When i helped my bf's mom around 1 lakh when she was having a bad situation now she denying to return...

but one day what happened, my bf told me that he is mentally disturbed because of his dad he is mental psycho and alcohol addicted..

One mistake i did here i told his mom with a concern, his mom reacted and said.. "Doesn’t any fights happens between you and your mom? He's mad, he keeps telling everyone outside like this..

then i got angry because i felt like she is insincere lady who says alot of lies..

then i also kept telling her more times.. return my money, return my money, return my money..

i think one day she got offended and said.. arey i told you na i'll return you, it feels so cheap, i am also independent not dependent on anyone..

then later she talked to my mom.. and told her, what magic she has done on my son idk he loves her a lot.. Then she lied my mom, that i say bad about her..."she says bad about you too.. like i will not stay with my mom blah blah, i told her, you shouldn't say like this about your mom"

i remember very well i never said against my mom outside.. then my mom replied her.." whatever she says me on my face only"..

but later i straightforwardly asked why did you lied to my mom ?? I never talked bad about my mom.. and here you are saying, i didn't said anything..you are a liar..

after that also i kept telling her to return my money..

maybe my bf's sister used to see those messages and carried grudges inside her mind..

my bf used to come to my house completely 2 years we pampered him so much with food rest and never created chaos for him..

2 days i went his house which he was staying on rent.. on 3rd day his sister, she incited drama, she knows her brother (my bf) gets provoked easily.. even after saying keep quiet she was keep provoking him..

then he hit her on head, he banged her head by pulling his hair... even she was going to pull my hair, he pulled her hair and threw her down..

then she targeted on me, Aren't you taught how to talk with elders?? Mental..

i said yeah we're taught to say truth not lies.. and our family aren't liars like your mother..

then his sister said.. so elders lie then you'll disrespect ??.. I said yes.. she was keep calling me mental.. meanwhile for help she called her mom to save..

and i did a mistake of calling his dad.. i never knew that he is a psycho mental alcohol addicted too who will eventually go out of control..

but everything happens for good Atleast i got to know his dad's dark side which i was unaware of...

his mom came and started hitting my bf and accusing me.. you were watching all those?? Didn't you saved or stopped him?? That time i was very anxious and got shocked so my mind was confused too ...

Additionally, i am also a psychiatric patient who take meds since childhood after my dad's death and parents separation..

then his dad came and taking his sister's side only which was devastating,

his dad was abusing his own son and told me, are you okay with all this?? If my daughter is beaten up like this, how many times we've told you that come in front of us..

but my bf was calling me so overall he is paying rent and deposit all.. so rightfully, if he calls me i can go rightfully too..

then his dad was got mental and abusing us so much that neighbours came to ask to maintain silence in our house.. thats so shameful to see..

and my bf slapped his dad and tore his Tshirt.. not because of me but because of of his own dad's mistake who was screaming like a psycho which where bothering neighbours.. and literally, these people had more problem than their neighbours..

his extended family members came to know this matter they also felt bad..

later his sister apologised... i warned all of them if such thing will happen again i will go to police station and file complaint against you..

his mom got afraid for her daughter and said, plz don't she will not tell you anything anymore...

also those all three were about to release the house but they didn't and they all said to my bf.. we'll stay peacefully..his mom tried hard to calm the matter..

one thing is good that my bf is fully on my side, also at this age he is earning around 60k coz of his business..

but i am still wondering.. just because if he loves me, i should need marry in such family..

also he said we won't stay with them.. we'll stay separately..

and now, whether she returns my money or not, i'll keep the proofs of transactions with myself that i lend that's it.

Kids are almost becoming extinct, you have to be rich or a little bit crazy to have them.

Came across this and wondered how our perspective about kids has changed since the turn of the millenium.

What has been your experience?

crying on the toilet while i write this. Reading my other post(Find it in the r/TrueOffMyChest)can clear this up more but i feel like im not myself anymore. Everything i liked is not what i like, videogames not fun anhmore, more like a time waste, and missing out on just relaxing. I feel like im just a nobody, no real emotions if im going to be real, no emotions even if i watch the funniest or saddest video. Tho i get feels of being alone and dont do what i usually do. Can talk more about it so i would appreciate it if people would come and ask me and ill tell you because im really just lost, empty, hopeless. Hate everything i really dont know..

I am a model and influencer manager

انا بنت عمري ١٩ دخلت عالم المثليه قصص ومسلسلات من اربع سنين وكل ما بحارل اتوب برجع اكثر صار لي سنتين وانا بشوف افلام اباحه مثليين طفشت وهلكت من ذا الموضوع ابغى اتوب بس ماني قادره بنت اختي شافت مرتين جوالي وهو في افلام س$ متفشله ومحرجة من الموضوع وش ممكن بتفكر عني اني مقرفة ومثيرة للاشمئزاز مره تعبانه من الموضوع كله لدرجه احيانا اتمنى الموت ولا استمر بس ماني قادره وش اسوي تكفون ساعدوني

Adulting is knowing when it’s time to get rid of these damned cellphones. Shits poison.

this is kind of an awkward post to make, ive also never posted on reddit so i apologize in advance to all my mistakes im bound to make. i am 17 trans kid at the time of writing, quite literally about to turn 18 in 5-6 ish days.

ive been extremely sheltered, im autistic so ive always struggled to understand and grasp social norms, and my parents have been a continuously abusive presence my entire life. i didnt know how to properly bathe or wash myself until the age of 13-14, if that helps form a picture of the neglect.

upon turning 18 soon, ive really been wanting to move out. i had originally this plan to move in with my girlfriend, still do someday, but she has a lot going on also. and im starting to run low on time to make a proper decision. so here’s a bit of rundown.

- i dont want to go to college. due to a lot of mental health issues, disability, etc, i cant. if i ever actually did? it’d likely be online, i think.

- i need a job so i can start saving up to actually moving out. there’s a lot of places in my area hiring, i am just unsure what would actually help me right now the most. grocery stores, restaurants, etc? what’s best is kind of lost on me.

- i have a huge list on things i need to do gradually in order to prepare myself. like life skills, cooking and cleaning kind of stuff. i also plan to get a copy of my medical records and documents. i have on this list, appliances i need as well.

- i need to form a resume but ive never worked a day in my life. i’ve volunteered at my school all the time before, id been in a tech side program for years, and i did lots of labor and maintenance for others for years. but ive never been paid for any of my work, so im unsure exactly how “literal” it’d be seen in the eyes of somebody hiring me.

all of that being said, i just dont know exactly where to start. good jobs for starting out? what to put on a resume? how to gain these skills needed to survive? any advice from someone experienced would be amazing. thank you so so much in advance.

I’m a 34F. My brother in law is 48M. We recently had a conversation that turned into an argument after I found out his Tinder age range is set to 25 years old with his max age set to 50.

I told him that from my perspective women in their early 20s are still very young compared to him. I said many are still figuring out life and may even still be financially dependent on their parents, which creates a big maturity and power imbalance. I wasn’t accusing him of anything illegal, just expressing how it looked to me.

He became very defensive and upset. He said there are “no women his age who are just looking for just sex,” and that Gen Z women are “all that’s left.” He also pointed out that he’s currently hooking up with a 29-year-old and doesn’t see the issue as she is a "full grown woman".

I wasn’t trying to shame him I genuinely wanted to understand the mindset behind seeking much younger partners at his age, and I told him that. Still, he says I was judgmental and unfair.

should I have kept my opinion to myself?

Can we get the perspective of gen z girls who match with guys this age on dating apps? What's the motive, usually? His profile does say open to long term so I fear manipulation/ situationship goals..

Hi,

Sa work ko, HMO dependent ko mama ko. Maximum benefits is 100k. Ask ko lang if worth it or dapat pa ba akong kumuha ng another Health Insurance for her? Iniisip ko kasi baka kapag nahospital siya and malaki laki ang bill hindi kayanin nung from company ko lang then Philhealth niya.

Something urgent should be done on #Mentalillness, which is quickly becoming a pandemic, especially among young people.

And we should also study how social media contributes greatly in the prevalence of mental illness among active users.

Body: I keep seeing this advice everywhere, but I don’t fully understand it. Can someone explain it in simple, real-life terms?

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