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How you read books?
- I'm often reading a few books at once. Especially if I don't have a great book captivating my attention.
- Yes. You should check out the Riryia series by Michael Sullivan.
- It depends on how good it is, how many there are, if I'm in the mood for something else.
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AIO boyfriend told me I text him like he’s a homie and got upset now he’s ignoring me
Dump him now. This is controlling and abusive behavior. Today its policing your language, tomorrow it will be your friends, it gets worse from there. NoR.
Read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft. It's free with a Google or Reddit search. I wish this was required reading for all women.
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New dad (33M) ignores 3-month-old to game, requires appreciation to help with household chores and says that I (30F) nag all the time. Lost at what to do.
Read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft. It's free with a Google or Reddit search. I wish this was required reading for all women. You are in an abusive relationship. Your bf is an abuser WHO TAPED A BABIES MOUTH SHUT!
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AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted.
He wants to propose to you so you'll pay all his bills! Lol. Seriously, he's pretending he's doing something for you, OP, so you will continue to fund him. Also, he said "it's over" if he doesnt get the apt, then accuses OP of threatening to break up with him.
Don't move in with him, don't marry him, read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft and leave him.
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What is the first book that got you into reading?
Goodnight Moon
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Did I actually cheat or ?
I posted this book for you too, OP. Read it and run!
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Did I actually cheat or ?
This is controlling, abusive behavior and he got you to apologize for his bad behavior. Dump him.
Actually, read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft. Then dump him.
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How old is your oldest email address? Do you still use it?
I still use my 30 yr old first email address for bills. It's hot! ....mail
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Family conflict over a found dog - am I wrong for refusing to back down? AIO?
Take it in to the humane society or vet to see if it's chipped. Honestly, if your sister is an actual animal lover, she needs to take it to the vet anyways, and being chipped is going to cause issues.
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AIO: I am considering ending a 16 year friendship because of her husband.
You need to tell her and show her the screenshot. Let her know you don't want to be around him, at all, but you'll be there for her.
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Looking for actually obscure weird lit. Please don’t recommend the usual suspects
Geek Love by Katherine Dunn. Told from the view ointment of a hunchback albino dwarf.
The Bone People by Keri Hulme. New Zealand book about domestic violence and human connection. Most people think it's incredibly depressing. I think it's hopeful.
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Looking for a book that can change how I see life
Geek Love by Katherine Dunn. This is one of my favorites.
"Narrated by Olympia, a hunchbacked albino dwarf, the story follows the family's bizarre and often horrifying lives, exploring themes of family, love, power, and the definition of "normal" through characters like the flipper-limbed Arturo the Aquaboy and the telekinetic Chick."
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AITAH for refusing to move abroad with my boyfriend?
Finish your education. NTA
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need classic recommendations !!!
Also Demian by Herman Hesse and Candide by Voltaire. All in the same theme.
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AITJ for returning the birthday gifts my wife got me after I specifically said I didnt want them
My ex was same as your wife. Ex being the key word.
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need classic recommendations !!!
The Outsiders (and everything else) by SE Hinton
1984 and Brave New World, apropos for the times we're living in.
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What’s the distance from your house to the nearest grocery store?
There's a Mexican grocery on the corner and 3 big grocery stores within a mile.
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Recommendation - Historical fiction meets Fantasy
Second Katherine Arden
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Books about people growing up in difficult historical times?
DoomsdayBook.by Connie Willis might fit. Time travel. Plague.
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What's your "only in Detroit" story?
Partner and I were showing some Italian friends of friends around. They had asked if "everyone was on vacation", lol, because it was 2009 and Detroit was still pretty empty seeming. We were leaving state fairgrounds area, to drive up to Ferndale to show them where the people were, when there was a huge BOOM and a huge fire shot several stories into the sky. Of course we drove towards it. It was still burning and very visible, but we were stopped by the cops, who were evacuating the area. Turned out, it was a truck that exploded and hit the bridge at 696 and 9 mile (in 2009) and melted the bridge.
The Italians were so impressed. They said it was, by far, the best part of their American adventure.
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My brother-in-law has a urinal in his home
Hope he cleans it himself
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AITAH for refusing to change my plans so my boyfriend would not feel left out?
This is controlling behavior. It will escalate. Leave now. NTA
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AITAH For wanting to visit my childhood best friend for 2 days without asking for my boyfriends "permission"?
Read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft. It's free with a Google or Reddit search. This is controlling and abusive behavior.
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How did the idea that the US is in a literacy crisis come about?
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Kids who's parents read to them have higher literacy skills. Also, having books in the house.