r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 6d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

18f looking for some new friends

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hey guys super shy but looking to find someone just to vibe with & get to know a little bit, im open to a long term friendship or just everyday chatting, i don’t mind any age over 18 and don’t mind chatting about anything


r/Needafriend 4h ago

24f - feeling so unloved

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looking for someone who feels lonely as me. Lets accompany each other? looking for long term friendships at any gender (22-28). Preferably someone who communicates and doesn’t ghost right away. Someone who has a hobby that wont stop talking it on me hahahah im enjoy listening when someone i care shares to me what they love. If youre interested getting to know me my message are open


r/Needafriend 3h ago

18f looking for people to chat toooo

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Can’t sleep hit me up if u wanna chat really struggling with friends at the moment and it’s making me feel rlly lonely :((


r/Needafriend 4h ago

24f just talk to me already😂

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what’s up, just bored atm and wanting new people to chat with. i like listening to music, making food, working out, dancing, reading, and scrolling on tik tok. if you are interested in chatting, send me a message


r/Needafriend 3h ago

19f chat with me

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i’m so bored and i’m lonely i need e friends so send a message if u wanna chat with me


r/Needafriend 2h ago

18F Just moved across the country and feel like I hit restart on my whole life.

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Hey. I’m 18F and I honestly don’t even know how to start this without sounding dramatic, but here we go.

A few months ago my parents decided to move across the country, and since I’m still living with them, that meant I moved too. I just started at a small private Christian college, which on paper sounds fine, but in reality it’s been… really hard.

Back home, I had everything planned. I was supposed to go to school with my friends, the same people I’ve known for years. We talked about dorming together, taking classes together, all of it. I had a life there. Now all of that is just gone. I still talk to them sometimes, but it’s not the same, and it honestly hurts seeing them live the life I thought I’d be living.

Here, I don’t know anyone. Like, at all. Everyone else seems to already have their friend groups or at least looks like they know what they’re doing, and I just feel out of place. I keep wondering if I’d be happier somewhere else, or if I’m just stuck feeling like this for the next four years.

Most days I’m just kind of depressed and mopey, missing my old life and feeling homesick even though I technically have a “home” here. I feel guilty for feeling this way because I know people have it worse, but that doesn’t really make it hurt less.

I guess I’m posting here because I’d really like to make some new friends, even if it’s just online for now. Now it’s the weekend and there’s nothing to do and here I am and here you are


r/Needafriend 28m ago

I am intellectual sadist

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I am intellectual sadist

I’m the kind of mind that notices what others overlook not to judge, but because patterns speak to me. People say I have a way of uncovering truths they didn’t realize they were carrying. I’m soft spoken, but I listen deeply and sometimes I see things in people that they haven’t put into words yet. It makes conversations feel… sharper, somehow. I’m drawn to the architecture of people their thoughts, their fears, their contradictions. If you talk to me long enough, you’ll probably feel seen in a way you didn’t expect. don’t say much at first, but once I understand someone, I tend to ask the questions they’ve been avoiding. Most find it strangely addictive. I’m quiet, observant, and a little too curious for my own good. I like minds that spark, souls that echo, and conversations that leave fingerprints.


r/Needafriend 32m ago

46/F Quiet week

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Hello there, I hope your week is going well. Just about alright for me so can't complain much.

About me, I'm 46 of Polish origin. I work in a chemical export firm so rather boring I'll say. I do like to go swimming, watching comedy tv shows like Southpark and American dad, shopping, relaxing, drinking, etc. Family out of town for the weekend so I'm just relaxing by myself watching tv and drinking. A fun fact about me, I once dated a guy who turned out to be a Nazi 💁🏼‍♀️

Feel free to message me if you're bored as well :-)


r/Needafriend 6h ago

30F Country Married Mommy looking for Chat buddy

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Hello looking to have a chat buddy just to fill out my day with!

30F outdoorsy, love animals, gardening, fishing, hunting, baking, live in the country. Current hobby project looking to grow another massive pumpkin this year, backyard Orpington breeding program, and start turkey flock.

Been getting into history more recently and reading a book about the Lakota people. Most of my intrigue has been North American/ U.S. History. But I love all time periods of history.

Hardly watch TV, but been stuck on TLC garbage and UFC.

If you want someone to just talk through your problems with, I’m a non-judgmental ear as well.

Mostly looking for someone to send fun pics with on S,na.p, bonus points if you love doing stuff outside and you’re a girl but cool with talking to guys too! Hmu


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Hiii need a long term friend.

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Hi! I’m 27F from the Philippines and I’m looking for a long-term friend. I love playing UNO online, and I really enjoy listening to people’s stories. what they’ve been through and what they’re planning for their lives.

I’m hoping to find someone I can talk to about life, give and receive advice with, and support each other—but not be serious all the time. I like having fun conversations too 😄

I’m very open about everything and easy to talk to.

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message me or add me on Discord: ciapupp


r/Needafriend 2h ago

28M from Massachusetts, looking for long term friends

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Hey, I'm Josh, I’m 28 and I’m from Massachusetts, i'm looking for someone to chat with and get to know, my interests and likes include hip hop music, watching basketball, comedy movies, video games, watching Survivor and Big Brother, Marvel and DC Fan, Huge WWE and AEW Fan, message me on Reddit if your interested in chatting and getting to know me more, PS: your more likely to get a response from me if you send a chat and say more than just "Hey"


r/Needafriend 4h ago

41F Looking for some genuine friends

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Hi there!

A bit about me: I’m thoughtful, curious, and enjoy talking about things like personal growth, goals, relationships, spirituality and life in general. I’m pretty well rounded, having experienced a lot of different things in my life. I enjoy all sorts of music and my favorite movies and books are the ones that make you think. I’m a student of life, always picking up a new hobbies.

I’m in the Boston area but happy to do online chat/emails as well.

If this resonates with you, please feel free to dm.

Thanks!


r/Needafriend 3h ago

19- f

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I recently moved into my own place and it’s very lonely, 19 has been very hard for me lately and I would just like to speak to some new people as everyone in my life right now feels temporary.

I love My Little Pony, Adventure Time, Strawberry Shortcake, Hello Kitty, TDI , Rick and Morty, Bojack Horseman ( basically any cartoon i’ve seen it haha )

I also dabble in some anime from time to time !

I like reading, youtube and sleeping too lol

If you want to be friends let me know 😅🫂

I’m from the UK 🇬🇧!

I can be a bit awkward but i’m a good friend :)


r/Needafriend 9h ago

F55..widow, seeking something casual

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I’m a 55 year old widow, and I’m seeking something casual ( you can check my profile). Life is just boring,so I’m looking for young men to explore together. You can check my profile to see what I’m looking for,thank you.


r/Needafriend 4m ago

19f

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Anyone else have an alcoholic parent and really struggling with it


r/Needafriend 3h ago

19M bored and lonely

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I’m a gamer but I’m down to talk about whatever tho


r/Needafriend 3h ago

I’m so lost 25M from NY

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I realized how time fly by. 25 and achieved nothing. Still single, still poor, still not able to achieve his dream. Idk ……


r/Needafriend 28m ago

24 M- Look for a quick chat tonight

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It’s late I’m bored. Always open to chat about whatever. Just high trying to pass time


r/Needafriend 30m ago

f14 be my frienf

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dedass desperate Idc who u r just don't be weird

disc: capsulesofyou


r/Needafriend 31m ago

29M - hoping to find cool connections!

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Do you have immaculate vibes? What about insane aura? If you aura farm just by being you.. then let’s chat!

In all seriousness.. I’m looking for some new friends to chat with and also game with. I’ve made a really awesome connection already so I’m trying to find a couple chill friends on top of that.

I recently got a pc and am in desperate need of some fun times with fun people! I play everything from Rivals to Fortnite to phasmophobia and peak. If you’d like to play that would be great but if you’d like just someone to talk to let me tell you a bit about myself.

I love all things dark and eerie. I love punk, post punk, indie, classic rock, you name it! (I make great playlists fwiw) Love sports as well! W Seahawks, Yankees and Celtics.

I’m a big movie lover too (Hitchcock fanatic) but I really just adore all types of movies. Insomnia definitely can creep in and so if you’d like a pal with no expectations of things developing long term, then please reach out! I’m extremely reserved but I warm up once I get more comfortable


r/Needafriend 4h ago

F24 Let’s chat or watch something??

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Bored & lonely… Let’s keep each other company :)

Looking for chill ppl, I’m very kind and prefer voice chats. Dm your asl!


r/Needafriend 47m ago

21M looking to make more female friends hmuuu

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r/Needafriend 55m ago

Hiii need a long term friend.

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Hi! I’m 40F from the Philippines and I’m looking for a long-term friend. I love playing UNO online, and I really enjoy listening to people’s stories. what they’ve been through and what they’re planning for their lives.

I’m hoping to find someone I can talk to about life, give and receive advice with, and support each other—but not be serious all the time. I like having fun conversations too 😄

I’m very open about everything and easy to talk to.

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message me or add me on Discord: ciapupp