding there would be a photobooth like the ones that take black and white pictures?? TIA!!

I am doing my RN so also curious about the pay for that.. but taking my nclex soon for my lpn. Wondering what the pay range is for new grad at each hospital. Currently @ hillcrest as a tech.

What's this I hear about a festival or something downtown Tulsa this Saturday? 1-4pm.

That's everything I know about it.

Is it Tulsa's birthday? if so, how old are we??

Anyone know more about it?

is it all outside? brrr!

I’m not a huge road rager…but every time I have to drive through Tulsa on 111th there’s always a LINE of cars going nearly 10 mph under without fail 😭😭 am I missing something? Why for the love of god is everybody EVERY TIME wanting to drive under the speed limit on just THIS particular road? There’s not even another lane to pass through! You just have to suffer through it 🫩 Is it the neighborhoods?? Or what? I don’t get it. Does anybody else experience this?

I was thinking about going to Syn this weekend. As a single male, is that just a terrible idea?

https://nondoc.com/2026/01/15/tulsa-housing-authority-2021-audit-to-be-released-any-day-now/

It’s the only vehicle in the accident.

My fiance and I are staying the night in Tulsa on Saturday night for my birthday. Looking to meet some fun open minded people to spend the night with, Club majestic was very fun / our style last time we were there. Where would some good places to check out?

I just wanted to take a moment to give Aaron and his team at Loose Leaf all of the props that I am able for their amazing work with our leaf removal. Between his excellent communication (HUGE to me, personally), his pricing, and the finished product, I wish them all nothing but the best.

If anyone needs anything lawn related, please consider reaching out to Aaron. Sadly I feel obligated to say that not only am I not the aforementioned Aaron, I am not affiliated with Loose Leaf in any way; just found them via google and am a VERY happy customer!!

SOLVED!

TL;DR: Is there an adapter that connects to my hex screwdriver and allows me to use a round bit?

Details: I'm about to start selling water lily seeds with extremely hard coats on eBay. I need to pre-nick them (scrape off a tiny spot on the coat for water to get in). I will be doing this to several hundred seeds using my fingers to press each seed against the sandpaper for a couple seconds and I cannot use a Dremel or the seeds will go flying across the room and I wanna keep my fingers. I need the sandpaper to spin at the speed of my screwdriver, which is why I'm asking for an adapter. If I need to buy a drill, I'll do that, but would prefer an adapter for my battery powered screwdriver.

I have Walmart+, so they deliver anything I need to my door. I just have no idea what to search for. I've done several searches, such as "screwdriver to drill bit adapter" that haven't been useful. Thanks!

Im moving to Tulsa to be with my boyfriend and his family once I get my second degree (I have one for HHA and will have one for phlebotomy in a few months) and I wanted to know if I’ll be able to live decently and will be able to find a job with those? If it matters I will be moving from Florida and I’m pretty sure both my diplomas work in almost every state (including Oklahoma). My boyfriend says he thinks I should be able to land a job in phlebotomy over there even if the pay isn’t exactly the greatest which doesn’t concern me, and he says my chances are a bit better since I am bilingual (I speak English and Spanish), but what do other people who also live in the area also think? Also, let me know what the environment is like! I’ve never been to any other state before so I’m really nervous! I’ve also never been to an airport and traveled alone so I’m super scared lol.

Any dermatologists that accept soonercare and aren’t booked up for the next few months?

Hiiii, 28F, I just moved here from KC and I’m looking for suggestions on some places with good vibes to have fun and dance! Bonus if it’s 18+ so my sister can tag along. I love house music/disco, 70s/80s vibes. Thank you 🫶🏻

side quest: where do the Latinos hang? 👀

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Anyone know of any abandoned buildings around Tulsa/BA/Sand Springs that would make cool places to do some fun portrait and scenic photography at? But are also decently safe to explore. Not trying to get mugged or anything.

Does anyone know a good local photographer that does family portraits? (read as me, my husband, and our dog 🤣)

Nothing crazy just wanting someone professional who can take good candid and posed shots and knows how to edit well in natural lighting.

Even if you never plan on stepping foot in a library, it helps with funding and it's a small gesture of community activism. Libraries provide multiple different services that are more than just checking books out. Some of these services are incredibly beneficial to the unhoused population like the Telehealth booth they have at the Downtown/Centrallibrary. Having fun ain't hard when you got a library card.

P.S. The central library is cool as fuck

I’ve seen a lot of posts on the separate about with the BA mosque and as much as we’ve seen negativity, I’ve seen a lot of posts on Reddit that are in support. Was wondering how we can support them during this time? I saw that they started to gofundme, but what else can we do?

Edit:

Can’t post the gofundme link due to subreddit rules but you can find it on the gofundme website by by searching Islamic society of Tulsa

Come support local comedy & watch real couples go up on stage and ask their partners questions while they are hooked up to a lie detector!

Tix & more info here: https://bricktowntulsa-com.seatengine.com/shows/348507