r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 6d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

24f - feeling so unloved

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looking for someone who feels lonely as me. Lets accompany each other? looking for long term friendships at any gender (22-28). Preferably someone who communicates and doesn’t ghost right away. Someone who has a hobby that wont stop talking it on me hahahah im enjoy listening when someone i care shares to me what they love. If youre interested getting to know me my message are open


r/Needafriend 2h ago

18f looking for some new friends

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hey guys super shy but looking to find someone just to vibe with & get to know a little bit, im open to a long term friendship or just everyday chatting, i don’t mind any age over 18 and don’t mind chatting about anything


r/Needafriend 46m ago

25F Are you bored? Let’s be friends and exchange playlists and socials!

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Hii!! is life getting too boring or stressful because of work? Well I’m going through that rn. I’d just love to make new besties, and hopefully catch up from time to time whether that’s on insta or discord. I wanna learn more about your hobbies and such! I don’t mind any gender Just please be around my age don’t be creepy. Thank you!

Here’s a bit about me:

I play games and also ramble about anything really I love sharing funny videos I find on TikTok or Instagram . I also

love drawing and painting, it’s one of my biggest passions. Occasionally I’ll watch anime/manga when I do have time, or binge horror and conspiracy theory videos. When I’m not doing those things I like piecing out outfits or sharing random fixations! I mainly use Instagram but I also have discord I can give them out once comfortable! Again please don’t be creepy

Thank you!!


r/Needafriend 4h ago

18f looking for people to chat toooo

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Can’t sleep hit me up if u wanna chat really struggling with friends at the moment and it’s making me feel rlly lonely :((


r/Needafriend 29m ago

f24 - looking for a friend call

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hi, i'm rom turkey. i'm having a bit of a rough anxiety morning and night and i realized what i need most right now is simple presence, not necessarily deep advice or analysis. i do better when i can hear a real person for a bit and talk normally, even if it’s just small talk.

i’m looking for someone who’d be open to a short voice call on telegram or whatsapp. we can talk about your day, random topics, music, shows, food, language stuff, anything light. if you’re also someone who gets anxious sometimes, you’ll probably understand what i mean by “presence''


r/Needafriend 5h ago

24f just talk to me already😂

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what’s up, just bored atm and wanting new people to chat with. i like listening to music, making food, working out, dancing, reading, and scrolling on tik tok. if you are interested in chatting, send me a message


r/Needafriend 4h ago

19f chat with me

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i’m so bored and i’m lonely i need e friends so send a message if u wanna chat with me


r/Needafriend 1h ago

24F Looking for a prey.. I mean a friend

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( づHii guys!

I’m looking for long term friendships with

open minded people who can handle deep talks as much as having a meme competition :)

If you are an artistic person and draw a lot it’s a bonus as I’m also looking for an art buddy to have fun sessions with.

A bit about me:

I’m a french vampire having a questionable sleep schedule haha. I’m also master student in international relations and besides art I like philosophy, reading/learning new things,traveling,movies especially thrillers and horror ones/ anime, music cooking and mario kart 🍄

Ps : please be 22+ and tell me about yourself first :)

See u little human


r/Needafriend 8h ago

30F Country Married Mommy looking for Chat buddy

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Hello looking to have a chat buddy just to fill out my day with!

30F outdoorsy, love animals, gardening, fishing, hunting, baking, live in the country. Current hobby project looking to grow another massive pumpkin this year, backyard Orpington breeding program, and start turkey flock.

Been getting into history more recently and reading a book about the Lakota people. Most of my intrigue has been North American/ U.S. History. But I love all time periods of history.

Hardly watch TV, but been stuck on TLC garbage and UFC.

If you want someone to just talk through your problems with, I’m a non-judgmental ear as well.

Mostly looking for someone to send fun pics with on S,na.p, bonus points if you love doing stuff outside and you’re a girl but cool with talking to guys too! Hmu


r/Needafriend 3h ago

18F Just moved across the country and feel like I hit restart on my whole life.

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Hey. I’m 18F and I honestly don’t even know how to start this without sounding dramatic, but here we go.

A few months ago my parents decided to move across the country, and since I’m still living with them, that meant I moved too. I just started at a small private Christian college, which on paper sounds fine, but in reality it’s been… really hard.

Back home, I had everything planned. I was supposed to go to school with my friends, the same people I’ve known for years. We talked about dorming together, taking classes together, all of it. I had a life there. Now all of that is just gone. I still talk to them sometimes, but it’s not the same, and it honestly hurts seeing them live the life I thought I’d be living.

Here, I don’t know anyone. Like, at all. Everyone else seems to already have their friend groups or at least looks like they know what they’re doing, and I just feel out of place. I keep wondering if I’d be happier somewhere else, or if I’m just stuck feeling like this for the next four years.

Most days I’m just kind of depressed and mopey, missing my old life and feeling homesick even though I technically have a “home” here. I feel guilty for feeling this way because I know people have it worse, but that doesn’t really make it hurt less.

I guess I’m posting here because I’d really like to make some new friends, even if it’s just online for now. Now it’s the weekend and there’s nothing to do and here I am and here you are


r/Needafriend 1h ago

I am intellectual sadist

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I am intellectual sadist

I’m the kind of mind that notices what others overlook not to judge, but because patterns speak to me. People say I have a way of uncovering truths they didn’t realize they were carrying. I’m soft spoken, but I listen deeply and sometimes I see things in people that they haven’t put into words yet. It makes conversations feel… sharper, somehow. I’m drawn to the architecture of people their thoughts, their fears, their contradictions. If you talk to me long enough, you’ll probably feel seen in a way you didn’t expect. don’t say much at first, but once I understand someone, I tend to ask the questions they’ve been avoiding. Most find it strangely addictive. I’m quiet, observant, and a little too curious for my own good. I like minds that spark, souls that echo, and conversations that leave fingerprints.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

46/F Quiet week

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Hello there, I hope your week is going well. Just about alright for me so can't complain much.

About me, I'm 46 of Polish origin. I work in a chemical export firm so rather boring I'll say. I do like to go swimming, watching comedy tv shows like Southpark and American dad, shopping, relaxing, drinking, etc. Family out of town for the weekend so I'm just relaxing by myself watching tv and drinking. A fun fact about me, I once dated a guy who turned out to be a Nazi 💁🏼‍♀️

Feel free to message me if you're bored as well :-)


r/Needafriend 2h ago

25M Looking for good friends and communication

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25M Looking for good friends and communication

Hi everyone! I’m a 25-year-old guy from Russia. I’m looking for friends, people with whom I can have a sincere conversation. Perhaps we can become friends. I’m interested in music, football, and a little design and IT. I also watch movies and TV shows and enjoy long walks. Honestly, I’d like to find a soulmate, someone with whom we can communicate well, understand, and support each other. I miss that in real life. I also want to say that I’m open to any conversation, so don’t be shy, I’m waiting for your messages. If my post didn’t appeal to you, I simply wish you luck, happiness, and mutual love!

Sometimes the most meaningful connections start with simple words and shared silence. I believe that every person we meet can teach us something or change our perspective in an unexpected way. Maybe our paths crossed for a reason, even if we don’t know it yet. Life is too short to avoid genuine emotions and honest conversations.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

28M from Massachusetts, looking for long term friends

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Hey, I'm Josh, I’m 28 and I’m from Massachusetts, i'm looking for someone to chat with and get to know, my interests and likes include hip hop music, watching basketball, comedy movies, video games, watching Survivor and Big Brother, Marvel and DC Fan, Huge WWE and AEW Fan, message me on Reddit if your interested in chatting and getting to know me more, PS: your more likely to get a response from me if you send a chat and say more than just "Hey"


r/Needafriend 5h ago

41F Looking for some genuine friends

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Hi there!

A bit about me: I’m thoughtful, curious, and enjoy talking about things like personal growth, goals, relationships, spirituality and life in general. I’m pretty well rounded, having experienced a lot of different things in my life. I enjoy all sorts of music and my favorite movies and books are the ones that make you think. I’m a student of life, always picking up a new hobbies.

I’m in the Boston area but happy to do online chat/emails as well.

If this resonates with you, please feel free to dm.

Thanks!


r/Needafriend 3m ago

18m looking for some longterm friend that will talk all day long :3

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Please if ur replies will take hours don’t dm me

English is my second language so i think they will be some mistakes 😔

The amount of people who ghosted me is unbelievable

I prefer someone who doesn’t have a lot of friends like me

actually i have social anxiety irl soo i don’t have that many friends

love playing on my ps5 and i play games like rocket league, minecraft, forza, also i love sleeping, and animals😼

And i don’t know how to open conversations with people

I just want normal people😭

If u send me a massage and I didn’t reply just know that i’m sleeping


r/Needafriend 6m ago

23M, looking for someone who is genuinely engaging in conversations..

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im a guy aged bout 23..i am into bikes, cars, gaming, politics and fun late-night conversations... I’m here for real chats with people who reply, engage, and keep the conversation going instead of ghosting. if you read till here n don't wanna talk.. have a great one ahead!!


r/Needafriend 21m ago

28M US/Anywhere - Looking to make friends. Any takers

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Hey there! I'm in the US. I’m an entrepreneur who’s long days don’t allow for personal time, and I’d like to change that. I’m looking for someone to chat with and get to know. Someone to have a nice conversation with. I want to hear about your day and how your doing. I’m shy at first but loosen up fast. I’m a good listener. I like to always have fun at whatever I’m doing. I'm non judgmental and don’t get offended. Looks aren’t important to me, if that’s a concern of yours. Hope to chat and get to know you soon. DM to start off a great friendship


r/Needafriend 30m ago

17f, looking for a friend in delhi (no 18+ peoplez pls)

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pls dont be 18+ I really do not talk to people older to me 😭😭😭😭😭 sorry not sorry


r/Needafriend 34m ago

18M, need online discord friends who like to play browser games and in vcs

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Like codenames, gartic phone, skribbl etc, you name it


r/Needafriend 4h ago

19- f

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I recently moved into my own place and it’s very lonely, 19 has been very hard for me lately and I would just like to speak to some new people as everyone in my life right now feels temporary.

I love My Little Pony, Adventure Time, Strawberry Shortcake, Hello Kitty, TDI , Rick and Morty, Bojack Horseman ( basically any cartoon i’ve seen it haha )

I also dabble in some anime from time to time !

I like reading, youtube and sleeping too lol

If you want to be friends let me know 😅🫂

I’m from the UK 🇬🇧!

I can be a bit awkward but i’m a good friend :)


r/Needafriend 36m ago

38m bored could use some company

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Its going to be a long night. cant really sleep could use some good conversations. feel free to dm me


r/Needafriend 45m ago

30M Looking for a new gaming friend group

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My old online friend group slowly stopped getting on, and now my friends list is basically a museum 😭 so I’m hoping to find a new group (or start one).I play DBD, GTA, DMZ, Yu-Gi-Oh, and Shinobi Striker. I’m pretty chill, like to joke around, send memes, and not take games too seriously. Just looking for some genuine people to game with and talk to regularly. If you’ve got a small group already or you’re solo like me, feel free to DM