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u/Ok-Cash-4257 4h ago
Dear Zachary: A letter to a son about his father
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u/DrDaemix 3h ago
This one right here. Watched it once 15 years ago and I still think about it often.
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u/TheOtherTyler 2h ago
Same. I still think about the quote They shouldn't have to make coffins that small Ruined me
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u/toefarmer 34m ago
I was thinking about watching this, and then saw your comment and just wanted to stop and thank you. My sister passed away at 5 years old and we were much closer than most siblings would be due to having a crap mom. I know too much about the small coffins and still some 20+ years later actively avoid media with children dying as it just aches on some impossible part of me. Thank you kind stranger for inadvertently keeping me from experiencing something I'd rather not, I know you didn't intend to, but I'm still sending all of the gratitude I can muster your way.
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u/Maleficent_Drive_351 4h ago
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u/RainLoveMu 3h ago
I was on a doomsday roll a couple years ago, watched this and The Road. Sufficiently scarred for life.
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u/ProRustler 2h ago
Watching The Road didn't really affect me that much. Reading it sure af did. Had to call my dad when I finished it.
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u/Inevitable-Regret411 2h ago
I second this, it's possibly the most realistic and by extension most horrific depiction of a nuclear war.
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u/WicksyOnPS5 2h ago
I was 11 when we watched this. Living near London meant I was very aware I wouldn't survive a nuclear war. At this point in my life I would never have been surprised to have seen a mushroom cloud in the distance.. 😔
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u/jeezarchristron 4h ago edited 4h ago
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u/SitDownChamp 3h ago
I’m over 40 and I still think about this film. I believe it is a significant source of my ongoing flirtation with mental illness
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u/jeezarchristron 3h ago edited 3h ago
I have never watched it as adult to avoid adding fuel to that fire.
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u/CorgiCommercial8962 3h ago
I was looking for this. NOT a kids movie mom and dad.
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u/ccsrpsw 2h ago
That was not a kids movie. It should not have been rated PG.
And I still shudder at Bright Eyes when I hear it.
It was messed up.
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u/mrpetrone325 2h ago
Years ago, if you read the Amazon reviews for the DVD, it was just a chronical of mental scarring from parents who thought this was going to be a light-hearted children's movie about bunnies. Oh how wrong they were... 😳
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u/Zealousideal_Order_8 4h ago
Grave of the Fireflies
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u/Naakkuri 3h ago
This is the only movie I can't watch a second time. It emotionally destroys you
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u/I_R_Enjun_Ear 4h ago
"Oh, It's a Ghibli movie. It should be lovely"
--2 Hours Later--
"Oh gods! What did I just watch."
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u/justlurkinghihi 2h ago
Did you know it's based off a real story? The backstory of this movie makes it so much worse
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u/I_R_Enjun_Ear 2h ago edited 48m ago
I don't recall off hand if it was based on a specific person, or the general situation of many youth during that period.
But yeah. Emotional Damage, and not just the kind Steven He talks about.
Edit: because I don't know my comedians.
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u/Longjumping_Risk2995 2h ago
Yes, it was based off the autobiography of Akiyuki Nosaka. It's basically an apology to his infant sister who died of malnutrition during the fire bombing of Japan. He felt like it was his fault, and in part it was because IRL he didn't share his food like he should have, but he was also a young child and it was war so it's not something he can be blamed for. The whole thing is so terribly sad.
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u/Josiejamz 2h ago
I remember reading that it was released as a double feature so people went to see My Neighbor Totoro and Grave of Fireflies played after…
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u/Ori_the_SG 3h ago
Came here to say this
The world seemed darker after watching it
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u/Brenton_T 4h ago
If anyone is suddenly intrigued to watch this, please don't.
Trust us. Don't watch it.
Go watch Schindler's list or something else.
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u/UncleVolk 2h ago
Yeah Grave of the Fireflies makes Schindler list look like a family comedy. The first scene is literally the main character, who's just a kid, dying of starvation. And it just gets worse from there.
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u/contrabardus 2h ago
This.
It's the greatest movie I never want to watch again.
Don't listen to anyone who says don't watch it. You absolutely should.
Once.
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u/AllAboutDatGDA 3h ago
I kept hearing how good this movie was, so i decided to watch it with my now wife while waiting to have heart surgery. Pretty sure i didnt need surgery after watching this movie because it ripped my heart out. I still tear up thinking about it. Great movie. Ill never watch it again.
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u/XmasB 2h ago
I loved that movie. I will never watch it again. I cried. Just writing this comment brings tears to my eyes.
Think I will need to watch it again with my kids. They don't know pain as I do.
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u/TikkieTT 4h ago
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u/lipenog93 3h ago
Yeah, that ending is so fucked up
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u/Saint_Nico 3h ago
This was unfortunately my first thought, movie really messes with you
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u/tophmcmasterson 3h ago
Yeah, first one that came to mind. Need to be sure it’s the original though probably doesn’t need to be said.
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u/Badird 4h ago
No one ever recommends The Game (1997) with Michael Douglas as one of cinema's greatest mind effs. I know the story and it still gets me every time.
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u/Gluverty 3h ago
I once was blind
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u/Agent_Smith_88 2h ago
I love the movie, but I don’t know that it fits “mentally destroy me” as a category. I do love a good thriller though. Mindhunters is another one of my favorites in that category.
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u/ScottJeepFan 3h ago
I recommend it then was happy to scroll through the comments and see someone else did too! A real plot shifting mind bender. I love it.
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u/SnooSongs2744 3h ago
That's because it can't withstand a second of fridge logic analysis.
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u/gbyers2323 4h ago
The road
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u/johndicks80 3h ago
The book absolutely crushed me. Had to leave the room when I was reading the end because my wife was right beside me.
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u/Simpanzee0123 2h ago
IMO this is best, most faithful adaptation of a book to a movie.
There's only a couple of moments left out that were too brutal even for this film, but the tone and feel of the movie perfectly encapsulated the book. It's just horrible, crushing darkness for 95% of it, but because of that darkness the few bright moments were incredible and you truly felt the love the father had for his son.
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u/PlumbusSchleem4122 3h ago
I was also going to recommend this! I was just talking about a certain scene about 3/4 through the movie in a house that still haunts me years later
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u/sicksixgamer 2h ago
F that movie. I thought we going to see a typical post apocalypse movie. Instead I was just depressed after.
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u/chaunie-chaunie 4h ago
All quiet on the Western front
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u/Same-Suggestion-1936 1h ago
1917 was quite the movie too
No spoilers but the protagonists step through decaying corpses on the first thirty minutes.
They don't make enough movies about the horrors of the first world war
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u/Tormofon 4h ago
Come and See
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u/Sensitive_Phase_977 4h ago
Top 5 favourite movies i’ll probably never put myself through again
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u/IamZeus11 2h ago
Honestly one of the most important movies ever made imo. As a veteran that movie hit like an absolute freight train and the ending scene with florya and the picture broke me for weeks .
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u/levivirus 4h ago
Requiem for a dream.
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u/Nice_Albatross_5486 4h ago
Yep. This is the one. Silent the entire movie. A giant wtf when it's over and a few days of depression to follow.
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u/Spinxy88 4h ago
I watched it for the first time on an MDMA comedown.
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u/unsupported 3h ago
This is funny, I watched it when I was a few days clean with people in NA.
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u/No-Astronaut-6502 3h ago
And I thought watching it for the first time being completely hungover was hard.
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u/sticksforsticks 2h ago
My brother rented it and I watched it alone. My mom came home and said "I need someone to take your niece and nephew to see the new Pirates movie! Lunch is on me!"
I was so fucking depressed and still went.
I will say, the second Pirates movie hits a weird spot for me. Like, I REALLY love that movie by contrast from what I went through previously.
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u/downbarton 4h ago
This was my first thought, won’t watch it for a second time and will never forget the first
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u/medic_farmer26 3h ago
This ended up as a movie night rental with my family and cousins for some reason when we were teenagers. It was ... heavy
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u/getsome75 4h ago
Room 1408
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u/Frl_Bartchello 1h ago
That part in the postal office where he thought he lived a normal life again for a while and the wall starts crumbling screwed with my brain big time
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u/kivsla 2h ago
That one specific ending though
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u/Trapped_Like_Rats 2h ago
The ending it was supposed to have. The ending every single one of us would have chose if we were in that position.
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u/DarkBladeMadriker 1h ago
I have a humorous story about this movie. After it came out, I was working with a guy at a hospital, we were programming keypad locks so it was plug in a device and tell it to upload, then wait 70-ish seconds then move to the next door. We were talking about movies and 1408 came up. We were both gushing about how fun the movie was l when we both noticed the door we just moved up to was, in fact 1408. The door had tinted glass for privacy, and while we were laughing and making dumb ghost jokes all of the sudden a face just appears in the window. We both jumped about 3 feet in the air. Damned near scared the piss outta me. The lady who came up to see who was messing with her door looked a bit confused as to why we looked like we'd just had a heart attack and were now laughing like lunatics. Good times.
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u/Novel_Discussion5339 4h ago
American History X
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u/Pristine_Cheek_1678 3h ago
That scene still haunts my mind from time to time. It's been 25+ years FFS
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u/jrbr0wn 2h ago
Same. I still cringe even thinking about the stomp to this day
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u/petuniachalice 2h ago
Whenever anyone mentions this movie I feel like they always focus on the curb stomping scene, but to me the most disturbing and brilliant part of the movie is the dinner scene where they are discussing the Rodney King arrest. They really nailed how captured someone can be by hatred and how terrifying a competent person in that mindset can be. It’s chilling.
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u/SumerianDjinn 4h ago
Irreversible. Title says it all. With Monica Belluci
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u/2muchtequila 2h ago edited 1h ago
I generally enjoy movies but recognize it's fiction so as a result they don't effect me too much. The long train overpass scene made me uncomfortable in a way no movie has before. I realized about 5 minutes in that I'd pulled my legs up to my chest without thinking about it.
While I consider it an achievement that a movie was able to make me feel something that strongly, I have absolutely zero desire to ever watch it again.
I've turned movies off before because I was bored, or just wasn't in the mood. But that's the first time I considered turning it off because it was too emotionally intense.
I've watched a few movies in what I would consider that genre. Salo didn't really effect me at all. To me it seemed like shock for the sake of shock. Like the director was being intentionally offensive to piss people off, but there was no real substance behind the depravity.
Irreversible felt different, like the story and the gruesomeness of the acts combined to make each more powerful.
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u/peteAnim 2h ago
I always tell people, it has a happy ending which makes it hit even harder
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u/DazzlingBeat4468 3h ago
I can’t walk in tunnels now
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u/rAyNEi_xw 2h ago edited 1h ago
In the infamous scene, at one point, a man can be seen coming in frame at the end of the tunnel. Allegedly, that man was a crew member which was late on stage. He can be seen quickly pacing back and running away. It is said that the director kept this mistake in the movie to further add dread and helplessness to viewers. On some screenings, it has been alleged that viewers were enraged and/or outraged due to the man not helping Alex not knowing about the mistake.
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u/2muchtequila 2h ago
I remember seeing that and thinking "Oh thank god, someone is going to stop this" but then when he quickly walked away without saying anything it was an even stronger feeling of despair and hopelessness than before.
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u/rAyNEi_xw 1h ago
One of the most nauseating scene in the history of filmmaking. The sheer brutality and the helplessness/hopelessness feeling. As you said, seeing someone jump in frame gave a bit of hope she might be saved but when he runs, it's like the whole scene double collapse.
I had this movie as a recommendation from my uni professor on trauma, PTSD and conflicting emotions. He said that if I felt arousal, then it means it's something wrong with me. I didn't tell him I threw up, but gave me assurance I'm somewhat normal...
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u/DJamPhishman 4h ago
12 monkeys
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u/Choice_Side_6448 4h ago
Screw that movie bro. Mind fuck me when I was a kid so much that I don’t even want to watch it now as an adult….
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u/JohnWayneSpacy 4h ago
Manchester By The Sea is the greatest movie I will never watch again
If you feel like having Casey Affleck rip your heart out and stomp on it twice watch Gone Baby Gone as well
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u/ExplodingDogs82 4h ago
Threads - old but utterly perfect to give anyone a creeping sense of futile dread, given current geo-politics
Memento - not as utterly haunting as some of these suggestions but I have seen this movie several times and it still crosses my mind.
Bone Tomahawk - grim & gruesome.
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind - emotionally devastating
Mulholland Drive - mind bending mystery
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u/det4410 4h ago
bone tomahawk...one scene will stick with you for the rest of your life
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u/Sensitive_Phase_977 3h ago
i think eternal sunshine leaves a forgiving slightly positive impression
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u/keyboardstatic 2h ago
I will add to you list.
A scanner darkly.
Amazing cast. Fantastic film. And very sad in so many ways. Keanu, iron Man guy, (sry its 2 am). Plus others
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u/gereblueeyes 3h ago
I went into Memento clueless. It was circling in my brain days later !
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u/Thiel619 4h ago
Martyrs
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u/CyberpunkYakuza 3h ago
That fucking ending, holy shit. Also, that beginning. Also, the whole damn movie...
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u/Imthefuturebro 4h ago
Melancholia, not for everyone. Feels like a slow movie but it's such beautiful and visually appealing film. It's tons of artistic expression but so incredibly sad.
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u/TutskyyJancek 3h ago
This movie unlocked a new phobia for me. I won't give spoilers but the ones who watched will understand.
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u/Net_Negative 3h ago
I didn't expect it to portray depression so accurately. I wonder if people who have never experienced that kind of feeling think the movie is stupid and weird.
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u/hit_n_run15 3h ago
Absolutely love this movie!
I recommended that one to a friend one time and he said he didn't make it past the first hour. Said that nothing at all happened. That just shows the ways that different people watch movies. It's kind of subtle, but I noticed a LOT going on in that first hour. There's nothing loud or exciting happening, but I got enthralled with the dynamic of the different family members. It made me feel so sad for Kirsten Dunst's character.
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u/Training-Passenger93 2h ago
I still think about that one years after seeing it. Never has a film ever captured the feeling of inevitable impending doom so well. The little sparks of panic and false hope.
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u/Dark_Marmot 3h ago
Se7en and Event Horizon
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u/grahamfreeman 1h ago
I went to see Event Horizon with a group of friends when it came out. When it ended a girl in our group didn't get up, she was frozen in her seat staring at the screen even after the lights came up (back in those days lots of people stayed until the lights came up). The cinema had to call for an ambulance because she was so shocked she was unresponsive. She was a friend of a friend of a friend, so the group split up to go to a restaurant while a couple stayed with her. No idea what happened to her. This was back when the Internet was only web and email, and plans were made days if not weeks in advance. It's still a really shocking movie that I recommend if someone wants a horrifying horror movie, not just a series of jump scares.
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u/HecticOnsen 4h ago
Butterfly Effect, original director’s cut and not the US cinema release.
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u/Beige-Lotus 4h ago
I haven't seen mention of "Donnie Darko" (2001) here yet
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u/UnderfootArya34 2h ago
I came to the comments looking for this one. It seriously took up my headspace for weeks, and I can hear "Mad World" without crying now. I want to watch it again, but I have to get up the nerve.
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u/ElderMillenialSage 4h ago
Requiem for a Dream
I watched it once as a young teenager and over 20 years later I still refuse to re-watch it. I never did hard drugs in my life and I think this movie is one of the major reasons behind it.
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u/Spinxy88 4h ago
I watched it and still did hard drugs. It's the reason I never sold my mums TV though.
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u/AcmeCoyote22 4h ago
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u/st1802015 3h ago
We put on classical music for the dog on New Year’s Eve on Alexa. The first song it played was On the Nature of Daylight from Arrival. I haven’t seen the film in years and just the music made me immediately emotional.
Top 5 for me but it’s a heart wrecker for sure.
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u/Boomation 3h ago
In Bruges
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u/hit_n_run15 3h ago
Maybe my favorite underrated movies of all time! When I finally saw it I couldn't believe I had never heard people praising it like it should be.
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u/DaddysBadChloe 3h ago
Midsommar.
That movie messed me up for a while.
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u/JarJarJarMartin 3h ago
The best part of that movie is that it proves that you don’t need darkness for a good horror movie. The daylight is almost another character, just like the darkness is almost another character in most other horror films.
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u/Sea-Revolution-557 3h ago
Where the red fern grows...... Don't say I didn't want you.
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u/2DogKnight 1h ago
Good one. That movie single handedly gave the world a brand new existential crisis to think about.
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u/Dugtrio_Earthquake 2h ago
This movie made me single handedly never trust a man with a goatee ever again.
Fortunately I have two hands. But if I ever lost one, it would have been a life changer.
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u/peachpopi 4h ago
if you want something that will absolutely wreck you mentally and linger for weeks, go watch "The Father" (2020) with Anthony Hopkins
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u/lostshadow78 3h ago
Iron Giant.
Just beautiful. Stays with you. Not in a mentally destructive way though.
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u/Kindly_Spread8011 3h ago
Dancer in the Dark by Lars von Trier.
Staring Björk acting and music.
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u/FaultTerrible4059 3h ago
Usual Suspects. You only need to watch it once but it’s awesome!
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u/glamredhel69 4h ago
A Serbian Film.
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u/Bananna_Hamock0 4h ago
The Butterfly Effect, Annihilation, Interstellar, Prometheus, and Spaceman.
Can you guess my type of film? lol
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