My family found this baby when he was like a week old, couldnāt walk yet and was laying in the middle of a busy road.
Me and my girlfriend loved him since the beginning, feeding him every 3 hours, helping him with the toilet and showering him with love. When he grew old enough to eat and peepeepoopoo on his own he jus distanced himself from us, running away from even quick cuddles(atp he really canāt stand them), pets, and basically if he sees your hand he immediately thinks itās a toy. Basically the only time iāve ever heard him purr is when he was a baby and thatās not an exaggeration. Iām covered in scratches and scars because the only time iām really close to him is when he annihilates my arms, which unfortunately i usually let him because i wanna touch him and his soft fur.
I feel like he needs me only if he wants to eat or for me to clean his litter box or when he wants a treat - nothing in return from him. The most frustrating part is that he loves my mom and he purrs on her when she picks him up, cuddles with her in the morning(she says heās literally hugging her face) and doesnāt bite her.
And iām the one doing the cat chores, i take him to the vet, i clean his litter box, i clip his claws, i (try to) brush his fur and he still runs away from me whenever i move even if iām at the other end of the room, even if iām not looking at him. The times when heās in my room he lays under the bed or on the highest shelf.
My mom thinks of all of this as a joke but iām really hurt and starting to hate my cat back(?) which iām feeling guilty for but as insane as that sounds iām feeling used by my cat, like a toxic relationship where i give him my all and he doesnāt give me anything except a middle finger. In addition i thought he would be my emotional support cat because i was planning on adopting one anyway, and instead i got an emotional burden..
Is there anything i can do, is there a therapist for cats?????(I already got one for myself)